There’s something magical about Cyndi Lauper, the lively artist behind the 1983 hit “Girls Just Want to Have Fun,” a song that quickly became a global anthem, encouraging women everywhere to embrace fun and freedom.
Lauper is the definition of cool. Her quirky, carefree personality, playful fashion, and colorful hair inspire people with her message to always be yourself.
However, behind the playful voice that spreads joy to her listeners, Lauper battles a severe skin condition called psoriasis. At one point, it was so intense that, as she described, “It looked like someone threw boiling water on me.”
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The legendary pop star, now 69, recently opened up about her ongoing battle with psoriasis—a chronic skin condition that has no cure—since she was first diagnosed in 2010.
Psoriasis can cause severe pain, itching, discomfort, and rough, scaly patches on the skin. About 8 million people in the U.S. and 125 million globally live with this condition.
Lauper’s symptoms started as scalp irritation and general discomfort, which worsened over time.
Initially, she thought her itchy scalp was from frequently coloring her hair, but the symptoms continued, causing both physical pain and emotional strain for the award-winning musician.
The “Time after Time” singer is a busy mother, touring pop star, and activist.
Inspired by her sister Ellen, who is a lesbian, Lauper has become a strong supporter of LGBT rights, working tirelessly to advocate for the community.
Her 2005 song “Above the Clouds” was written in honor of Matthew Shepard, a 21-year-old gay student who was beaten to death in Wyoming. Lauper also started the “True Colors” concert tour in 2007-2008, which raises support for local and private LGBT charities and organizations.
Besides her advocacy, Lauper has an impressive career as a singer, songwriter, and actor. Over the past forty years, she has received many awards, including a Tony Award, two Grammy Awards, an MTV Music Video Award, and an Emmy Award for her role in a 1995 episode of the TV show *Mad About You*.
She also has a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, is a member of the Songwriters Hall of Fame, and in 2013, her humanitarian work earned her a special invitation to attend President Barack Obama’s second inauguration.
Despite her diagnosis, Lauper continues to stay strong. She is committed to not letting psoriasis hold her back and works on managing stress to avoid triggering flare-ups.
When she was first diagnosed and dealing with severe psoriasis, Lauper wrote the music and lyrics for the Broadway musical *Kinky Boots*, which won her a Tony Award for Best Original Score. She became the first woman to win a Tony in that category on her own. The show also won five more Tony Awards, including Best New Musical.
In a conversation with the American Academy of Dermatology (AAD), Lauper openly shared her experience living with the autoimmune skin condition, hoping her story might help others.
“I’ve never been able to really manage stress,” she admitted, explaining that she now takes a holistic approach to healing and stress relief both at home and on the road. She learned reiki, a Japanese technique for relaxation, saying, “That helps me.”
Along with reiki, Lauper works to stay grounded by meditating, practicing yoga, or taking walks in the fresh air with her dog and her husband, David Thornton, whom she married in 1991. The couple has one son, born in 1997.
“It’s not a bad thing to take care of yourself,” Lauper said, urging people to always “make a little time for you.”
She encourages starting small. “How about five minutes for you?” she added.
Lauper speaks with resilience about her experience, explaining that “when psoriasis gets really bad, it’s really hard to get up again.” She shared that at times, she couldn’t regulate her body temperature, leading to chills that could result in hypothermia. Even when resting, her condition only worsened, and hearing people dismiss it as “just a rash” added to her struggles.
“You don’t have to suffer,” Lauper said. Treatments, such as topical and oral medication or injections, can help ease the often unbearable symptoms of psoriasis. For Lauper, she found relief with Novartis’ Cosentyx, and as a spokesperson for the medication, she happily shares that she’s been “four years clear.”
In 2017, Lauper spoke with HealthDay about managing her psoriasis.
“It’s funny—you start wearing gloves, or this and that, hoping [psoriasis] is invisible, but it’s not. I didn’t show it off, like, ‘Woo-hoo, check this out!’ Doesn’t everyone try to hide it? You’d be surprised how many people have it and don’t talk about it. It’s one of those invisible things, so it’s good to talk about it.”
