Brenda Lee’s name may not be as recognizable as some of the other music stars from the 1960s but when you think of Christmas, you’ll know her song, and start humming her catchy tune, “Rockin’ Around the Christmas Tree.”
When Lee, now 78, first hit the stage, she wasn’t old enough to drive but her powerful vocals steered her “unprecedented international popularity” as the most successful female artist of the 1960s.
Lee, whose voice defied her diminutive stature at only 4 foot 9, became a fan favorite when she was only 12.
Brenda May Tarpley, born in 1944, got her start in the late 1940s, became huge in the 1950s, and over her career–that started before she left elementary school–she topped the charts 55 times, earning the title as the most successful female recording artist of the 1960s.
When Lee was only eight (according to Rolling Stone), her father, a construction worker, was killed at work and little Brenda–who then changed her last name to Lee–became the family’s primary provider.
Taking care of her younger brother, big sister, and mother–a cotton mill worker–was not a duty, but something she wanted to do. She said that she was thrilled when she made her first $20, so she could help her family: “Even at that young age, I saw that helped our life,” Lee said, adding “It put some food on the table. It helped, and I loved it.”
The Atlanta-born chanteuse, called a “pioneer of early rock and roll,” by the Georgia Encyclopedia, achieved “unprecedented international popularity in the 1960s.”
But, an incredibly humble human, Lee credits those who helped her achieve her dreams. When Christianity Today asked what she thinks about being a legend, Lee said “I don’t think of myself that way!” She continued, “I’m just a girl who’s been blessed to be doing what I’m doing, and there’s a lot of people who’ve sweated a lot of tears and put a lot of life’s work into me to be able to have my dream. So, if I’m a legend, then they’re legends, too.”
In 1956, the young girl joined country star Red Foley for a show at the Bell Auditorium near her home in Augusta, and she belted out “Jambalaya,” by Hank Williams.
She was then signed to appear on Foley’s Ozark Jubilee, a country music show, where millions of viewers fell in love with the sassy 12-year-old whose talent was developed well beyond her age.
In the same year, Lee signed with Decca Records, and the next year, she moved to Nashville, Tennessee, and fusing country with rhythm and blues–highlighted by her hiccupping vocals–she recorded early rockabilly classics like “BIGELOW 6-200,” “Little Jonah,” and “Let’s Jump the Broomstick.”
When asked if–when as a young girl–she was nervous performing in front of large crowds, she answered: “No, not really. Nobody ever told me to be nervous. The stage always felt like a hometown to me because I had been in front of people ever since I was 3 years old, singing to people. So it was a very comfortable spot for me.”
In 1957, Lee earned the nickname “Little Miss Dynamite” for her pint-sized powerhouse recording of the song “Dynamite,” and in 1958, fans heard “Rockin’ around the Christmas Tree,” a genre and generation-crossing holiday standard, released when she was only 13.
“I knew it was magical,” she told Rolling Stone.
Over the next couple of years, she charted with hits like “Sweet Nuthin’s,” “All Alone Am I,” and “Fool #1.”
Most of her songs, however, contradicted her experience as a young girl. Her mother didn’t let her date and she graduated high school not understanding the heartbreak of young love.
She was only 16 when she said “Love could be so cruel” in the song “I’m Sorry” and only 16 when she said “I want his lips to kiss me” in the song “I Want to be Wanted,” both back-to-back hits when she was still in school.
And when she turned 18, she met Ronnie Shacklett, whom she’s now been happily married to for 60 years.
Life on the road for Lee as a youngster had its difficulties. She celebrated her 12th birthday in Las Vegas and speaking with the Las Vegas Journal, Lee explained her loneliness.
“Of course, I wasn’t even allowed to walk through a casino, I was so young. So I didn’t even know what a casino looked like. They took me into the kitchen, then into the showroom. And then when my show was over, I was brought back out through the kitchen and back up to my room. Children weren’t allowed … in the casino area.” She continued, “There wasn’t anything to do in Vegas for a kid. The most fun I had was on the stage.”
