Her childhood was unconventional as she grew up during the Blitz period. Years later, Joan thought it would be great to do a film about growing up with her sister during this era but her dream hasn’t come to fruition.
Even so, the actress said that as the war continued, she was just a child, unaware of the bombings. She would collect fragments of debris from the streets and store them in her cigar box each evening.
She narrated, “We would draw silly pictures of Hitler. We were evacuated 10 or 12 times. We would be in the tube stations, and people would be playing their harmonicas and singing.”
Despite the chaos, Joan Collins, who deeply loved her Anglican Briton mother, realized that she did not want to live the same life her mom lived. “Mummy was the 1950s housewife, very sweet and very docile,” she explained.
The actress had previously said that her mom, who died at the age of 52, died very young because she never spoke back to her husband.
oan also shared that “My father never held back. I saw him as a figure to look up to more than my mother. I loved her to death but I considered her to be weak and I hated all the clothes she wore.”
The actress’s mother consistently wore girdles, suspenders, stockings, tight bras, underpinnings, and corsets, which Joan disliked.
Joan, who took great care in her appearance, was voted the most beautiful girl in England by a photographers’ association when she was 18. The newspapers asked her dad what he thought about her daughter’s position, he replied, “I’m amazed. She’s a nice-enough-looking girl. Nothing special.”
At this point, Joan had departed from the Royal Academy of Dramatic Art (RADA), developed a passion for French existentialism, admired the singer Juliette Gréco, and dreamed of becoming a celebrated stage actress.
The focus on her appearance was even more as her film career progressed. Joan disclosed that in Hollywood, she faced daily verbal abuse.
She recounted how the makeup department gave her cruel nicknames, such as “Moonface” due to her baby fat and “Scrawny Legs” because of her thin legs. She remembered the department as a large group of women who were particularly harsh and unkind to her.
In 1955, when Joan was 22, she was cast in the biopic about Evelyn Nesbit “The Girl in the Red Velvet Swing.” Evelyn was considered the most beautiful girl in New York and Joan was to play her.
So, one day, Joan who was still in the Juliette Gréco character and thus had no makeup and was in jeans with scruffy hair, ran into her director Richard Fleischer. Richard told her, “Oh my God, I cannot look at you – you are so ugly. You cannot go around like that – put some makeup on, get your hair done, get a proper dress.”
Just like her career, Joan’s personal life also had its ups and downs. When she was 17, still a virgin, the actress went on a date with actor Maxwell Reed, aged 31. He spiked her rum and coke and raped her.
“I was 17, but I was the equivalent mentally of 12. We did not have sex education,” she noted. Shockingly, Maxwell became the actress’s first husband. When asked why she chose to marry her rapist, she answered, “Because I come from a generation where if you’re going to have sex, you get married.”
However, when Joan learned that Maxwell wanted to give her to older men for $12,710 a night as long as he could watch, she stood up for herself. After four years of marriage, the two divorced.
In her 20s, Joan lived with several men, including Sydney Chaplin and Arthur Loew Jr. She also had an affair with a married man who was eight years her senior. As much as the man was handsome, witty, and fascinating, Joan said the affair was utter hell and she never engaged in one again.
Hollywood men, including directors, also went after Joan. In her autobiography, “Behind the Shoulder Pads,” the actress revealed that she was offered the role of Cleopatra in Joseph L. Mankiewicz’s film on the condition that she got along well with Buddy Adler, the head of Fox, and the chairman of the board.
Joan, who was disgusted by how directors and producers, who were old men, took advantage of young actresses said no as she never wanted to be a part of that. The Cleopatra role was given to Elizabeth Taylor.
In the memoir, Joan also wrote about having an abortion when she got pregnant at 26 with her fiancé, Beatty, a 23-year-old aspiring actor. Beatty convinced Joan to abort the baby because it would derail their career. Years later, she agreed with him, noting that if he had a baby, she would have had to say goodbye to her acting career.
Joan went on to have three kids. She had her first two, Tara and Alexander with her second husband, Anthony Newley. Her last child, Katyana, is with her second husband Ron Kass.
The actress’s third husband was Peter Holm and she is now married to Percy Gibson. Joan announced that she was engaged to Percy in December 2001 and then the pair got married in 2002 at Claridge’s Hotel in London, in front of 175 guests.
The lovebirds, who have been together for over two decades, met when Joan was featured in a touring production of the play “Love Letters” in the US. The Peruvian-born theatre manager also helped Joan edit her novel “Star Quality.”
