Terry Crews’ wife, Rebecca, shared that their marriage almost ended in divorce three times, but they worked through their issues after Terry decided to focus on “working on himself.”
In an interview with DailyMail.com, Rebecca, who’s been married to Terry for 35 years, spoke about how much she admires his determination but also revealed they’ve had tough times, even coming close to being homeless.
She explained that their shared faith has been important in their relationship. Even when things were difficult, they both kept trying, believing that they chose each other for a reason. Rebecca said they’ve had a few moments where they could have ended their marriage, but each time, one of them wanted to stay and worked hard to make things better.
Rebecca Crews, mother of five and the founder of a new boutique in Pasadena, shared more about her relationship with her husband, Terry. She explained that their marriage almost ended three times. The first time, she wanted out, but Terry fought to keep them together. The second time, he wanted to leave, but she fought for him. The third time, Terry had to face his addiction, and Rebecca kicked him out.
Terry begged her to stay, but Rebecca told him he’d messed up. He went to work on himself, became a better person, but Rebecca said he could still improve.
Both Terry and Rebecca have been open about their struggles, and in 2021, Terry admitted that his porn addiction nearly ruined their marriage.
When asked what makes a marriage last, Rebecca said it’s important to make sure both people are getting what they want. She knew what she wanted when she married Terry, and it turned out they shared similar goals. She warned that couples who don’t share the same dreams, like wanting children, can face big problems.
Rebecca added that even though it’s been tough, she always saw Terry as a good guy and her friend, and that helped them get through the hard times.
Rebecca Crews shared that she loved Terry as a person before she fell in love with him, and he’s still her friend. She joked that she can sometimes argue with him and then hug him right after, saying, “but you’re still my boo.”
Rebecca explained that while she holds Terry to a certain “standard,” forgiveness is important in making their relationship work. She said she often tells him, “You can do better,” and that he admits he’s not perfect. She believes forgiveness is key to staying married, but it has to be sincere. She added that you can’t just keep accepting bad behavior; sometimes you need to step back and let someone feel the consequences.
The couple, who have four daughters and a son, have been through tough times but live in Pasadena, California, and have been together for 25 years.
Rebecca Crews shared that there was a time in their lives when they were close to being homeless. They were just a week away from having to leave their place with nowhere to go when something came through for them at the last moment. They ended up moving just across the street in Burbank.
Now that all of their children have grown up and moved out, Rebecca said she and Terry have more freedom. They travel more and she can even join him while he’s working, making the empty-nester life fun. She joked that Terry can sometimes feel like another child!
With more time on her hands, Rebecca has been focusing on her clothing line. She’s grateful for the support from Terry, both financially and emotionally, and she credits him for helping her build her determination. Rebecca said it’s never too late to follow your dreams, and she now feels bolder and more confident. She even got emotional when her new store in Pasadena was opening, calling it a dream come true and seeing even bigger things ahead.
My Stepdaughters Hid My Daughter’s Passport So She Couldn’t Go On Vacation—I Wanted to Cancel It Entirely, but Karma Hit First
Michael thought his blended family was finally settling into a rhythm until his stepdaughters pulled a stunt that made his blood boil. Hiding his daughter’s passport to keep her from a long-awaited vacation? Unforgivable. But before he could act, karma stepped in, and what happened next left everyone speechless.
You think you know the people you live with until they show you exactly who they are.
When I married Pam, I thought we’d build a peaceful life together, even with our complicated family dynamics. But after what her daughters did to Kya, I realized I’d been fooling myself all along.
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When my first wife passed away, my world shattered.
But that feeling was not just for me. It was also for my daughter, Kya. She was only 13 when that happened.
I did everything I could to keep her world stable and ensure she never felt alone.
That’s why, when I met Pam a few years later, I thought maybe I could build something good again. She was warm and understanding, and we connected in a way I never expected after my loss.
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She had two daughters, but back then, I didn’t think it would be an issue.
Danise was already married, and Tasha was engaged. I assumed it would just be me, Pam, and Kya in the house.
A fresh start. A second chance at family.