Speaking on what she missed out on as a child, the award-winning Lee said, “Many times, I yearned to be with my friends rather than be out there on the road.”
Turns out she made new friends on the road, like with the music group that opened for her at a 1962 show in Germany. “I hung out with John,” she says effortlessly, speaking of John Lennon. “He was extremely intelligent, very acerbic with his jokes, just a gentle person. When I found out that they later said they were fans of my music, I was just floored.”
My Grandma Met Her Long-Lost Sweetheart in a Nursing Home — The Huge Secret She Revealed Turned His Life Upside Down
My Grandma Met Her Long-Lost Sweetheart in a Nursing Home — The Huge Secret She Revealed Turned His Life Upside Down
Hold on to your hats! This unbelievable story completely transformed my life. It’s practically a movie plot waiting to happen! My name’s Mia and this wild tale is about my amazing grandma, Grammy. Buckle up, because it’s about to get awesome.
So, let me introduce you to my beloved Grammy. She’s the most kind-hearted, sweet, and loving woman you ever met. I adore her with all my heart, and to me, she’s the best grandmother in the world.
A woman hugging her grandmother | Source: Midjourney
One lazy Sunday afternoon, Grammy brought up something she had mentioned a few times before. She wanted to move to a retirement home. We sat in her cozy living room, sunlight streaming through the lace curtains, sipping on chamomile tea.
“Mia, dear, I’ve been thinking about the retirement home again,” Grammy said, her voice gentle but firm.
I put down my cup, trying to hide my sadness. “Grammy, I understand. You want to be around people your age, and you deserve to enjoy your time without worrying about us.”
A woman and her grandmother talking in their living room | Source: Midjourney
Her eyes softened. “It’s not that I don’t love being with you all. I just think it would be nice to have friends around, and not feel like I’m a burden.”
“You’re never a burden, Grammy,” I said, reaching over to hold her hand. “But if this is what you want, I’ll support you.”
A few weeks later, the day came. We went to the retirement home, and I helped Grammy with the registration and moving in. The place was lovely, with well-kept gardens and cheerful staff.
Senior citizens and staff members inside a nursing home | Source: Midjourney
Grammy seemed happy, which made it easier for me to handle the lump in my throat. After we finished the registration, we decided to check out the local café inside the home. As we waited in line for our coffee, something incredible happened.
“Peter? Is that you?” Grammy’s voice was a mix of shock and excitement. I turned to see an elderly man, about Grammy’s age, standing there with a look of surprise on his face.
“Mary?” he replied, his voice trembling. “Mary, it’s been so long!”
An elderly man standing in a nursing home | Source: Midjourney
Guys, it was her high school sweetheart, Peter! They hadn’t seen each other in almost 60 years. My jaw practically hit the floor.
“Grammy, who is this?” I asked, looking between them.
“Oh, Mia, this is Peter,” she said, her eyes misty. “Peter, this is my granddaughter, Mia.”
Peter smiled warmly at me. “It’s nice to meet you, Mia. Your grandmother and I were very close a long time ago.”
They hugged, and it was such an emotional moment. After the initial shock, we sat down at a table.
An elderly couple meeting in a nursing home’s café | Source: Midjourney
They started talking, reminiscing about the days when they were together. It was like watching a live version of one of those feel-good, romantic movies.
“Do you remember how we used to sneak into the old basement in the schoolyard?” Grammy asked, her eyes sparkling.
Peter laughed. “Oh, those were the days. We thought we were so sneaky.”
They went on like that for a while, sharing stories and laughing. Then, out of nowhere, Grammy went silent. Tears started rolling down her cheeks. Peter leaned over and hugged her tenderly.
A very sad-looking elderly woman is sitting in a nursing home’s café | Source: Midjourney
“Mary, what’s wrong?” he asked, his voice full of concern.
But then Grammy said something that changed Peter’s life forever, and mine too!
Grammy took a deep breath. “Peter, I need to tell you something. I’LL NEVER FORGIVE MYSELF for this, and I’m sure you won’t either, but you need to know. Actually, you…” She paused to take a deep breath.
