There were a lot of talented and attractive actresses back in the day and the stunning Yvonne De Carlo was definitely one of them.
She catapulted to fame through starring in the CBS sitcom The Munsters, only for a tragic accident to suddenly halt her career.
The legendary Yvonne De Carlo was a sultry and versatile actress with a movie career spanning over six decades. Born in 1922, she’s definitely one of the most prominent celebrities to come out of Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada.
As a young girl, De Carlo was abandoned by her father. She was raised by her mother in poor circumstances – but she always knew that she wanted to be an actress, and De Carlo wrote her own plays as a 13-year-old. During her time in Hollywood, the blue-eyed brunette proved that she was the real deal – she could do it all. It wasn’t just the fact that her beauty was overwhelming, De Carlo seemed to be a very down-to-earth lady as well.
Her career in movies and television is a testimony to her strength of character and determination. Among many other things, she played Moses’ wife in the epic film The Ten Commandments – though she’s best known for her role on the tv series The Munsters.
No one could have played Lily Munster better than De Carlo – she really nailed the role of a vampire in the monster sitcom. To this day, many of us can still remember the famous line when Lily, the matriarch of the monster family, says, “I’ve never heard of anything so outrageous in all my LIVES!”
The show propelled Yvonne De Carlo towards TV stardom – the role defined her career, and she gained a whole new generation of fans. It could even be said that The Munsters actually renewed De Carlos’s career. She had a good run in Tinseltown even before the show – she was often called the most beautiful girl in the world, and the audience loved her.
But the truth is that De Carlo’s star quality had begun to fade around the time she was cast in the monster sitcom. The Canadian-American actress had turned 42 when she was offered the role of Lily. And no one could have guessed that The Munsters would be hailed as one of the best television series of all time.
“It meant security,” De Carlo later said. “It gave me a new, young audience I wouldn’t have had otherwise. It made me ‘hot’ again, which I wasn’t for a while.”
“But I never estimated it would become this cult thing. It took two hours of makeup to make me seem like that. It ran for two huge seasons, then CBS quarreled with the creators about reruns as we got canceled. A movie in color in 1966 [‘Munster, Go Home!’] showed off everything in reds and greens on my face. Boy, was I ugly.”
After The Munsters, De Carlo continued to appear both in TV series and on stage. As one of the most respected actresses in the business, she had fans in every generation and no problem finding new and exciting projects.
Unfortunately, De Carlo had a pretty tough time of things during the last years of her life. It all goes back to when the actress met stuntman Robert ”Bob” Morgan on set in 1955.
The couple obviously had some chemistry, but Morgan was married at the time and Yvonne didn’t want to take things further. According to herself, she had ”no intention of causing that marriage to break up.”
Her husband lost his leg
When Morgan’s wife died, he and De Carlo met again on the set of The Ten Commandments in Egypt. They fell in love, got married, and had two sons together, Bruce Ross and Michael.
But living with a stuntman and daredevil came with a price. Morgan and De Carlo struggled to make their marriage work, but everything changed when the former was hit by a moving log train while shooting the 1962 movie How the West Was Won.
The accident cost Morgan his leg. He almost died performing the stunt, and the traumatic experience would affect the whole family. After the incident, medical bills piled up and De Carlo worked extremely hard to support her family. Yvonne, who had basically retired from acting by that point, had to go back to work to pay the bills.
“Before the accident, we were on the verge of breaking up, but when they took me to the hospital I just choked up and only one thought filled my mind: I don’t want my husband to die,” she said.
The Hollywood couple stayed together until 1973.
Losing her son
Sadly, De Carlo would once again have to face unimaginable tragedy. In 1997, her son Michael died at age 39. According to his brother, Michael died of brain damage from a stroke.
Her son’s death was a heavy blow for De Carlo. She made her last film in 1995, and after her son’s death never returned to the entertainment industry. She herself suffered a minor stroke in 1998.
According to her other son, Bob Ross, the stroke resulted from the stress and grief De Carlo felt over Michael’s passing.
“It just preyed on her mind to the point that she had a stroke the following year,” James Bawden, a former TV columnist for the Toronto Star, said.
“All she would talk about was her son.”
Yvonne De Carlo cause of death
Yvonne De Carlo passed away in January 2007 at age 84. During the last years of her life, she lived in a semi-retirement home near Solvang, north of Santa Barbara.
Her cause of death was heart failure.
“I think she will best remembered as the definitive Lily Munster. She was the vampire mom to millions of baby boomers. In that sense, she’s iconic,” her longtime friend and television producer Kevin Burns said at the time.