But life had other plans.
One by one, Pam’s daughters’ relationships crumbled. Within two years of our marriage, both Danise and Tasha had split from their partners and moved back in with their toddlers.
Soon, my once-quiet home became a chaotic whirlwind of toys, tantrums, and tension.
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I felt for them. Divorce isn’t easy. Being a single mother isn’t easy. But sympathy only goes so far when the people you let into your home start treating your daughter like an outsider.
It started small.
“Hey, Kya, can you get me a glass of water?” Danise asked one evening, lounging on the couch.
Kya, being the sweet kid she was, didn’t mind. But then it became a pattern.
“Kya, take the trash out.”
“Kya, watch the kids for a sec.”
“Kya, go grab my laundry from the dryer.”
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One night, I overheard them while I was heading to the kitchen.
“I don’t see why she has to sit around when we’re all working so hard,” Tasha muttered to Danise.
My hands clenched into fists. I walked into the living room and looked straight at Pam.
“This stops now,” I said. “Kya isn’t your daughters’ maid.”
Pam sighed. “They don’t mean any harm. They’re just overwhelmed with the kids.”
“Then they can ask politely. And actually pay her if they want help with the kids.”
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Pam agreed, and things settled. But only for a while.
Kya, being the smart girl she was, started refusing to help when Danise and Tasha kept “forgetting” to pay her. To keep the peace, Pam finally stepped in.
“I’ll pay you, honey,” she told Kya one evening, handing her some cash. “They should. But since they won’t, I think it’s only fair I pay you.”
That was the balance we struck. And for a brief moment, I thought we had finally found some peace in the house.
Until the day we were leaving for vacation.
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I knew things in the house were tense, so I thought a short family vacation might help. I planned a three-day getaway to a nice resort.
Everyone seemed on board. Even Kya, who usually kept her distance from her stepsisters, looked excited as she packed her bags.
But then Danise and Tasha dropped a bombshell while we were going over last-minute details.
“You know,” Danise started, casually folding her arms, “it might make more sense if Kya stays behind to watch the kids.”
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I looked up from my suitcase, my brow furrowing. “What?”
Tasha nodded like this was some brilliant idea. “Yeah! I mean, bringing the little ones would be a nightmare, and we can’t just leave them with any babysitter. You know how fussy they are.”
“Plus,” Danise added, “Kya already knows their routines. It would be way easier for everyone.”
I scoffed. “Not happening. Kya is coming with us.”
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“Dad, come on,” Danise said. “Think about it—”
“I have thought about it,” I interrupted. “And we already hired a babysitter. If you don’t want to bring the kids, she can watch them. End of discussion.”
They exchanged a look, but I didn’t give them time to argue. I zipped up my suitcase and walked out of the room.
I thought that was the end of it. But it wasn’t.
I woke up to chaos the next morning.
“Dad! My passport is gone!” Kya’s panicked voice echoed through the house.
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“What?” I rushed into her room, finding her frantically digging through her backpack. “It was right here! I put it in the side pocket last night!”
I didn’t waste time. “Everyone, check your bags. Check the house. We’re not leaving without it.”
As Kya and I tore her room apart, Pam and her daughters hung back near the door.
“Maybe we should just go without her,” Pam suggested hesitantly. “We can’t miss our flight.”
“Excuse me?” I blurted out, narrowing my eyes.
Tasha shrugged. “She can stay and watch the kids like we planned.”
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Something about the way she said it made my stomach turn.
And then I noticed something else. The babysitter I had hired was nowhere in sight.
I grabbed my phone and dialed her number. She picked up on the second ring.
“Hey, Michael. Just wanted to let you know I got the message. Thanks for the heads-up!”
I frowned. “What message?”
“The one telling me I wasn’t needed anymore. Danise texted me this morning.”
What the heck? I thought. How dare she?
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That’s when I understood what was going on in my house. I hung up and immediately confronted my stepdaughters.
“Where is it?”
Danise played dumb. “Where’s what?”
I took a step closer. “The passport.”
