Sarah Jessica Parker is known for playing the fashionable character Carrie Bradshaw in the HBO show “Sex and the City.” However, the “Footloose” star often faces criticism for her real-life fashion choices.
Sarah Jessica Parker is famous for playing the stylish Carrie Bradshaw on the HBO show “Sex and the City.” During her time on the show, she became a fashion icon, inspiring women all over the world with her glamorous looks.
Many women looked up to her as a trendsetter, using fashion to express themselves and their feelings. However, in real life, Parker has never been as passionate about fashion. In a 2012 interview with People, she said that she doesn’t relate to her character’s fashion sense. She explained:
“It’s not how I think of myself, and I think it’s probably the healthier approach.”
Parker likes nice clothes and beautiful things, but you won’t catch her in a tutu at the grocery store. She believes that fashion takes a backseat to life, especially since she has three kids. She stated:
“It’s just not a reality — not when you have three kids, and you go to the market, and there are hungry people at home. You have a limited time to do it. There’s just no time to let vanity enter into that.”
People have often noticed her style choices. In an interview with Vogue, she mentioned that she finds it funny when people criticize her looks.
Over the years, she has faced backlash for her fashion choices, including a much-discussed outfit at the Met Gala. Parker said that people borrow styles that resonate with them at different times, but some will always dislike them. She doesn’t understand why people criticize her choices. “So, what’s the point of the criticism?” she asked.
Parker has learned to ignore her critics. For her everyday outfits, she chooses what she likes without worrying too much about whether it matches.
“Unsexiest Woman Alive”
Parker also faced tough times when Maxim magazine named her “Unsexiest Woman Alive” because she doesn’t fit certain beauty standards, like getting Botox or having fuller lips. She felt that this title was harsh and hurtful, affecting her and her husband, actor Matthew Broderick.
Things got worse when paparazzi took unflattering pictures of Parker having lunch with TV host Andy Cohen. She was makeup-free with her gray hair showing, leading to negative comments about her age. Cohen defended her, pointing out that he has gray hair too and called the comments “misogynistic.”
Parker did not stay quiet about the criticism. During an interview with Vogue, she spoke about how people seem to enjoy seeing others struggle with aging. She said:
“It almost feels as if people don’t want us to be perfectly OK with where we are, as if they almost enjoy us being pained by who we are today.”
She added, “I know what I look like. I have no choice. What am I going to do about it? Stop aging? Disappear?”
However, this was not the last of the harsh comments. In 2018, she faced ridicule again after wearing an ornate headpiece to the Met Gala. People mocked her looks online, calling her a senior citizen.
In June 2023, during a chat with Howard Stern, she discussed Hollywood’s obsession with cosmetic surgery and aging. When asked how she views herself, she said, “I’m presentable,” but added that she doesn’t enjoy looking in the mirror. She acknowledged that she thinks about cosmetic procedures but has never had plastic surgery, although she has tried skin treatments like peels.
Parker reflected on potentially getting a facelift at 44 but was uncertain about it. Stern expressed relief that she hadn’t gone through with it. She understands why some people choose procedures but knows that there is societal pressure about aging. She recalled the viral photo with Cohen, where people criticized her but ignored his gray hair.
Now in her late 50s, Parker remains unbothered by her critics and has clear thoughts on aging. She said in an August 2023 interview:
“I just don’t spend that much time [thinking about appearance]. It’s not that I don’t have an ego, that I don’t have a decent, healthy amount of vanity, but I just don’t want to spend that much time really deconstructing it all.”
Choosing Family over Fashion
Despite facing criticism over her fashion choices, Parker prioritizes her family. During New York Fashion Week in 2006, while others rushed to find the perfect outfits, she chose to stay home with her family. Her son James had just started school, and she wanted to be there for him.
Now, attending events is challenging since she has three kids. She and Broderick welcomed their first child, James Wilkie, on October 28, 2002, and he is now a student at Brown University. Their twins, Tabitha and Marion, were born on June 23, 2009, through a surrogate.
Though some fans criticize her, Broderick remains supportive. He often praises Parker’s beauty and feels lucky to be with her.
They married in a surprise ceremony on May 19, 1997, and have been happy ever since. Parker mentioned that their relationship thrives because they spend time apart and then come back together. She said on a podcast:
“I know this sounds nuts, but we have lives that allow us to be away and come back together.”
Broderick often shares how much he admires Parker, recalling their first date and how he remembers her clearly walking toward him.
Despite the negative comments and criticism, Parker feels secure in her relationship, partly due to Broderick’s constant support. He calls her “just a great, beautiful, hilarious person!”
3 Amazing Christmas Stories with Unexpected Twists
Imagine meeting your fiancé’s family for the first time at Christmas, only to find his ex-girlfriend as the guest of honor! This compilation of holiday stories features shocking twists and turns, including a surprise expensive gift, an unexpected Santa, and more.
These families went through some serious things during the festive season. Get ready to uncover what happens when a millionaire disguises himself to meet his in-laws or when a desperate mother tries to tell her kid some bad news on Christmas. Time to restore your faith in the holiday spirit!
