My In-Laws Didn’t Invite My Children to Family Dinner, Disparagingly Calling Them “Baggage”

Our reader Nadine sent us an emotional letter. The fact is that her in-laws invited the whole family over for dinner, leaving her children out. To make matters worse, her husband knew this and approved of this behavior.

This is Nadine’s letter.

We decided to find out what readers think about this situation. All of them found the behavior of the husband and in-laws offensive.

  • I have a very short answer that I use on occasion, and that is. When people show you who they are, believe them. Whatever is said now and whatever apologies made, you know who they all are. © Linda Fawcett / Facebook
  • If my kids weren’t welcome at whatever function, I wouldn’t go either. © Sandy Freed / Facebook
  • I would have left straight away and if my husband didn’t follow, I would have finished my marriage, when it comes to my kids no one wins over them. © Liz Russell Flaherty / Facebook
  • I’d ask my hit if he cared about me and the kids. And then I’d leave the restaurant with or without him. © Faye Birkbeck / Facebook
  • This happened to us for a wedding. Other kids were there. We drove 3 hours to get there, so we were stuck. That was 40 years ago. I never forgot. © Regina Mason / Facebook
  • My children come first, they are not baggage’s … it does not matter if you’re blood or not, kindness should be organic. © M Otto Rittah Rxs / Facebook
  • I would seriously consider whether you stay with your husband, as he clearly hasn’t accepted your children. To say that they shouldn’t be at a family gathering because they’re not blood relatives, means he agrees with your in-laws. I can only imagine how your kids feel with their ‘so called’ dad, disowning them in this manner. © James Wood / Facebook

Conflict with in-laws is not uncommon. Here is the story of a young woman who decided to teach her insolent mother-in-law a lesson.

This baby was born with a unique birthmark and here is how she looks today…

A few years ago, the world welcomed a beautiful child named Natalie in one of America’s maternity facilities, an event eagerly anticipated by her parents. This was no accidental pregnancy; it had been meticulously planned, and the expectant parents were fully prepared to welcome the new addition to their family.

However, the joyous moment of Natalie’s birth was met with a mix of emotions, particularly for her mother, Lacey. Baby Natalie came into the world with a striking birthmark covering half of her face, a sight that moved Lacey to tears. In that instant, the parents’ world was filled with uncertainty and concern.

Yet, the medical professionals attending to Natalie were quick to offer reassurance. After conducting comprehensive examinations, they confirmed that there were no health issues that posed a threat to the baby’s well-being.

The birthmark, while uncommon, was something that happened on occasion, with no clear explanation for its occurrence. It might be attributed to a genetic anomaly that defied medical treatment.

As time passed, and Natalie grew older, her parents began to ponder the possibility of surgical intervention to address the birthmark. They explored the idea with a medical team, but the experts advised against it.

They emphasized that such a procedure, at Natalie’s young age, would likely cause her unnecessary pain without providing substantial benefits. Ultimately, the parents made the heartfelt decision not to pursue surgery.

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