“But it would be a shame if that’s the only way she is remembered. She was also one of the biggest beauty queens of the ’40s and ’50s, one of the most beautiful women in the world. This was one of the great glamour queens of Hollywood, one of the last ones.”
Yvonne De Carlo is just pure legendary! She is what acting is all about and managed to reinvent herself all the time.
No matter her role, she was always on top of her game and portrayed her character in the most elegant and believable fashion. Rest in Peace!
My MIL Turned Our Adopted Son’s Room into Her Reading Room While We Were Away — the Lesson I Taught Her Was Harsh
My mother-in-law’s secret makeover of our adopted son’s room sparked a family firestorm. What unfolded next rocked our world, exposing raw nerves and hidden truths. It’s a wild ride of love, betrayal, and unexpected lessons that changed us all – for better or worse.
I spent weeks getting Max’s room just right. The excitement of finally adopting our son had Garrett and me buzzing with energy. We hung posters of dinosaurs and spaceships, carefully arranged stuffed animals, and filled bookshelves with colorful stories.
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“Do you think he’ll like it?” I asked Garrett, stepping back to admire our work.
“He’s going to love it, Nora,” Garrett replied, wrapping an arm around my waist. “This room is perfect for our little guy.”
Our moment was interrupted by a knock at the door. Vivian, Garrett’s mother, poked her head in. “My, my, what a… vibrant space,” she said, her lips pursed.
I forced a smile. “Thanks, Vivian. We wanted Max to feel welcome.”
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Vivian’s eyes scanned the room again, a calculating look crossing her face. “You know,” she mused, “this space would make a lovely reading nook. I’ve been longing for a quiet place to enjoy my books.”
She paused, then added with a condescending smile, “Perhaps I could even use it to read some advanced literature to Max. Heaven knows the boy could use some intellectual stimulation to improve his… potential.”
I exchanged a worried glance with Garrett. Her casual suggestion and thinly veiled insult felt like an attempt to claim the space for herself, disregarding Max’s needs entirely.
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It was becoming clear that Vivian’s presence in our home was causing more tension than comfort, and I couldn’t shake the feeling that this was just the beginning of our troubles.
Garrett cleared his throat. “Mom, we’ve talked about this. Max is our son now, and we’re doing what’s best for him.”
Vivian waved a dismissive hand. “Yes, yes. I just think blood is thicker than water, that’s all.”
I bit my tongue, reminding myself that Vivian was still grieving her husband’s passing. She’d been living with us since he died, and we thought it would help her cope. Now, I wasn’t so sure.
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“Well, we should finish packing,” I said, eager to change the subject. “Our anniversary trip is tomorrow.”
“Oh yes, your little getaway,” Vivian said. “Are you sure it’s wise to leave the boy so soon?”
“Max will be fine with my sister Zoe,” I assured her. “It’s just for a few days.”
The next morning, we said our goodbyes. Max clung to me, his dark eyes wide with worry. “You’ll come back, right?” he whispered.
My chest tightened. “Of course we will, sweetheart. We’ll always come back for you.”
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Zoe arrived to pick him up, and we waved until they were out of sight. As we got in the car, I noticed Vivian watching from the window, her expression unreadable.
Our trip was lovely, full of romantic dinners and long walks on the beach. But I couldn’t shake a nagging feeling of unease.
“Do you think everything’s okay at home?” I asked Garrett one night.
He kissed my forehead. “I’m sure it’s fine. Let’s try to enjoy our time away, okay?”
I nodded, pushing my worries aside. Little did I know what was waiting for us when we got back.
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As soon as we stepped through the front door, I knew something was off. “Do you smell paint?” I asked Garrett, frowning.
His eyes widened. “Yeah, I do. What the —”
We raced upstairs, my stomach dropping with each step. When we reached Max’s room, I froze in the doorway, unable to believe my eyes.
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Gone were the colorful posters and toys. In their place were floor-to-ceiling bookshelves, a plush armchair, and a delicate daybed. The walls were a soft beige, erasing any trace of the vibrant blue we’d chosen.
“What the hell happened here?” Garrett exclaimed.
Vivian appeared behind us, beaming. “Oh good, you’re home! Do you like the surprise?”
I spun around, fury building inside me. “Surprise? You call this a surprise? Where are Max’s things?”
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“Oh, I packed them away,” Vivian said, waving her hand. “I thought it was time to give the room a more sophisticated touch. The boy needs to grow up, after all.”