She shares more about it on her podcast *PsO in the Know*, where she talks with celebrities, advocates, and everyday people who offer insights on living with psoriasis.
The show is now in its third season and is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Pandora, and Stitcher.
Lauper isn’t the only celebrity with psoriasis. Kim Kardashian, now 42, was diagnosed at 30 and is open about her challenges. Her mom, Kris Jenner, 67, had her first outbreak in her late 20s and said it was “life-changing.” Other celebrities with psoriasis include musician Art Garfunkel, 81, actor Jon Lovitz, 65, and Jerry Mathers, 74, known as “The Beaver.”
My Husband Told Me I Am Half the Mom His Ex-wife Was – I Was Furious and Taught Him a Lesson
When George told Sylvia she was only half the mom his late wife was and wished SHE had died instead, her world shattered. But she didn’t break. In the face of his cruel words, Sylvia made a decision that would change everything and show just how powerful a mother’s love can be.
Hey everyone, Sylvia here. I’m about to tell you a story that’ll have you reaching for the tissues and wanting to throw things at the same time. Ever wondered how you’d react if your partner, the person you built a life with, looked you dead in the eye and said they wished YOU WERE DEAD instead of their ex-wife? Heartbreaking, right? Well, that’s exactly where I find myself…
Sylvia opens up about her heartbreaking story | Source: Pexels
It all started eight years ago when I married George. He had two incredible kids, Nick and Emma, from his first wife, Miranda, who tragically passed away in an accident when they were young.
We took things slow, dated for three years, and then tied the knot in a courthouse ceremony with just close family and friends. The kids were amazing to me from the get-go. I loved being their stepmom, and when I got pregnant with our son, Mason, I officially adopted them.
Sylvia adopts her husband’s two adorable children | Source: Pexels
Nick and Emma were the best. They doted on their new baby brother, and George seemed like the picture-perfect husband and dad.
I was on cloud nine. Every day, I thanked the universe for this beautiful family.
But then, like a cruel twist of fate, everything changed when I got pregnant again with our second child. George became a different person.
Sylvia is pregnant | Source: Unsplash
Late nights at work became the norm, and weekends were spent with his “friends.” I tried talking to him, but it was like talking to a brick wall.
He missed soccer games, Emma’s birthday parties, doctor appointments — basically, everything important. It felt like I was living with a ghost.
One day, I couldn’t take it anymore.
George starts acting distant, devoting more time to work and friends | Source: Pexels
“George,” I confronted him. He didn’t even look up from his phone, just grunted a noncommittal response.
“We need to talk,” I pressed, my voice firming up. He sighed, finally setting his phone down with a clatter that echoed in the strained silence. His eyes, when they met mine, were distant… and cold.
“About what?” he drawled.
A heartbroken Sylvia confronts George | Source: Pexels
“About everything,” I said, my frustration bubbling over. “You’re never here, George. The kids barely see you, and when you are, you’re glued to that phone and your laptop.”
He scoffed, rolling his eyes. “Oh boy, here we go again. I work my fingers to the bone for this ungrateful family. Why do you have to keep nagging me like a broken record? Can’t a man have a little peace and quiet in his own home?”
George lashes out at poor Sylvia | Source: Pexels
“Providing isn’t just about money, George,” I countered. “It’s about being present, being a dad, being a husband.”
He slammed his fist on the table, making Mason flinch. “Don’t lecture me about being a husband! You wouldn’t understand!”
“Understand what, George?” I retorted.
George breaks Sylvia’s heart | Source: Pexels
He glared at me, his face contorting with anger. “You wouldn’t understand the things I’ve sacrificed,” he spat. “You wouldn’t understand what it’s like to lose someone you love.”
“Don’t you dare bring Miranda into this,” I shot back, my voice laced with hurt. “She’s not here, George. She’s gone!”
His face turned ashen. “Don’t you ever talk about her like that!” he roared, sending shivers down my spine.