Many people talked when Joan and Percy Gibson got married because he is 32 years younger than her. Joan was asked to comment on their age difference and she said, “Well, if he dies, he dies.”
In 2023, Joan gushed about her marriage saying that she had found the right man in her current husband, “Oh yes, Percy and I have been married for 21 years and it’s just marvelous.”
Now, Joan is in her 90s but she still has the youthful charm and grace in her presence. When asked if she has had cosmetic procedures done, the actress simply said with a shrug, “If people want to think I’ve had surgery, then…”
Joan added, “You can tell [I haven’t] because I have lines and jowls. When I see women around my age I think: ‘Oh, really? My gosh, I look quite a bit…’ I think I look pretty good!”
The movie star is also needle-phobic and just couldn’t bring herself to have cosmetic work done on her. She attributes her good look, perfect complexion, and youthfulness to staying out of the sun.
She added that her mom taught her to moisturize her skin and use night cream, something she also taught her daughters. Joan’s lovely appearance still amazes her fans.
In April 2024, Joan enjoyed a fun photoshoot for the New York Times Fashion and Style section. She looked radiant in a white cardigan paired with an off-white cap and black trousers.
A fan, amazed by her look, said, “You are simply iconic, dear one, and stunning ♥️♥️.” Another admirer commented, “You always look so beautiful♥️.”
When she turned 90 in 2023, a fan shared a picture of Joan taken on the streets. The actress was in a modest flower dress styled with a white coat, a sun hat, and sunglasses. The fan captioned the post, “Happiest of birthdays to Dame Joan Collins, who turns 90 but easily looks at least 20 years younger.”
At 91, Joan Collins is content with both her personal and professional life. Retirement isn’t on her agenda, as she plans to continue working because of her passion for it.
She acknowledged that performing her one-woman show and staying in a different hotel each night was exhausting, but the enthusiastic audiences and her love for her work made it a rewarding experience.
A Stranger Claimed to Be My Half-Brother, I Didn’t Believe Him Until My Mother Confessed
Living a quiet life with her son, Jasmine never expected a message from a stranger to shake her world. But when a man named Robert claimed to be her half-brother, she found herself uncovering secrets buried deep in her family’s past.
I’m a single mother of a 15-year-old boy, Ethan, and everything was going well in my life until the day I met my best friend, Ellen.
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We’ve been friends for over a decade now and there’s nothing like a night out with her to recharge me. We were at our favorite restaurant, catching up on life between mouthfuls of pasta and sips of wine, when Ellen slid her phone out of her bag.
“So,” Ellen smirked, “you’ll love this. I got a new batch of message requests on Facebook last night. Some of them are just ridiculous.”
She scrolled through her messages with a smile.
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“Oh my god, Jas, listen to this one!” She snorted. “‘Your eyes are like the ocean, and baby, I’m lost at sea.’ Who even writes these anymore?”
I nearly choked on my wine. “Please tell me that’s not from the engineer guy who sent you a friend request last week!”
“Worse! It’s some dude who claims to be a ‘cryptocurrency entrepreneur.’” Ellen made air quotes, rolling her eyes. “You should see the messages I get. Come on, check yours! I bet your inbox is full of gems too.”
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I rolled my eyes, laughing. “Please, Ellen. Who’s messaging a boring oldie like me? Half the time I can’t even figure out how to use these apps!”
“Just check your message requests!” Ellen reached across the table, grabbing my phone. “Look, you have unread messages. Come on, humor me!”
“Alright, alright,” I said with a dramatic sigh as I took my phone back. “But I’m telling you it’s just going to be spa—”
The words died in my throat as I read the most recent message.
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Hi Jasmine. I know this may sound odd to you, but I think you’re my half-sister.
“What is it?” Ellen leaned forward.
“Some guy named Robert…” I showed her the message. “Says he’s my half-brother.”
Ellen burst out laughing. “Is that supposed to be a pickup line? Because that’s a weird one!”
I tried to laugh it off. “Is this some new dating trend? Pretend you’re family to get attention?”
“Who knows?” Ellen chuckled. “Maybe he thinks being your long-lost sibling will make him irresistible.”
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We both laughed it off and finished our meals, but something about the message stuck with me. The tone didn’t have the typical goofiness of a flirty message. It felt serious.
Ellen moved on, chatting about her weekend plans, but my mind kept circling back to those words.
