Tom Jones opens up about his marriage and love life after wife’s passing

After Linda’s death, Tom cancelled all his concerts and released a short statement:
Wife’s passing
“Surrounded by her husband and loved ones, she passed away peacefully,” the Sir Tom’s website wrote.

But last year, Sir Tom opened up on her tragic death. In an interview with This Morning, the Welshman said he would “never love again”.
His wife’s passing really crushed him and he struggled to perform on stage long after Linda was gone.
“When my wife passed away, I didn’t think I could sing,” Sir Tom explained. “When you’re emotional, you can’t sing, your voice closes up.
“There are certain songs I wouldn’t do. But you have to try and get things in the right perspective. Feeling emotional; use it to your advantage and put it into the song.

Now lives in London

“It took me a while,” he continued. “Took me a few months to try and see if I could sing. I got some of my musicians around and tried a few songs. But it was very emotional.”
Linda’s passing also had other consequences – Jones decided to sell their big mansion in Los Angeles, along with all their furniture, in order to move back to the UK.

Today he lives in a flat in London – that was Linda’s wish. His late wife had been homesick and wanted to move back to her roots, but cancer took her life before it was possible.
“She always said she wanted to come back and then she could not do it, so then she told me to do it in the last week she was alive,” said Sir Tom, who was married to Linda for 59 years.
There is no doubt that Jones still mourns Linda, whom he married at the age of 16. The couple met when Linda was 15.
Speaking to Radio 2, Sir Tom described the moment he first saw his wife-to-be:
“I remember her playing marbles and I thought, ‘My God, what great legs she’s got’. She was the best-looking girl around there and we got together. It was magic”, the singer said.

Linda and Sir Tom tied the knot as teenagers, just a month before their son, Mark, was born.
But their marriage would be rife with scandals and infidelity. For more than 50 years, Tom cheated on his wife.
om, who assumed the role of sex symbol, has previously admitted that he slept with 250 women a year at the peak of his career.
“From the very beginning, he was not exactly Mr Faithful,” biographer Sean Smith told Daily Mail in 2015.
It’s unclear how much Linda knew about her husband’s shady side, but it is clear that she suspected something wasn’t right. According to Sir Tom, the couple had a “don’t ask” policy when he was on tour.

”Linda lived a quiet life and rarely left the couple’s villa in Bel Air. During her single marriage to Tom, she has also had alcohol problems,” Robin Eggar, who wrote the official biography of Tom Jones, told the Daily Mail.
After 2003, the wife stopped accompanying her husband on his tours and remained mostly at home in the couple’s Bel Air mansion.

By then, she had already endured several scandals that must have tarnished their relationship.
In 1987, Tom Jones had a three-day fling with the 24-year-old Katherine Berkery, during tour in the US. According to reports, Katherine had no idea he was married and Tom refused to return her phone calls when she discovered she was pregnant with his child.
Nine months later, Jonathan Berkery was born in New York, in June 1988. Sir Tom denied he was Jon’s dad and refused to admit that it was his child.

I Kept Returning to the Same Café and Tipping $50 Each Time for a Reason the Waitress Couldn’t Imagine

For years, I drove two hours every Friday to visit a small suburban café, leaving unusually large tips for one particular waitress. What she didn’t know was that I carried a life-changing secret in my purse. I just wished I could find the courage to share it.

The Friday evening traffic crawled along the interstate as I made my way out of downtown. My colleagues at the law firm thought I was crazy to drive two hours just for dinner at some suburban café, but they didn’t understand. I didn’t go for the coffee or the sandwiches. I went to see her.

Woman in her 30s driving on a rainy road | Source: Midjourney

Woman in her 30s driving on a rainy road | Source: Midjourney

The café sat on a quiet corner, its red-brick exterior softened by white trim. It also had a white awning and window boxes full of purple petunias. The bell above the door chimed as I pushed it open, and the familiar scent of coffee and fresh-baked pie made me feel at home.

She looked up when I walked in—the waitress with kind eyes and silver-streaked hair. Her name tag read “Martha,” but I’d known that long before I ever set foot in this place.

Woman in her 50s wearing a waitress uniform in a café with a kind smile | Source: Midjourney

Woman in her 50s wearing a waitress uniform in a café with a kind smile | Source: Midjourney

Every time I saw her, I thought about what I held in my purse. And yet, I never knew if I would be brave enough to show it to her that day.

“Welcome back, hon,” she said, already reaching for the coffee pot. “Your usual spot?”

I nodded, sliding into my regular booth by the window. The vinyl seats squeaked beneath me, and the tabletop showed years of wear under its polished surface.