“He’s seven years old!” I shouted. “This was his safe space, and you destroyed it!”
Garrett put a hand on my arm. “Mom, how could you do this without asking us?”
Vivian’s smile faltered. “I… I thought you’d be pleased. This room is much more practical now.”
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“Practical?” I sputtered. “It was perfect the way it was. Where is Max supposed to sleep? Where are his toys?”
“The daybed is perfectly suitable,” Vivian insisted. “And he has too many toys anyway. It’s time he learned to appreciate literature.”
I could feel myself shaking with rage. Garrett must have sensed I was about to explode because he quickly said, “Mom, we need some time to process this. Could you give us a moment?”
After Vivian left, I collapsed onto the daybed, trying to hold back tears. “How could she do this?” I whispered.
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Garrett sat beside me with a sigh. “I don’t know. This is way out of line, even for her.”
I took a deep breath, an idea forming in my mind. “I think it’s time we taught your mother a lesson about boundaries.”
Garrett raised an eyebrow. “What do you have in mind?”
Over the next few days, I pretended everything was fine. I smiled at Vivian, thanked her for her “thoughtfulness,” and even asked her advice on decorating.
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All the while, Garrett and I were plotting our revenge.
On Saturday morning, I said to Vivian, “We’d love to treat you to a day at the spa today and serve you a special dinner tonight,” I said, injecting warmth into my voice. “We want to thank you properly for all you’ve done.”
“Oh, how lovely!” Vivian replied.
As soon as Vivian left, Garrett and I sprang into action.
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We spent the day transforming Vivian’s beloved garden into a children’s playground. We dug up her prized roses to make room for a sandbox, scattered toys everywhere, and even installed a small slide.
When she returned, I greeted her at the front door with a bright smile. “We have a surprise for you,” I said, holding out a blindfold.
She hesitated. “A surprise? What kind of surprise?”
“You’ll see,” Garrett said, gently tying the blindfold around her eyes. “We think you’re really going to love it.”
We led her outside into the backyard, positioning her in front of her transformed garden. “Ready?” I asked, barely containing my excitement.
“I suppose so,” Vivian said, sounding nervous.
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I removed the blindfold. For a moment, there was silence. Then Vivian let out a strangled gasp.
“What… what have you done?” she cried, staring at the chaos before her.
I adopted an innocent tone. “Oh, we just thought the garden needed a more playful touch. Don’t you like it?”
“Like it?” Vivian sputtered. “You’ve destroyed my sanctuary! My beautiful roses, my carefully tended beds… all ruined!”
“We didn’t destroy it,” Garrett said calmly. “We simply repurposed it. You know, like you did with Max’s room.”
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Vivian’s face paled as understanding dawned. “This… this is about the boy’s room?”
“His name is Max,” I said firmly. “And yes, this is about his room. How do you think he’ll feel when he comes home to find his safe space gone?”
“I… I didn’t think…” Vivian stammered.
“Exactly,” Garrett cut in. “You didn’t think about how your actions would affect our son. Just like we didn’t consider how this would affect your garden.”
Vivian’s lower lip trembled. “But my garden was so important to me. It was my… my —”
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“Your sanctuary?” I finished for her. “Just like Max’s room was his sanctuary. Do you understand now?”
Tears welled up in Vivian’s eyes. “I’m so sorry,” she whispered. “I never meant to hurt anyone. I just… I felt like I was losing my place in this family.”
Garrett’s expression softened. “Mom, you’ll always have a place in our family. But Max is our son now, and you need to accept that.”
“Can we go inside and talk about this?” Vivian asked, wiping her eyes.
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We spent the next few hours having an honest, sometimes painful conversation. Vivian admitted her fears about being replaced, especially after losing her husband. We acknowledged that we could have done more to include her in our new family dynamic.
By the end of the night, we had a plan. We would restore Max’s room together, and Vivian would help us explain to Max what happened. She also agreed to start seeing a grief counselor to work through her feelings about losing her husband.
The next day, we all pitched in to bring Max’s room back to life. As we hung the last poster, we heard the front door open.
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“Mom? Dad? I’m home!” Max called.
We exchanged nervous glances as his footsteps pounded up the stairs. When he burst into the room, his face lit up with joy.
“You kept it the same!” he exclaimed, throwing himself into my arms.
Over his head, I caught Vivian’s eye. She gave me a small, sad smile, and I knew we were on the path to healing.
That night, we all crowded into Max’s room for a bedtime story. As I looked around at my family, I realized that sometimes, the hardest lessons lead to the greatest understanding.
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What would you have done?
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