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I Went to Meet My Fiancé’s Parents at Christmas, but His Ex Turned It Into a Nightmare
My fiancé, Brian, suggested we spend Christmas with his family. It was bound to happen eventually, considering how serious we were. Plus, I’d never met them before.
We had his family photos displayed at home, and they looked sweet enough, but if only I’d known what was waiting for me there!
As we drove to their house, I was dying of nerves. Brian’s family was old-fashioned, and he’d told me all about their “special traditions.” What he didn’t mention was that one of those traditions involved inviting his ex-girlfriend!
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Their house was HUGE, like a mansion. I knew they had money, but not like this.
I was already feeling intimidated, and then I met his mom, Cora. She was super elegant and put-together, and I felt like I stuck out like a sore thumb.
From the moment we arrived, I just tried to hold myself together. It was obvious I was the odd one out. Also, Cora had already made up her mind about me—or rather, about someone else. She was probably already adjusting the seams of my wedding dress to fit a certain glamorous brunette!
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But I didn’t know that until much later.
Dinner started out like an interrogation.
“So, Sara,” Cora asked, “what do you do?”
I told her I worked in marketing, trying to sound impressive.
“Marketing,” she repeated, making it sound like the most boring job in the world. I felt so self-conscious.
Later, I tried to win them over with my baking skills. I made this amazing pie, a family recipe that everyone always loved. But Cora took one bite and said, “Oh dear, are there nuts in this? I’m allergic to nuts.”
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Funny, because she didn’t even use an Epi-Pen or have any visible reaction. But anyway, I wanted to disappear!
And then, things got worse. Someone came to the door, and Cora introduced this “family friend” named Ashley. This girl was actually Brian’s ex-girlfriend. She was stunning, like straight out of a magazine, and she was all over my fiancé during dinner.
“Brian!” she exclaimed. “Remember that time we went hiking in the mountains? We had so much fun!”
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Meanwhile, Brian just stood there like a statue, completely captivated, while her fake giggles drilled into my ears.
I was seething. I couldn’t believe Cora had invited her, and I definitely couldn’t believe Brian was acting like this was perfectly normal. So, I did something totally impulsive.
I called my ex, Josh, and invited him over.
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When Josh arrived, things got interesting. I saw Brian’s face, but since inviting exes to Christmas was a “family tradition,” I shrugged at him.
Josh and I laughed, ate while telling old stories, and basically pretended to be having the best time, just to get back at Cora and Ashley for how they were treating me.
It definitely got under their skin, but I think the person most affected was my fiancé. He looked pretty jealous, which I have to admit, felt kind of satisfying. But ultimately, Brian did nothing. He let this all happen.
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At the end of the night, I was tired, and when Josh left, I couldn’t take it anymore. I went to the woman who was supposed to become my mother-in-law and said, “I never expected to be treated this way by my soon-to-be husband’s family. Honestly, I’d rather not join this family at all.”
Brian’s jaw slackened, and Ashley had a twinkle in her eye. But I walked out after those words with my head held high.
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The next few days were rough. I was filled with sadness and a little self-doubt. Had I overreacted? Was I being too sensitive?
Maybe Cora and Ashley didn’t do it on purpose. But just when I was spiraling, Brian showed up at my door. He apologized for his and his family’s behavior. He should’ve spoken out and told Ashley to back off or even leave.
I was so relieved that I wasn’t crazy!
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Something even more unexpected happened next. Cora arrived, followed by the rest of Brian’s family! They all apologized and said they had been wrong to invite Ashley and push her on Brian.
Cora even admitted that she’d always been protective of her son because of their family’s money. Ashley came from money too, so she was a safer bet.
After I forgave her, we ended up having a second Christmas celebration at my tiny apartment, and it was actually really nice.
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They Judged My Son for His Lack of Money, But I Had the Last Laugh
Hello! I’m Sam, and my son Will is this amazing kid, kind and loving. Being a single dad isn’t easy, and I definitely made some mistakes. I spoiled him, probably way too much.
I mean, I could afford it because I had made a fortune from an engine sealant I invented. But the downside was that all our money ended up attracting the wrong kind of people to Will.
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When Will decided to go to Yale, he came up with this plan to hide our wealth. He wanted to make real friends, not ones who just liked him for his money.
So, he dressed in scruffy clothes and pretended to be a poor scholarship student. It worked! He made great friends, and later, he met a wonderful girl named Eddy, short for Edwina. They quickly fell head over heels.
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Will proposed, and Eddy said yes. That Thanksgiving, she took him home to meet her parents, Marta and Farlow. He told me they were wealthy and wanted their daughter to marry someone rich, not a scruffy third-year science major.
They were polite to him but clearly disapproved of their relationship.
Still, Eddy insisted we spend Christmas weekend with them at their fancy beach house. But to keep our wealth a secret, we took a bus there, and I purposely dressed in my oldest, most worn-out clothes.