Half-sister? I thought and felt curious to know more about that man.
That night, after tucking Ethan in and double-checking his homework was done, I sat on my couch in the quiet of my living room.
Robert’s message pulled me back to Facebook.
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I clicked over to his profile and scrolled through his photos. He looked like he was in his late 40s, with a warm, genuine smile.
In one of the pictures, he was standing with his wife and kids. My eyes widened when I looked at his daughter.
Her eyes were just like my mother’s. The same unique shape and soft expression.
Could it be? I thought. Was this even remotely possible?
I took a deep breath and opened his message again. My fingers trembled as I typed a response.
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Hi Robert, I don’t know you, but… what are you talking about?
I hit send and stared at the message. I knew it was probably some mistake or strange coincidence, but I couldn’t push it out of my mind.
I tried to distract myself with Netflix but kept checking my phone. I couldn’t even sleep that night because my mind kept racing with questions.
What if he was telling the truth? I thought. How could that even be possible?
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The next morning, I woke up to Robert’s reply. It was a long message, and I could feel my heart pounding as I read it.
He mentioned my mother, Martha, by name, and included details of where she was born and even where she lives now. He claimed Mom had given him up for adoption soon after he was born.
It felt too specific to be random, but my inner skeptic wasn’t convinced just yet.
What if he’s just some stranger trying to scam me? I thought.
I immediately thought of talking to Ellen. I called her and she picked up like she was waiting for my call.
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“Hey, so, remember that guy, Robert?” I asked. “I, uh, I messaged him back last night.”
“You what?” Ellen was shocked. “Seriously, Jas? What did he say?”
“Seems like he’s serious about it,” I replied, pacing the living room. “He knows Mom’s name, her birth details, and even where she lives. And he told me Mom placed him for adoption soon after he was born.”
“Jas, this sounds sketchy,” Ellen said. “Ask him for more details. Like, why now? And what about his adoption? I mean, anyone could dig up basic information, but only someone who actually knows would have the adoption details, right?”
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She was right. Following her advice, I texted him back, asking specific questions about his adoption. Then, I put my phone away and tried to focus on my day.
Later that evening, I checked my phone. Robert had responded with more information about his adoption including the year, the location, and even the name of the adoption agency.
The adoption year he mentioned was three years before my mother married my dad. That timeline would actually make sense if he was telling the truth.
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However, I wasn’t ready to dive in headfirst. I messaged him back, saying I’d get back to him. Then, I spent the next two days scrolling through his profile, looking at his photos, and studying his family.
I was looking for any sign to prove this was a scam, but I didn’t find anything.
Finally, on the second night, I took a deep breath and texted him, saying I’d be willing to meet.
He responded quickly, and we arranged to meet at a small café I often visited.
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The café was quiet when I arrived early the next morning. Then Robert walked in, and I knew. His eyes looked like mine. We looked so similar.
We exchanged a nervous smile as he sat down across from me.
“Thank you for meeting me,” he said softly. “I know this is unusual.”
“How did you find me?” I asked.
That’s when Robert began his story. He shared how he’d grown up knowing he was adopted. His adoptive parents were nice to him, so he never tried looking for his birth family out of respect for them.
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But things changed two years ago when his adoptive father passed away. Then, he lost his adoptive mother eight months ago.
“I spent weeks just lost,” he said. “They were my entire world. After losing my mom, I started wondering about my biological roots. I suddenly wanted to know about my birth parents.”
He explained that he first tried getting information from the adoption agency but with no luck. He tried other avenues, but each attempt led to a dead end.
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“Taking an ancestry DNA test was the only option left,” he told me. “I was stunned when the results said I had a half-sister.”
“It was surreal,” he continued, glancing at me. “I spent two weeks just debating whether to contact you. I was worried about what it might mean for you. But eventually, I decided I had to reach out. I needed to know.”
As he spoke, my mother’s image kept flashing through my mind. Why would she keep this secret for so long? Why wouldn’t she tell me?
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Robert finished by expressing his desire to meet our mother. I told him I’d talk to her and get back to him.
The next day, I left Ethan with Ellen and drove four hours to Mom’s house. The familiar two-story colonial looked exactly the same, but everything else felt different.
Mom was tending her roses when I pulled up.
“Jasmine! What a surprise!” Her smile faded when she saw my expression. “Honey? What’s wrong?”
“We need to talk, Mom,” I said.
