Sarah Jessica Parker forced to defend herself, public attacks naturally aging beauty and casual style

Carrie Bradshaw once said, “I will literally be the old woman who lived in her shoes.” But Sarah Jessica parker, the woman behind the sassy fashionista in the hit TV show Sex and the City, isn’t Jimmy Choo-obsessed, nor does she have a wardrobe filled with playful tutus and strappy slip dresses.Still, the confident 58-year-old actor is fielding hateful comments from the online population who can’t understand why her real-life persona is contrary to the modish character she plays.

Parker, who’s proudly aging naturally, gracefully and beautifully, answers back saying it’s, “just not a reality,” and “there’s no time to let vanity enter.” Keep reading to learn what the lovely Sarah Jessica Parker has to say about aging!
In her role as the beloved Carrie Bradshaw in Sex and the City, Sarah Jessica Parker served some iconic, oftentimes controversial, looks.

While her character was considered a trendsetter by women across the globe, Parker in real life, has never been an urban chic fashionista.
“It’s not the way I perceive myself, I’m so low on my priority list,” said Parker, who raised three children while she was at the height of her career. “I love beautiful clothes and am privileged enough to have access to a lot them…but they also are returned the next day. They are not mine.”

Keep reading to learn more…


In real life, the star admits that she prefers a practical style, which isn’t always popular with the demanding public.
Unsexiest woman alive
In fact, in 2008, she was named in a Maxim poll as the “Unsexiest Woman Alive.”
Shortly after she earned the unflattering title, Parker spoke with Grazia (through Daily Mail) and said, “Do I have big fake boobs, Botox and big lips? No. Do I fit some ideals and standards of some men writing in a men’s magazine? Maybe not.” The star of And Just Like That continues, “Am I really the unsexiest woman in the world? Wow! It’s kind of shocking when men…It’s so brutal in a way…”
Years later, the Family Stone star appeared at the Met Gala wearing a golden Dolce & Gabbana gown that she paired with an ornate nativity headpiece.


Though she was serving an incredibly unique and smashing look, the public only commented on her aging.
“Aye real quick, how old is Sarah Jessica Parker because [her] skin look like tree bark and I’m confused,” said one. A second writes, “Is that Sarah Jessica Parker? Oh gosh she looks so old and worn out.”
Then, in 2021, the Hocus Pocus star was lunching with Bravo star Andy Cohen. Parker was makeup free, her silvery hair tied back in a braided ponytail.
It didn’t take long for the online population to start spitting hate over her appearance. But, Cohen, who also has a head of grey hair, defended his friend.
“We were at lunch and there was a paparazzi, and she’s sitting next to me, white hair,” said Cohen, 55, of his own white hair. Speaking on The Drew Barrymore Show, he continued, “All the articles were ‘Sarah Jessica Parker, she’s going gray’ and ‘She looks old,’ and it was insanity.
Here she is sitting next to me, who’s gray, and people just missed the mark totally. It was so misogynistic.”
Following that, Parker spoke with Vogue and had a lot to say about unforgiving people and their unrealistic standards of beauty.
“There’s so much misogynist chatter… I’m sitting with Andy Cohen, and he has a full head of gray hair, and he’s exquisite. Why is it okay for him?” Parker continues, “‘She has too many wrinkles, she doesn’t have enough wrinkles.’ It almost feels as if people don’t want us to be perfectly okay with where we are, as if they almost enjoy us being pained by who we are today, whether we choose to age naturally and not look perfect, or whether you do something if that makes you feel better.


She adds, “I know what I look like. I have no choice. What am I going to do about it? Stop aging? Disappear?”
Influential woman
The title of “unsexist woman alive” was upstaged in 2022 when the Golden Globe winning actor was named by Time as one of its “100 most influential people in the world.”
Though she may not dress the part of Carrie, who’s the star of the TV series, two films and the reboot And Just Like That, Parker does own her own designer brand, SJP, which – not surprisingly – started as shoes.
The star of Honeymoon in Vegas is also a TV producer, the co-founder of the spirit “The Perfect Cosmo by SJP” (Carrie’s favorite drink), is involved with publishing, fragrances and has a wine label – to name a few.


And just like that
Also unlike Carrie and her hapless search for romance, the star of Footloose found love in the early 1990s with Matthew Broderick, the star of Ferris Bueller’s Day Off.
The adorable couple – who starred on Broadway together – married on May 19, 1997, and have been together ever since.
When Broderick was asked to reveal his secret for a successful marriage, he answered: “I don’t know the secret at all, but I, you know, I’m very grateful and I love her. It’s amazing. I mean, I can’t believe that it’s been that long. It doesn’t feel like it.”
The couple share three kids, son James Wilkie (born 2002), along with twins Tabitha Hodge and Marion Loretta Elwell, who joined the family in 2009, via surrogate.
The woman leads a busy life and should be applauded for her accomplishments, not criticized.