George cautions Sylvia against bringing up his ex-wife in their conversation | Source: Pexels
“Don’t you see what you’re doing to us? We miss you, George. We need you,” I yelled back, tears welling in my eyes. “We want to be happy… like before.”
George looked at me, his eyes filled with a cold, bitter rage, and said, “Happy? With you? I wish Miranda was still alive. Hell, I wish you’d been the one who died instead! And you know what? Stop pretending you’re Nick and Emma’s real mom. YOU’RE ONLY HALF THE MOM MY LATE WIFE WAS! Do you understand?”
George’s words stab Sylvia | Source: Pexels
My heart shattered into a million pieces. Can you even imagine the pain? It’s beyond anything words can capture.
Tears streamed down my face as I told him I couldn’t stay married to him after what he said.
But then, he said something that lit a fire in my soul.
George leaned back, crossing his arms with a condescending smirk. “Face it, Sylvia. You can’t handle this on your own. Without me, you’re LOST. The kids need stability, and you’re NOT CAPABLE of providing that.”
George’s words cut deep into Sylvia’s already shattered heart | Source: Pexels
I felt my blood boil.
“Not capable? I’m the one who’s been there for them every single day while you’re off ‘working late’ and hanging out with your so-called friends. I’ve been the one keeping this family together, not you!”
His smirk faltered, but he tried to hold his ground. “You wouldn’t last a week without me.”
Sylvia stands her ground | Source: Pexels
Well, let me tell you something — that was the biggest mistake he could’ve made. I wasn’t going to stay and be treated like some doormat.
I decided to teach him a lesson, one he wouldn’t forget for the rest of his life.
The next day, I packed a bag, not just for myself, but for the kids too. I wasn’t just leaving George; I was taking Nick, Emma, and Mason with me. He was at work, clueless about the storm brewing at home.
Sylvia packs her things and leaves the house with her three kids | Source: Pexels
I dropped the kids off at my best friend Rosie’s place, explaining the whole situation. Rosie, bless her heart, was furious. She readily agreed to keep the kids safe while I dealt with things.
Then, with a steely resolve in my heart, I got into my car and headed straight for George’s office. I had a plan brewing, and it was time to put it into action.
I marched into George’s office. Ignoring the receptionist’s confused sputtering, I barged straight into his meeting, catching everyone off guard.
Sylvia rushes to George’s office | Source: Pexels
George’s face drained of color when he saw me. Before he could utter a word, I launched into a tirade and exposed him.
“You think I’m half the mom your ex-wife ever was?” I yelled. “Well, guess what, George? I’m taking the kids. You don’t deserve them!”
Sylvia yells at George and exposes him | Source: Pexels
The room erupted in gasps. George’s face flushed crimson.
He lunged for me, but I was quicker, pulling away with a piercing glare. “Here’s the custody agreement,” I spat, shoving a thick folder into his chest. “I’m going for full custody, and after what you said, I think the judge will agree with me.”
Panic flickered across his face. “Y-You can’t do this,” he stammered. “You have no right.”
George starts to panic | Source: Pexels
A cold anger settled over me.
“Oh, but I do,” I countered. “I’ve been a real mother to Nick and Emma, something you haven’t. And Mason? He deserves better than a father who compares his own wife to a ghost.”
Leaving him sputtering justifications to his bewildered colleagues, I stormed out, the weight of everyone’s stares burning into my back.
But I didn’t care. The only thing that mattered was getting my kids away from him.
Sylvia’s outburst leaves George utterly shaken | Source: Pexels
My next stop was the kids’ school. The principal, a kind woman with eyes that held a lifetime of stories, listened patiently as I explained the situation.
Pulling out the custody papers, I felt a sliver of hope pierce through the fog of hurt. The principal, thankfully, was understanding.
“We’ll keep an eye on the kids,” she promised, her voice warm. “We’ll reach out if George tries anything.”
The principal assures Sylvia about watching over the kids | Source: Pexels
Hours later, I picked up my precious cargo, my kids, from Rosie’s haven. Relief flooded me as their faces lit up. We drove to the small apartment I’d secretly rented that very morning.