I told her everything once we settled in the living room.
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“Someone contacted me, Mom,” I began. “His name is Robert, and he says he’s my half-brother.”
Mom looked at me with eyes wide open and her hands started to shake.
“Is it true?” I asked quietly. “Mom, you need to tell me the truth. Please.”
She tried denying it at first. “I don’t know what you’re…”
“Mom, please stop!” I yelled. “I know everything. Just tell me the truth!”
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Tears filled her eyes as she sank onto the couch.
“I was so young when I met Daniel,” she whispered. “I thought he was my everything. He was charming, romantic, and exciting. But then…”
“Then what?”
“He had his struggles,” Mom continued. “With addiction. I thought I could help him change but he only spiraled deeper. And in the middle of it, I found out I was pregnant.”
I couldn’t believe it. I was furious.
“You had a child with a man you never told me about?” I asked.
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Mom nodded. “But I knew I couldn’t raise him. I couldn’t bring a child into that chaos.”
“So, you gave him up? And never told anyone? Not even Dad?”
“I found a couple who wanted a child, who could give him the life I couldn’t,” she continued. “I left town, started fresh, and met your dad at my new job as a cashier. He was so stable and kind. And I wanted a fresh start with him. I couldn’t tell him anything.”
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“But you could’ve told him later Mom!” I argued. “Why did you keep it a secret all these years?”
“I was ashamed, Jasmine,” she explained. “I was afraid the darkness of my past would make me lose everything.”
I sat back, trying to process it all.
All these years, I thought, she kept this buried, not even trusting me with her truth.
“What about Ethan?” I asked. “What would he think?”
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“Jasmine, I’m sorry. I’m so sorry,” she held my hand. “I kept this from you because I thought I could spare you the pain. And once it was buried, I was terrified to dig it up again.”
I noticed the guilt etched on Mom’s face as she spoke. My anger slowly started to fade as I realized she had been carrying this along for too long.
She admitted that she’d never tried to reconnect with Robert because she felt she had no right. She feared disrupting his life, thinking it would only confuse and hurt him.
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She also told me she visited different adoption agencies on special days like Robert’s birthday, Children’s Day, and other special occasions when I wasn’t around.
She offered emotional support to birth mothers considering adoption. It was her way of remembering him, and of processing the pain she’d buried.
“I didn’t know,” I murmured as tears trickled down my cheeks. “You never told me.”
“I didn’t want you to see this side of me,” she sobbed. “But I’ve been haunted by it every day.”
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In that moment, my heart broke for her, and for everything she’d carried alone. I wrapped my arms around her as she cried.
I couldn’t believe my mom had pretended to be okay for decades after losing a baby. She had made a painful sacrifice for all of us.
I needed a day to process everything before I decided what to do next.
The next day, I called Robert and told him I’d spoken to our mother.
“You think I should meet her?” he asked. “I mean… it’s going to be emotional.”
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“Take your time,” I replied. “Think about it.”
Later, that evening, I sat down with Ethan. He was only fifteen, but he deserved to know the truth about his new uncle. I wasn’t sure how he’d take it, so I tried to keep things as simple as possible.
“Hey buddy, there’s something you need to know about our family…” I said.
I explained everything and felt so surprised to see how calmly he handled everything.
Three days later, Robert agreed to meet Mom. We chose a quiet park for the meeting.
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The initial moments were awkward. Mom’s guilt made her hesitant to even call herself Robert’s mother. Meanwhile, Robert stood back, uncertain about his decision.
But the tension began to ease as they talked.
“Robert, I’m… so sorry.” Mom looked down at her hands. “I know I hurt you by giving you up and by keeping you in the dark for so long. I thought… I thought it was the right thing to do at the time.”
Robert took a deep breath.
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“I don’t know if I can say I understand, but, uh, I’m glad I know the truth now.” He paused, the weight of his own words settling in. “Thank you for meeting me.”
They talked for a while before it was time to say goodbye. I almost cried when I saw them hug. They held each other for the first time after decades and the relief on their faces was evident.
Driving home, Mom reached over and squeezed my hand.
“Thank you,” she whispered. “For understanding. For helping me find closure. And… for forgiving me.”
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I smiled at her.
“I love you, Mom,” I said. “And I’ll always be there for you.”
Life isn’t simple anymore. But maybe it’s better this way. It’s messier, and more complicated, but it’s more real.
I’m just happy our family is finally complete now.
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