Tasha cracked first, her face flushing. “Okay, fine! We hid it! But it’s not a big deal, Dad, we were just—”
I held up a hand. “Enough. If that passport doesn’t reappear in the next five minutes, this vacation is off for everyone.”
Silence.
Then, with an annoyed huff, Danise stormed off to her room.
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A moment later, she returned and tossed Kya’s passport onto the table.
“There. Happy now?” she muttered.
But before I could say anything, Kya grabbed my arm. Her eyes were wide open as if something was seriously wrong.
“Dad. Maybe you shouldn’t do this,” she said in a shaky voice. “Look at the kids. Is it what I think it is?”
I turned and that’s when I saw it.
Oh. My. God.
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Red spots. Scratching. Restlessness.
My grandkids were covered in them.
Chickenpox.
Kya and I had it as kids, but Tasha, Danise, and even Pam… they never had it.
Danise gasped, stepping back like the kids were ticking time bombs. “No way. NO WAY! Are you sure?!”
Tasha’s face went pale. “Oh my God. Mom, we have to get out of here—”
I crossed my arms. “Well, you wanted Kya to stay home, didn’t you? Looks like now you have no choice but to stay too.”
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“Dad, that’s not fair!” Danise protested. “We—”
“Not fair?” I let out a bitter laugh. “You mean like how it wasn’t fair when you tried to trap Kya here so she’d babysit for you?”
Tasha clenched her fists. “It was for the kids! We didn’t mean anything by it!”
I shook my head. “No, you meant exactly what you did. You just didn’t expect karma to hit back this fast.”
Silence.
Then, before they could protest, I grabbed my phone. “I’m rescheduling my flight. Kya and I are still going.”
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Pam’s eyes widened. “Michael—”
“No, Pam.” I cut her off. “Your daughters showed me exactly who they are today. And you? You stood by and let it happen.”
Pam looked away as guilt flickered across her face.
An hour later, Kya and I were at the airport, boarding our rescheduled flight.
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During the vacation, I had enough time to think about everything that had been going on. Watching Kya laugh, swim, and explore without the constant weight of home on her shoulders made something painfully clear to me.
She wasn’t happy.
Not in that house. Not with Pam and her daughters.
And if I was being honest, I hadn’t been happy for a long time either.
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At first, I tried to convince myself it was just the stress of a blended family. That things would get better. That I had to be patient.
But while sitting by the ocean and watching my daughter finally enjoy herself, I saw the truth. Kya and I deserved better.
And I needed to do something about it.
When we returned three days later, the house was eerily silent.
Pam barely spoke while her daughters were still recovering from the worst of the chickenpox.
I sat down in the living room, rubbing my temples.
“Pam, this has gone too far,” I said finally. “They went behind my back, tried to manipulate Kya, and now I don’t even recognize my own home.”
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Pam frowned. “Michael, we can fix this—”
“No,” I said firmly. “We can’t. Because this isn’t about one incident. This is a pattern. They’ve disrespected my daughter over and over again, and I’ve let it slide for too long. But this? This was the last straw.”
Pam’s eyes filled with panic. “You’re overreacting! You would seriously break up this family over a vacation?”
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I let out a humorless laugh. “No, I’m ending it because my daughter’s feelings will always come first. And you all made it very clear where she stands in this family. I can’t let this happen in my house. This needs to end.”
“Are you going to kick us out?” Pam asked in a shaky voice.
“Yes,” I said.
“But where are we supposed to go?” Danise asked, standing near the door. It looked like she and her sister had been listening to our conversation.
“You can’t do this to us!” Tasha blurted out. “This isn’t fair!”
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“I can. And where are you supposed to go? Umm…” I shrugged. “That’s for you to figure out. Just like Kya would’ve had to if I let you treat her like a babysitter instead of my daughter.”
Pam stared at me, searching for any sign that I would change my mind. But I was done.
“Start packing,” I said. “I want you out by the end of the week.”
That’s how I kicked Pam and her daughters out of the house. If they couldn’t respect my daughter, they had no right to live in my house. They always took me for granted because I was the one providing for the family.
Well, let’s see how they handle things now.
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