Exposing your personal life on the social media for the sake of sharing a life lesson might be a difficult decision to make, but TikTok user @tattylomas did exactly that and spoke of how she handled her husband’s infidelity and how she reacted witnessing him ruining their marriage and their family and later regretting it.
She started her story explaining that she and her now ex-husband were high-school sweethearts. She knew he was the one the moment she laid eyes on him years ago. The two proceeded to marry and welcome three children together. But one day out of the blue he told her that there was someone else in his life and that he wanted a divorce.
The TikToker felt like her entire world collapsed. She couldn’t understand how he could wrack their family for a woman he only knew for three months. But he was determined to start his life over claiming he was in love with her and deserved to be happy.
She did all in her power to prevent him from leaving her and the children, but to no avail.
It was then that she decided to put her brave face on and be strong for her kids.
They proceeded with the divorce and she got to keep the house which meant the world to her because they bought it from her grandmother, but ended paying him a hefty payout.
Once everything was over, the TikToker could finally get over her heartbreak. But then, she got a text from her ex telling her he was sorry and he wanted to get back to her. For this woman, that wasn’t an option. After everything he did, she couldn’t possibly take him back, not ever.
In fact, she learned that the woman her husband left her for was a horrible person who crashed his car while driving drunk.
Some time later, the TikToker met someone knew through her sister who was also divorced. She and this new man didn’t plan on getting married, but they got involved in a meaningful relationship.
The woman continued to express how delighted she was to watch her ex-husband suffer the consequences of his actions. “Call me evil or whatever, but he brought all of this on himself,” she added.
At the end of the video, she addressed her husband directly, saying, “So if you are watching this, enjoy your shabby one-bedroom apartment and her broken-down car. Oh, and my new partner and I will think of you on our vacation in Hawaii. I know Hawaii was the place you always wanted to go. Maybe I will send you a postcard.”
“SERVES HIM RIGHT!!!” someone commented. “YES GURL U GOOOO,”another added.
One viewer suggested, “GIRL SEND HIM THAT POSTCARD BUT FILL IT W PICS OF YOU AND YOUR NEW MAN.”
She said she didn’t want to indulge in any hard revenge antics because watching her ex regret his actions was enough revenge for her.
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Inside Tom Selleck’s ‘retreat’ home, where he has been living a private life since 1988 with his family
Tom Selleck is probably one of Hollywood’s most beloved actors. He has taken on a number of roles throughout the years and been well-liked by many Americans.
The actor lives a full life, residing in his permanent home for the most part of it.
Continue reading to learn more about Tom Selleck.
Tom Selleck has lived the ranch lifestyle in California for almost thirty years. Living on a ranch, according to him and his spouse, keeps him relatively calm.
The actor, who was born in Detroit in January 1945, began his career in entertainment in the 1960s when he began to appear in small roles on television and in films. It wasn’t until Magnum, PI debuted that the actor actually became well-known and wealthy.
For eight years, Selleck played detective Thomas Magnum, located in Hawaii. For the role, he even received a Primetime Emmy for outstanding lead actor.
Subsequently, the actor starred in popular TV shows like The Closer and Friends. In addition, he stars in “Blue Bloods.” Alongside Donnie Wahlberg and Bridget Moynahan, he co-stars in the show. The show has 13 seasons under its belt and is incredibly popular with viewers.
Selleck has achieved a great deal of fame, yet his career could have achieved even greater success. On the other hand, the actor values balance in his life and gives equal weight to his personal and professional relationships. For this reason, the actor moved out of Magnum, PI in 1987.
The actor had no idea how much fame the series had brought him. Although he took pleasure in his profession, he wasn’t always happy with the attention he received. “I knew intellectually what it would mean in terms of being a public person, but there’s no way to understand it until you’ve lived it,” he once stated.
The actor claimed that he left Magnum, PI in search of a more fulfilling existence since he was “from it.” When he quit the show in 1987, he married Jillie Joan Mack, his second wife. He talked about how his second wife could “light up a room” and had a “effervescent quality.”
Mack was a former dancer turned actress from England. A year after their marriage, the couple purchased a ranch in Ventura, California. The ranch was originally owned by Dean Martin. There are reportedly more than 1,500 native trees on the property.
After ten years of filming Blue Bloods in New York, Selleck leaves the ranch, leaving his wife Mack in charge. Despite giving up her job, one of the couple’s acquaintances saw that she was still quite happy because she spent most of her time on the ranch with her animals, who gave her immense delight.
Selleck and Mack love the ranch. Before he bought the property, Selleck decided he wanted to make amends and get some privacy back. The actor hardly finished any work during the year, which worried people about his career. But he made it clear that the primary cause was that he was uninterested in the tasks that were being assigned to him.
As press reports said that the actor’s career was all but ended, the actor took advantage of the peace and quiet to reinvent himself. “I quit Magnum to have a family,” he declared. Although getting off the train took a while, this property has really aided in my efforts to maintain equilibrium.
Hannah, Mack and Selleck’s daughter, was born in 1988. The couple has been married for almost thirty years. They believed that raising their daughter on the ranch would be enjoyable as well.
To sustain his personal life, the actor prioritized his marriage. He admitted that spending some time away from Hollywood to focus on his family has improved his marriage.
Even while living in a laid-back manner at the ranch has enhanced his personal life, the couple finds it difficult to maintain. All of the maintenance on the property is done by Selleck alone, including plant pruning and road repairs.
This California drought hurt his avocado plants. In 2007, the actor acknowledged that selling avocados had proven to be quite profitable for him, but only a few years before, he had acknowledged that it was getting harder for him to make a living from his avocados.
Selleck is accused by the Calleguas Municipal Water District of stealing truckloads of water. It was said that he would use a large truck similar to a water tender to drive to the hydrant and deliver the water back to his house. There were twelve documented journeys in around two years. Because it was uncertain whether any more visits were made that were overlooked, it was also unclear how much water was taken.
Two cease-and-desist notices from the authorities in late 2013 are said to have been disregarded by the performers, who kept taking water.
The actor was made to pay $21,000 to cover the cost of the private investigation that was done against him in addition to additional money to cover the cost of damages. He was also prohibited from using the Calleguas Municipal Water District for personal purposes any longer.
The actor gave off the impression that he was content with his life and California ranches. We are ecstatic that the performer now has a space to “retreat” and be authentic.
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