Woman in her 30s sitting in the booth of a café looking expectant | Source: Midjourney

Woman in her 30s sitting in the booth of a café looking expectant | Source: Midjourney

Martha set down a mug of black coffee and pulled out her order pad, though we both knew what I wanted. “Apple pie and an espresso?” she asked, her pen hovering over the paper.

“Yes, please.”

Her smile carried a warmth that made my chest ache. Did she ever wonder about me? Did she even remember me?

The truth sat heavy in my purse, wrapped in a manila envelope that was starting to show wear from months of being carried back and forth. Inside were the documents from the adoption agency, the ones that had turned my world upside down just a few months ago.

Woman in her 30s sitting in the booth of a café holding a purse and looking worried | Source: Midjourney

Woman in her 30s sitting in the booth of a café holding a purse and looking worried | Source: Midjourney

I still remember the day I finally confronted my adoptive parents about my past. Mother had been arranging flowers in their living room, each stem placed with surgical precision.

“We gave you everything,” she’d said, not bothering to look up from her roses. “The best schools, the finest opportunities. Why isn’t that enough?”

“Because it’s not about things, Mother. It’s about knowing who I am.”

Woman in her 30s looking upset while her mother stands in the background with her arms crossed in an expensive foyer | Source: Midjourney

Woman in her 30s looking upset while her mother stands in the background with her arms crossed in an expensive foyer | Source: Midjourney

“You’re one of us,” Father had interjected from behind his iPad. “That’s who you are. But if you insist on pursuing this… project, contact the agency yourself. We won’t stand in your way.”

His tone made it clear they wouldn’t help, either. After 38 years, I should have expected nothing less. My adoptive family had always treated emotions like unwelcome houseguests.

Luckily, I didn’t have trouble contacting the agency, and their response arrived faster than I’d expected. As I read through the documents in my condo, pieces of my past clicked into place.

Woman in her 30s sitting on a couch in the living room of a condo reading documents and looking surprised | Source: Midjourney

Woman in her 30s sitting on a couch in the living room of a condo reading documents and looking surprised | Source: Midjourney

My birth mother had died bringing me into the world. My birth father had been too overwhelmed by grief and responsibility, so he had walked away. And then there was Martha—my foster mother for two precious years.

She was the one spot of warmth I remembered from my entire childhood. Unfortunately, her husband’s cancer diagnosis forced them to make an impossible choice.

Martha returned with my pie, setting it down with the same care she always showed. “Anything else you need, sweetie?”

Woman in her 50s wearing a waitress uniform in a café smiling and holding a notepad | Source: Midjourney

Woman in her 50s wearing a waitress uniform in a café smiling and holding a notepad | Source: Midjourney

I opened my mouth, willing the words to come. The envelope pressed against my ribs through my purse. Just tell her, I thought. Just reach in, pull it out, and tell her.

Instead, I shook my head and smiled weakly. “No, thank you.”

She lingered a moment longer than usual, and I wondered if she sensed something. Did she see how my hands shook slightly as I picked up my fork?

Woman in her 50s wearing a waitress uniform in a café frowning and lingering by a booth | Source: Midjourney

Woman in her 50s wearing a waitress uniform in a café frowning and lingering by a booth | Source: Midjourney

If she did, she said nothing and went to another table while I started eating my pie. When I finished, I left my usual $50 tip on the table. It was excessive for coffee and pie, but how do you put a price on lost time?

Maybe I also left so much because I felt guilty for not being brave enough to tell her who I was today, either. Why was it that I could face the most intimidating lawyers in court without sweating, but this part of my past had me acting like a little girl?

I was disappointed in myself, so I stood. Next Friday, I’ll do it for sure, I promised.

Woman in her 30s with a brown leather purse looking disappointed standing by a booth in a café | Source: Midjourney

Woman in her 30s with a brown leather purse looking disappointed standing by a booth in a café | Source: Midjourney

Rain had started to fall heavily outside. I fumbled with my umbrella, almost dropping my keys on my way to my car.

“Hey, you!”

I froze, my keys hovering near the car door lock.

“Why are you doing this?!”

I turned to see Martha standing a few feet away, still in her work apron. She held up the money I’d given her.

Woman in her 50s wearing a waitress uniform holding money in one hand and looking concerned outside a red-bricked café | Source: Midjourney

Woman in her 50s wearing a waitress uniform holding money in one hand and looking concerned outside a red-bricked café | Source: Midjourney

“Every week, you come in,” she continued, taking a step closer. “You sit quietly, leave these large tips, and disappear. Why?”

My heart pounded so hard I thought it might break through my ribs. This was the moment I’d both longed for and dreaded. Yet, I knew I had to take this chance.

