Six-year-old Alan, a neglected child in foster care, cried alone in a church, begging God to send his mother to him. Amid his pleas, a voice from behind spoke, “I’ll take you.” Startled, Alan and his guardian, Nancy, turned to see a woman, Annette, who tearfully claimed to be his mother.
Annette explained her heartbreaking story: she became pregnant at 16 and, after being abandoned by her boyfriend, was pressured by her parents to give up her baby. Unable to care for him, she left him at a shelter, but never forgot him. Now, married with a daughter, she visited the church regularly, watching Alan from a distance. That day, however, she couldn’t resist revealing herself after hearing his cries.
Annette began the custody process, proving her identity with a DNA test. Though she reclaimed Alan, her decision came at a steep price: her husband divorced her, unwilling to support another man’s child, and her parents disowned her.
Despite the losses, Annette found happiness with her two children, showing that family is built on love and commitment, not society’s approval. Her story illustrates the power of redemption, sacrifice, and the courage to prioritize what truly matters.
Vet reveals the shocking reason you should never hug your dog
A vet has warned how a ‘hug’ can make a dog feel, and it’s not necessarily what you would expect
A vet has warned that it could be a bad idea to ‘hug’ your dog, as it could have the opposite effect on them to what us humans feel.
There’s nothing nicer than coming home from a long day at work to your furry friend scurrying as fast as they can to the door to greet you.
Your natural reaction is usually to bend down and give them a big cuddle, and whilst it might look like they’re loving every second – it might not be what they’re really feeling.
Dog experts are now warning owners to find different ways of showing their love.
According to a vet who spoke to Psychology Today, a hug can actually make a dog feel quite anxious and trapped – this is because a dog’s primary defence is to run away.
Psychologist Stanley Coren explained: “Yes, your dog may leap into your lap and kiss your face, cuddle against your neck, and beg you to rub her belly.
“But that’s not ‘hugging.’
“In my experience, many dogs don’t enjoy having a human move one or two arms around their shoulders and squeeze.
“That’s the hug we are talking about.”
Behaviour Vets author Lauren Novack believes dogs who do enjoy hugs are a complete ‘exception’, reports Daily Paws.
She said: “When dogs don’t like something and politely ask for space over and over again to no avail, they’re likely to escalate their communication to growling or biting.
“I don’t want dogs to be stressed, and I don’t want humans to get bitten. For most dogs, hugs are stressful.”
Stanley previously analysed 250 photos of dogs being given hugs, and he found that in 80% of the images, the dogs showed signs of looking stressed.
And he noted that this can be indicated by a dog lowers their ears, closing their eyes, or turning away from the source of anxiety.
And the psychologist has now revealed some much better alternatives.
He said: “The clear recommendation to come out of this research is to save your hugs for your two-footed family members and lovers.
“It is clearly better from the dog’s point of view if you express your fondness for your pet with a pat, a kind word, and maybe a treat.”
And the last thing we want to do is upset our furry babies, so we’re definitely going to take this advice on board!
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