During dinner, Mason (now 6) bombarded me with questions about his dad. Emma, my little ball of sunshine, clung to me tighter while Nick simply stood there.
“Mommy, where’s Daddy? Why aren’t we going home?” Mason choked out, his big brown eyes welling with tears that threatened to spill over at any moment.
Mason asks Sylvia about his daddy | Source: Pexels
I took a deep breath, my heart breaking. “Mason, Nick, Emma, listen to me,” I said softly, pulling them close. “Things are going to be different for a while. Your father and I… we’re not getting along right now, and it’s best for us to stay somewhere else for a bit.”
Emma’s grip tightened, her small body trembling. “But why, Mommy? Why can’t we just go back?”
Emma misses her daddy and wants to go home | Source: Pexels
Tears welled up in my eyes as I kissed her forehead. “I know it’s hard, sweetheart. I know. But sometimes grown-ups have to make tough decisions to keep everyone safe and happy. I promise you, we’re going to be okay.”
“Is it because of us? Did we do something wrong?” Nick chimed in, his eyes glistening with tears.
My heart shattered. “No, honey, this is not because of you or Emma or Mason. You kids are perfect. This is between Dad and me. I love you both so much. We’re going to be okay.”
Nick is upset and asks Sylvia if they’re away from daddy because of him and his siblings | Source: Pixabay
Their small nods and tear-streaked faces gave me the strength I needed.
Days bled into weeks. The legal battle, while draining, became a strange source of strength. George’s past behavior boomeranged on him.
His colleagues, the very people who witnessed my public humiliation, became my unlikely allies. Their testimonies painted a damning picture of a selfish, self-absorbed man.
George’s colleagues testify against him | Source: Pexels
In the end, the judge awarded me full custody, with George granted supervised visits.
Just when I thought the worst was over, another bombshell dropped. A woman named Linda, heavily pregnant, appeared on my doorstep one day, her eyes red-rimmed and her voice trembling.
“Are you Sylvia?” she asked shakily.
A heavily pregnant woman arrives outside Sylvia’s house | Source: Midjourney
Hesitantly, I cracked the door open just a fraction. “Can I help you?” I asked cautiously.
“I’m Linda,” she said, looking down. “I’m George’s lover. I’m pregnant with his child.”
I felt like the ground had been ripped out from under me. “You’re what??”
She nodded, tears spilling over. “He told me he was single. I had no idea about you, about your family. I’m so sorry.”
Sylvia is stunned when the woman reveals her identity | Source: Midjourney
A cold dread washed over me.
George? He… he had an affair?
What more could there possibly be hidden from me? Against every instinct screaming at me to slam the door shut, I found myself stepping aside and letting her in.
The jolting truth about the man she once loved and shared her life with leaves Sylvia stunned | Source: Pexels
Linda sank onto the nearest chair, her body wracked with silent sobs. As she poured out her story, a shocking truth unfolded. She, too, had been involved with George, a victim of his lies and deceit.
A strange sense of empathy bloomed in my chest. Here was another woman, her life shattered by the same man who had so thoroughly broken mine.
Linda tearfully reveals the truth | Source: Pexels
In a turn of events that still boggles my mind, Linda and I formed an unlikely alliance. We exposed George’s web of deceit, stripping him bare before everyone.
He lost his job, his reputation, and any semblance of control over our lives.
George loses his job, reputation, and everything he once controlled | Source: Pixabay
Fast forward to months now, the journey hasn’t been easy.
Picking up the pieces of my broken heart was a long and arduous process. But with Nick, Emma, Mason, and my newborn baby by my side, I found the strength to rise above the ashes.
George’s ghost still haunts me at times, a painful reminder of his betrayal. But as I look at my children, their smiles radiating pure joy, the pain recedes, replaced by an unwavering love and a fierce determination to protect them from the world’s harsh realities.
Sylvia is slowly healing, thanks to her wonderful kids and the new path fate has shown her | Source: Pexels
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