“I… I have something for you.” My voice sounded strange to my own ears as I reached into my purse with trembling fingers.

The envelope was slightly bent at the corners now.

Woman's hand handing over an envelope in a rainy parking lot | Source: Midjourney

Woman’s hand handing over an envelope in a rainy parking lot | Source: Midjourney

“Could you please read this?” I asked, holding it out. “When you have a moment?”

Martha took it slowly, confusion drawing her brows together. “What is this about?”

“It’s about me,” I whispered. “About us.”

She opened it right there, heedless of the rain. I watched her face as she read and saw the moment recognition dawned. Her hand flew to her mouth, and she stumbled backward.

Woman in her 50s wearing a waitress uniform holding a manila envelope and looking shocked while standing outside a red-bricked café in the rain | Source: Midjourney

Woman in her 50s wearing a waitress uniform holding a manila envelope and looking shocked while standing outside a red-bricked café in the rain | Source: Midjourney

“Oh my God,” she breathed. “Sarah? My little Sarah?”

I nodded, tears spilling down my cheeks. “Yeah…”

We just looked at one another for an infinite moment.

“Oh, sweetie. I see from these documents that you must have figured out what happened. But you have to understand that John… my husband, your foster father… he got so sick,” she said finally. “The bills kept piling up. This couple came along. They were so wealthy. They could give you everything we couldn’t.”

“I understand perfectly,” I said softly, and I did. I knew they did what they thought was best for me. She didn’t need to explain herself. “What happened to John?”

Woman in her 30s talking to a woman in her 50s in a rainy parking lot outside a red-bricked café | Source: Midjourney

Woman in her 30s talking to a woman in her 50s in a rainy parking lot outside a red-bricked café | Source: Midjourney

“Cancer took him three years after you were adopted…” She swallowed hard. “He loved you so much, Sarah. We both did. Every day since we let you go, I’ve wondered if we made the right choice.”

“I have… fragments of memories,” I admitted. “Someone reading ‘Goodnight Moon.’ The smell of cookies baking. A man’s laugh. Me calling you Momma. I always told myself I was making it up.”

Martha nodded through her tears. “You wouldn’t go to sleep without that book,” she smiled. “And John would spend hours in the kitchen with you, letting you ‘help’ make cookies. You were only two, but you were so determined to do everything yourself. As soon as you could speak, you called us Momma and Papa.”

Little girl standing on a stool helping make cookies | Source: Midjourney

Little girl standing on a stool helping make cookies | Source: Midjourney

The rain came down harder, soaking us even more. Eager to hear more, we ran and waited below the awning in front of the café.

Martha told me about my early days, about the love that had filled their modest home. I shared stories about growing up with my adoptive parents. I was financially secure, yes, but emotionally… that was a different story.

“I contacted the agency a few months ago and started coming here,” I confessed after telling her about my current life and career. “Every time I tried to tell you, I lost my nerve.”

Woman in her 30s talking to a woman in her 50s beneath the awning of a red-bricked café | Source: Midjourney

Woman in her 30s talking to a woman in her 50s beneath the awning of a red-bricked café | Source: Midjourney

“So you left those tips instead?” Martha’s eyes crinkled with understanding.

“It was the only way I knew how to reach out.”

Suddenly, we heard a sharp tap on the window. It was Martha’s manager, beckoning her inside. “I have to go back to work,” she told me, her eyebrows pulling down apologetically. “Will you come next Friday?”

“Actually… could we maybe do breakfast instead? Tomorrow?”

“Oh, honey,” Martha said, wrapping me into the best hug I’d ever gotten. “I would love nothing more.” When we separated, she pulled out her phone. “Here, write down my number.”

Woman in her 30s hugging a woman in her 50s, smiling and emotional, beneath the awning of a red-bricked café | Source: Midjourney

Woman in her 30s hugging a woman in her 50s, smiling and emotional, beneath the awning of a red-bricked café | Source: Midjourney

“Thank you,” I said, after putting my phone back in my pocket. “Bye, Momma.”

Martha’s hand flew to her mouth at my words. “Bye, sweetie. See you soon.”

The rain stopped as I drove back to the city, and stars peeked through breaks in the clouds.

I couldn’t wait to see her again.

Don’t get me wrong. I knew my life, despite its beginning, had been privileged; my adoptive parents had provided everything they could, paving the way for all my success. For that, I will always be grateful.

But sometimes, pure warmth and love are all a person needs. I had experienced that with Momma and Papa, and now, at least, I had her back in my life.

Woman in her 30s driving on a dark rainy road smiling brightly | Source: Midjourney

Woman in her 30s driving on a dark rainy road smiling brightly | Source: Midjourney

This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

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