“What is it, Mary? You’re scaring me,” Peter interjected, his facial expression a blend of shock and confusion.
“Peter, you are the father of my son, Steve.” There was a deafening silence after Grammy’s bombshell revelation. Peter was taken aback, but so was I.
An extremely shocked elderly man in a nursing home café | Source: Midjourney
“But how… I mean, why didn’t you…” Peter stammered, clearly at a loss for words.
Grammy took a shaky breath and began, “Peter, my family was against us being together. They threatened to disown me if I didn’t leave you. But I loved you so much, I went to the prom with you anyway. That night, we… we slept together. Do you remember?” She paused, looking down at her hands.
Peter became uneasy in his seat and while some might have thought it was due to his age, that wasn’t quite the case. He then buried his face into his hands and it was clear that he remembered everything he and Grammy had experienced all those years back.
A young couple at a prom | Source: Midjourney
“A few days later, you told me your parents wanted you to continue your studies in another state,” Grammy continued. “You said it would be better for everyone because my family wouldn’t disown me if you were gone.”
Peter’s eyes widened in shock. “I thought I was doing the right thing, Mary. I thought it would save you from losing your family.”
Grammy nodded, tears streaming down her face. “I know, but it broke my heart. You left, and a few weeks later, I found out I was pregnant. I didn’t know where you had moved, and I couldn’t reach you. I ran away from home, Peter. I left a note for my parents, but they never looked for me. They were too ashamed.”
A sad young woman sitting alone in her room | Source: Midjourney
As Grammy recounted this painful part of her past, Peter’s face grew pale. Tears streamed down his cheeks as he listened, and I could see the remorse and pain in his eyes.
“Mary, I… I had no idea. I thought I was doing what was best for you. If I had known…” Peter’s voice broke, and he hugged Grammy tightly. “I’m so sorry. I looked for you for years, but I could never find you.”
We sat there, the three of us, wrapped in a moment of shared grief and love. It felt like time had stopped, and all the years of pain and separation were finally being healed.
An elderly man crying while sitting in a nursing home café | Source: Midjourney
“Mary,” Peter said softly, “from now on, we won’t lose each other again. I promise.”
Grammy smiled through her tears. “I promise too, Peter.”
From that day on, Peter and Grammy were inseparable. They spent all their time together in the retirement home, making up for the lost years.
“Let’s take a walk in the garden, Mary,” Peter would say every afternoon, taking her hand.
“Yes, let’s,” Grammy would reply, her face lighting up with joy.
An elderly couple sharing a hug | Source: Midjourney
They attended activities together, from painting classes to movie nights, always side by side. They even started a little tradition of having coffee at the café every morning.
“Good morning, lovebirds,” I would tease whenever I visited them at the café.
“Mia, come join us,” Grammy would say, waving me over with a smile.
I visited them often, getting to know Peter as my biological grandfather. He was a kind and gentle man, full of stories and wisdom. It was like having a piece of the past come alive and join our present.
An elderly couple having coffee together in a nursing home café | Source: Midjourney
One afternoon, while the three of us sat in the café where two long-lost lovers had reunited, I turned to Peter and said, “Tell me about your childhood, Grandpa Peter.” As soon as those last two words left my lips, I regretted them.
Quickly, I corrected myself. “Oh, I’m sorry for calling you Grandpa. It’s just that I’ve missed my Gramps ever since he passed away some fifteen years ago.’”
“That’s okay, dear Mia. You can call me Grandpa Peter. I don’t mind at all. Yeah, so, it was a different time back then…” he began, his eyes twinkling with memories.
A woman laughing with her grandfather outdoors | Source: Midjourney
Ultimately, this unexpected reunion brought us so much joy and closure. Grammy and Peter found each other again, proving that true love can withstand the test of time and adversity. As for me, I gained a grandfather and witnessed a love story that I will cherish forever.
The universe does work in mysterious ways, don’t you think?
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