Speaking natural in real life, the actor said, “It’s not how I think of myself, and I think it’s probably the healthier approach.”
She continues, “It’s just not a reality – not when you have three kids, and you go to the market, and there are hungry people at home. You have a limited time to do it. There’s just no time to let vanity enter into that.”

My Husband Died in an Accident, but I Never Saw His Body — One Day, I Heard His Voice Coming from Our Little Daughter’s Bedroom

Grief plays tricks on the mind, but this? This was real. Kelly knew her husband’s voice, and she’d just heard it… coming from her daughter’s room. A chill ran down her spine. Jeremy had been dead for two years. So who — or what — was speaking in his voice? Then she stepped inside… and FROZE.

I’m Kelly. I’m 30, and my life has been a rollercoaster of love and loss. My husband, Jeremy, died in a car accident two years ago. I was eight months pregnant with our daughter, Sophia. One moment, I was painting flowers on the walls of her nursery, dreaming about our future. The next, I was getting a phone call that shattered my world.

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A pregnant woman looking at her phone | Source: Pexels

I remember that moment like it was yesterday. The paintbrush slipped from my fingers, leaving a trail of pink down the wall.

“Miss Kelly?” the voice on the phone was gentle, practiced. “This is Officer Reynolds…”

“Yes?” My hand instinctively went to my swollen belly. Sophia kicked, as if sensing my fear.

“There’s been an accident. Your husband…”

“No,” I whispered. “No, please…”

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A startled woman talking on the phone | Source: Midjourney

They told me the crash was bad — so bad that I shouldn’t see his body. I never got to say goodbye. Just a closed casket at the funeral, and that was it.

“Kelly, honey,” my mom had said at the funeral, holding me as I sobbed. “You need to stay strong. For the baby.”

“How?” I choked out. “How am I supposed to do this without him? He was supposed to be here. He was supposed to hold her…”

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Men carrying a coffin | Source: Pexels

Two years later, I was doing my best to keep going, to be strong for Sophia. But the emptiness? It never really left.

And then, two days ago, something happened that made me question everything.

It was just a regular afternoon. I had put Sophia down for her nap in her bedroom and curled up on the couch with a book. The house was quiet. Peaceful.

Until I heard it.

The sound of a window shutting. Not loud — just enough to make me glance up. Probably the wind, I thought. But then, my blood ran cold when I… Oh my God… when I heard JEREMY’S VOICE:

“I love you forever.”

I swear to God, my whole body turned to ice.

It wasn’t a muffled memory in my head. It wasn’t wishful thinking. It was CLEAR AS DAY.

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A terrified woman | Source: Midjourney

I sat frozen, my breath caught in my throat. My ears were ringing. My heart pounded so hard I thought I might pass out.

“Jeremy?” I whispered into the silence, my voice trembling. “Baby, is that you?”

No. No, no, no. Jeremy was gone. This was NOT POSSIBLE.

But I heard it. Again.

“I love you forever.”

It was coming from Sophia’s room.

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A frantic woman standing at the doorway | Source: Midjourney

I shot up so fast the book tumbled off my lap. My mind raced with possibilities — was someone in there? Was I hallucinating?

Was Jeremy ALIVE?

I rushed down the hallway, barely feeling my feet hit the floor. My hands were ice-cold, and my stomach churned like I might throw up.

“Please,” I whispered as I ran, tears already forming. “Please, if you’re there…”

I pushed open Sophia’s door.

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A terrified woman walking into a room | Source: Midjourney

She was sound asleep in her crib, curled up in a little ball, her tiny fingers clutching a teddy bear. The room was just as I had left it. No open windows. No shadows in the corner. Nothing.

But then, I heard it again.

“I love you forever.”

I swore my heart stopped.

“Jeremy?” My voice cracked. “Is this some kind of cruel joke? Please… I can’t… I can’t take this…”

I scanned the room, my hands shaking as I moved toward the window. Something had to explain this.

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A little girl fast asleep while holding a teddy bear | Source: Midjourney

My fingers brushed against the glass. It was shut. Locked. Outside, a small tree branch rested against the pane, broken like it had fallen against it.

Okay. That explained the noise. But Jeremy’s voice?

My eyes darted back to Sophia. She stirred in her sleep, hugging the bear tighter.

“Dada,” she murmured in her sleep, and my heart shattered all over again.

And then it hit me.

The bear.

I dropped to my knees beside her crib, hands trembling as I reached for it. Pressed it.

“I love you forever.”

My chest squeezed so tight I thought I might collapse.

A startled woman holding a teddy bear | Source: Midjourney

A startled woman holding a teddy bear | Source: Midjourney

Jeremy’s voice… It was coming from the bear.

“Oh God,” I sobbed, clutching the bear to my chest. “Oh God, Jeremy…”

I sat on the couch, staring at the bear like it might come to life.

I had no memory of buying this. Had someone given it to Sophia?