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When Eddy’s dad picked us up, he looked me up and down and practically sneered. He spent the whole ride bragging about his money and how important it was to him. I just smiled and nodded.
The next few days were pretty awful. They were constantly trying to subtly humiliate me, making snide comments about my clothes and implying that Will would never be able to provide Eddy with the lifestyle she was used to.
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I could tell that my future daughter-in-law was furious. At one point, she and her mother went to the kitchen. I went to the bathroom, and on my way back, I overheard their conversation.
She told her mother, “I’m going to marry Will, and Sam’s going to be family, so get used to it.”
Marta angrily retorted, “But darling, the man is a bum! Have you seen his clothes? He’s an embarrassment.”
Eddy shot back, “Believe me, Mom, you are much more of an embarrassment than Sam could ever be!”
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I have to admit, I was pretty proud that my son had found such a good woman. But I wasn’t sure about her parents.
On Christmas Eve, they gave Will and Eddy a brand-new Porsche as an early wedding present. They were so smug about it that I realized they thought they had one-upped me.
But I had a surprise of my own; one I had prepared earlier just because. I gave Eddy an envelope and said, “Will told me you two plan to move to New York after graduation. Finding a place to live in Manhattan isn’t easy, so I hope this helps…”
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Eddy opened the envelope and gasped. Inside was the deed to a brownstone in Tribeca!
Her parents were speechless. “But…but…but…” her dad stammered. “You’re POOR…The way you dress…You took the bus…”
“Well, Farlow,” I said gently. “I want my son to be loved and accepted for himself, not for the $570 million he will eventually inherit from me.”
That shut them up pretty quickly. After that, they couldn’t be nicer to me.
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Will and Eddy got married that next summer, and a few years later, they had a little girl. I even bought a house next door so I could be close to them.
I never liked Marta and Farlow, but I was polite to them because I knew Eddy. I knew that she made my son happy and cared for my granddaughter. That’s all that mattered.
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My Daughter Asked About Santa, and I Broke Down, then a Miracle Happened
I did everything I could for my family, but my husband, John, passed away last year, and I fell apart. He was an amazing father. I still remember when he bought our daughter, Kira, a yellow princess dress and chased her around the house.
We had a blessed and joyful life together, but everything changed after he was gone. It was just the two of us.
The first few months were a blur. I barely remember how we got through them. Friends and family brought food, helped with errands, and offered kind words, but nothing filled the emptiness in our home.
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The silence was deafening, the absence of his laughter a constant ache in my chest. Still, I did my best to hold it together for Kira’s sake. She was only six, and I didn’t want to burden her with the weight of my grief.
But as our first Christmas without him drew closer, it became harder and harder to keep up the facade. The holidays were always John’s favorite time of year.
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He loved the decorations, the carols, the spirit of giving. And most of all, he loved playing Santa for Kira.
Every year, he would disappear on Christmas Eve, only to reappear moments later in a full Santa suit, his beard perfectly white and his belly shaking with laughter. Kira would squeal with delight.
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Those memories were etched in my mind, both precious and painful.
Kira started asking about Santa sooner than I was ready for. I struggled and wondered how to explain that he wasn’t coming that year. I had told her that Daddy was in Heaven, but she didn’t know her father was Santa, too.
So, I changed the subject a lot, but I knew I couldn’t avoid the conversation forever. When we decorated the tree, she said, “I can’t wait to see Santa!”
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My heart broke even more, and I fell asleep trying to rehearse how I would tell her the truth the following day, Christmas Eve.
When evening arrived, I had the words all prepared. We were finishing up some cookies and enjoying the nice crackling fire I had set up to enjoy that night.
“Mommy,” she said suddenly, smiling widely. “Santa will come tonight, right?”
With a sigh, I sat beside her and wrapped her in my arms. “Kira, there’s something I need to tell you about Santa… and Daddy.”
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But my throat got tight. I couldn’t get the words out.
Just then, the doorbell rang. I hesitated, wiping away my tears. Who could that be?
Before I could answer, though, the door burst open! I froze when I heard a familiar “Ho, ho, ho!” My heart nearly stopped as I watched Santa Claus walk toward us.
Kira squealed while I was in shock, but as she ran to hug Santa, I realized who it was: Rick, my brother-in-law.
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Just behind him was Sandra, my best friend. They had gotten together to surprise us. She later told me they figured Kira didn’t need to know the truth about Santa this year.
I couldn’t have been more grateful. My daughter showed Santa the cookies she had baked and the tree we had decorated.
“Isn’t it the prettiest?” she asked.
“It’s the most beautiful tree I’ve ever seen,” Santa replied, giving me a meaningful look.
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For those few precious hours, the pain of loss faded, replaced by pure Christmas joy. Even though my husband was gone, I wasn’t alone. I had my daughter, my friends, and the memory of a love that would last forever. And that was the greatest gift of all.
If you liked these stories, check out this other set about grandparents. Think being a grandparent is all about unconditional love and endless indulgence? Not always. These three shocking tales reveal the challenges, confrontations, and tough love moments that unravel when entitlement clashes with generosity.
This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.
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