Cara Brookins was left emotionally broken when her second abusive marriage ended. She got well by building her own house, which she did after seeing YouTube videos on how to do it.
The mother of four started looking for a new house in 2007 after being forced to sell the Bryant, Arkansas, home she and her soon-to-be ex shared. At the moment, though, anything the computer programmer analyst could afford was too tiny. Brookins too felt obliged to take action to bring her family back together. She admits, “But I had no idea what that should be.”
Brookins, therefore, came up with the idea to build her own house from the ground up. According to Brookins, 45, “If anyone was in our situation, they wouldn’t do this.” “No one else viewed it this way, and now that I think about it, I understand it sounds crazy.”
One acre of property cost Brookins $20,000, and she obtained a building credit for about $150,000. She then started watching YouTube tutorials to learn how to do things like run a gas line, build a wall, lay a foundation, and install plumbing.
Her children, ages 2 to 17, helped her throughout the nine-month construction of the 3,500-square-foot home. At the time, Drew, who was 15 years old, helped Brookins make the preparations. Jada, who was 11 at the time, transported water from a neighbor’s pond using buckets because there was no running water on the property. She then combined the water with 80-pound sacks of concrete to create the mortar for the foundation.
It felt impossible the entire time, according to Brookins, who worked when the kids were in school. After school, Brookins drove her family to the five-mile-away construction site where she worked late into the night on the new house.
YouTube videos previously were vague and provided numerous solutions to a task. Brookins employed a part-time firefighter with building experience for $25 per hour to help with some of the more challenging tasks. She remembers, “He was a step ahead of us in knowledge.”
On March 31, 2009, Brookins and her kids moved into the five-bedroom home. She gave it the name Inkwell Manor in recognition of her desire to become a writer.
In the years afterwards, Brookins has written numerous middle grade and young adult books. She has also written a biography titled Rise: How a House Built a Family, which will be released on January 24.
Building the house helped Brookins emerge from her depression. We were ashamed that our best option was to construct our own shelter, Brookins adds. “We weren’t really proud of it,” In the end, it proved to be the best thing I could have done for myself.
She says, “You can do anything you set your mind to if I, a 110 pound computer programmer, can build a complete house.” Choose one goal and stay with it. Find the big thing you want to do, move slowly in that direction, and take those who also need healing with you. That has a lot of influence.
Harold lived alone, and one night, he was startled awake by the sound of clanging metal coming from his garage…
The garage lights flickered to life, illuminating the scene before Harold. Dust motes danced in the single beam, revealing three figures scrambling to their feet. They wore identical black hoodies, their faces obscured in the shadows.
“Hey! Get outta here!” Harold shouted, his voice surprisingly steady.
The intruders, startled, reacted like startled cats. Two of them bolted towards the garage door, disappearing into the darkness of the night. But the third, taller than the others, tripped over a discarded tire, tumbling to the concrete floor.
Harold, adrenaline coursing through his veins, moved towards the fallen figure. He grabbed the young man’s arm, intending to pull him to his feet. But as the hood fell back, revealing the intruder’s face, Harold froze.
It was Billy.
Billy, his neighbor’s son. Billy, the boy he’d often seen tinkering with his own beat-up old truck, the boy he’d sometimes offered advice to, a friendly nod and a wave. Billy, whose face was now contorted in a mixture of fear and pain.
Harold quickly released his grip. “Billy?” he stammered, disbelief washing over him.
Billy, still sprawled on the floor, looked up at him, his eyes wide with terror. “Mr. Davis… I… I’m so sorry.”
Harold knelt beside him, his mind reeling. What was Billy doing here? Why was he trying to steal his car?
“What… what are you doing, Billy?” Harold asked, his voice trembling.
Billy hesitated, his eyes darting nervously around the garage. “I… I needed the money,” he mumbled, his voice barely audible. “My mom… she’s sick. The bills are piling up. I… I didn’t know what else to do.”
Harold felt a surge of sympathy, a wave of understanding washing over him. He knew Billy’s family wasn’t well-off. His mother, a single parent, struggled to make ends meet.
“Billy,” Harold said gently, “you shouldn’t have done this. There are other ways to get help.”
Billy looked down at his hands, shamefaced. “I know, Mr. Davis. I’m so sorry. I’ll never do anything like this again.”
Harold sighed. He knew how desperate times could drive people to do desperate things. He remembered a time, long ago, when he had faced his own share of hardships.
“Get up,” Harold said, helping Billy to his feet. “Let’s go inside. We need to talk.”
As they walked towards the house, Harold felt a strange sense of responsibility. He couldn’t simply turn Billy over to the police. He couldn’t let this promising young man throw his life away.
He had to help him.
The next morning, Harold contacted a local social worker. He explained the situation, omitting the attempted theft, focusing instead on Billy’s family’s financial difficulties. The social worker, a kind woman with a gentle demeanor, listened patiently and promised to look into the matter.
Over the next few weeks, Harold kept a close eye on Billy. He offered him odd jobs around the house, helping him earn some extra money. He also spent time talking to him, offering words of encouragement and guidance.
Slowly, things started to improve. Billy found a part-time job at a local mechanic shop, and his mother received assistance from social services. The fear and desperation that had clouded Billy’s eyes began to fade, replaced by a glimmer of hope.
Harold knew he couldn’t erase the past, but he hoped he could help Billy find a better future. He had learned a valuable lesson that night: sometimes, the most unexpected encounters can lead to the most profound connections. And sometimes, the greatest strength lies not in punishment, but in compassion and understanding.
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