And then I remembered. A week ago, we had celebrated Sophia’s second birthday. My mother-in-law, Gloria, had given her this bear.

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A little girl celebrating her 2nd birthday | Source: Pexels

“Look what Grandma got you!” I had said, trying to sound cheerful despite the ache in my chest. Another birthday without Jeremy.

I had barely looked at it at the time. It was just another stuffed animal.

But now? Now I needed answers. So I called Gloria.

She picked up on the second ring. “Kelly, hi, sweetie! Everything okay?”

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An older woman holding her phone | Source: Midjourney

I gripped the bear tighter. “Did you know this thing plays Jeremy’s voice?”

Silence.

Then, a quiet, almost hesitant, “Oh… did it finally play?”

My stomach twisted. “Finally? What do you mean FINALLY?”

Gloria sighed. “I was wondering when you’d hear it.”

I sat up straighter. “Gloria. What did you do?”

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A woman talking on the phone | Source: Midjourney

“Kelly, please,” her voice wavered. “Just let me explain…”

“Explain what?” I demanded, my voice rising. “Explain why you thought it was okay to… to…”

I couldn’t even finish the sentence.

Gloria showed up an hour later, looking almost nervous. She sat across from me, hands folded, eyes scanning my face.

“I just… I thought it would help,” she said softly.

I placed the bear between us. “Help who?”

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Two women talking to each other | Source: Midjourney

She exhaled. “Sophia. And you.”

I stared at her.

“Kelly,” she reached across the table, taking my hand. “Every time Sophia asks about her daddy… every time I see you trying to explain… it breaks my heart.”

“And you don’t think this breaks mine?” My voice cracked. “To hear his voice again, out of nowhere?”

Gloria swallowed. “After Jeremy died, I kept thinking about how Sophia would never know her dad’s voice. So I took a recording from your wedding video. You remember his vows?”

My throat closed.

“‘I love you forever,'” she whispered.

Oh my God.

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A woman overwhelmed with emotions | Source: Midjourney

“I remember,” I choked out. “He… he practiced those vows for weeks. Said he had to get them perfect…”

She clasped her hands together. “I had it sewn into the bear before her birthday. I wanted her to have a piece of him. To know he’s always with her.”

I blinked hard, staring at the table, my mind spinning.

She had meant well. I knew that. But I felt so blindsided.

“Gloria,” I said, my voice barely above a whisper. “You should have told me.”

“I know,” she admitted with a fragile smile. “I just… I didn’t want to upset you.”

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An older woman smiling | Source: Midjourney

“Upset me?” I laughed bitterly. “I thought I was going crazy. I thought… for a moment, I thought he was…”

“Alive?” Gloria finished softly. “Oh, sweetheart…”

She moved around the table, pulling me into her arms as I broke down.

“I miss him so much,” I sobbed. “Every single day…”

“I know,” she stroked my hair. “He would be so proud of you, Kelly. So proud of how you’re raising Sophia.”

I didn’t know what to say.

I wasn’t angry. I wasn’t relieved. I was just… overwhelmed.

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A distressed woman | Source: Midjourney

That night, I sat in Sophia’s room, watching her sleep. The bear was in my lap. My fingers traced the soft fabric as I stared at my little girl — the daughter Jeremy never got to meet.

She looked so much like him. The same curve to her nose, the same dimple when she smiled, and the same sparkling blue eyes.

“You would have loved her so much,” I whispered into the darkness. “She’s perfect, Jeremy. Just perfect.”

I pressed the bear one last time as a familiar voice filled the room and my heart:

“I love you forever.”

A lump formed in my throat. I wiped my eyes quickly, swallowing down the ache.

I missed him.

A heartbroken woman holding a teddy bear | Source: Midjourney

A heartbroken woman holding a teddy bear | Source: Midjourney

Sophia stirred, her eyes fluttering open. “Mama?”

“Hey, baby girl,” I whispered, reaching to stroke her cheek.

“Bear?” She reached for the teddy.

I handed it to her, watching as she pressed it to her chest. Jeremy’s voice filled the room again.

“That’s your daddy,” I told her, my voice thick with tears. “He loves you so, so much.”

A cheerful little girl holding a teddy bear | Source: Midjourney

A cheerful little girl holding a teddy bear | Source: Midjourney

“Dada?” She looked at the bear with wide eyes, then back at me.

“Yes, sweetheart. That’s Dada.”

She hugged the bear tighter, closing her eyes. “Love Dada.”

And for so long, I thought I had lost everything. But here, in my daughter’s arms, was a piece of him.

I leaned down and kissed Sophia’s forehead.

“You’ll always have him with you, my sweet girl,” I whispered. “Always.”

The grief was still there. It always would be.

But for the first time in a long, long time… I didn’t feel so alone.

A grieving woman holding herself together | Source: Midjourney

A grieving woman holding herself together | Source: Midjourney

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