Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck Have ‘PTSD’ From Their First Romance, but Her ‘This Is Me… Now’ Movie Will Still Spotlight Their Relationship

Jennifer Lopez admits not everyone in her camp initially supported the idea to document her romance with husband Ben Affleck in her upcoming “This Is Me… Now” album and companion film.
“As artists, we have to follow our heart and this is me following my heart and doing something that maybe everybody didn’t think was the best idea, but I had to do it,” Lopez tells me.

Lopez is set to drop “This Is Me… Now,” a new album that marks the 20th anniversary of “This Is Me…Then,” on Feb. 16. The Dave Meyers-directed companion short film will be released at the same time by Amazon MGM Studios.

Sure, Lopez has some worries about putting her and Affleck’s life in the spotlight because “we both have PTSD” caused by the media scrutiny they endured back when they first dated, she said, “but we’re older now. We’re wiser. We also know what’s important, what’s really important in life, and it’s not so much what other people think. It’s about being true to who you are.”

Asked if the film is a scripted feature or doc, Lopez explained, “You have to see it and you’ll have to experience it to understand it. That’s why I call it a ‘musical experience.’ Because there’s music, you can see it, you can hear it and then you’ll get to live it.”

A recent teaser for the film included a clip of Lopez saying, “When I was a little girl, when someone asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up, my answer was always… in love.”

It was almost a year ago when Lopez told me, at the premiere of her rom-com “Shotgun Wedding,” that she would love to act with Affleck again. They infamously co-starred in 2003’s “Gigli,” which bombed both with critics and at the box office. “We talk,” Lopez said at the time. “We love being together and working together so, yeah, you never know.”

Lopez and Affleck initially dated in the early 2000s. Bennifer, as they were often called, came to an end not long after they called off their wedding in 2003. The relationship was rekindled in 2021 before marrying in Las Vegas in 2022.

Lopez and Affleck’s most recent red carpet appearance took place on Dec. 5 in Hollywood when she was honored at Elle’s Women in Hollywood celebration.

Michael Jackson’s Friend Finally Spills the Real Reason Behind His Famous Glove

Michael Jackson’s Friend ‘Knew the Real Reason’ He Wore Single White Glove on Right Hand

Michael Jackson’s single white glove became one of his most famous fashion choices during his career. According to actor Cicely Tyson, she knew the real reason why he wore it. Tyson shared that she had been aware of what motivated Jackson to make this iconic glove a part of his look.

Getty Images

Michael Jackson Wore His Famous White Glove to Hide a Skin Condition, Says Friend

Michael Jackson’s iconic white glove became a signature part of his look during his career. According to a friend, the glove was originally designed to hide signs of vitiligo, a condition that causes patches of skin to lose color. Jackson, who passed away in 2009, often wore the glove on his right hand.

Vitiligo affects the skin, especially on the face, neck, and hands, and is caused by a lack of melanin, the pigment that gives skin its color. It affects about 1 in every 100 people.

https://googleads.g.doubleclick.net/pagead/ads?gdpr=0&us_privacy=1—&gpp_sid=-1&client=ca-pub-1773658762833587&output=html&h=280&adk=2121561433&adf=3979302052&pi=t.aa~a.95137260~i.13~rp.4&w=622&abgtt=7&fwrn=4&fwrnh=100&lmt=1726849386&num_ads=1&rafmt=1&armr=3&sem=mc&pwprc=1191565633&ad_type=text_image&format=622×280&url=https%3A%2F%2Fjokesdaddy.com%2Fmichael-jacksons-friend-finally-spills-the-real-reason-behind-his-famous-glove%2F%3Ffbclid%3DIwY2xjawFagLlleHRuA2FlbQIxMAABHezhKDvvy5GNJSEPgfrbmcC6oGZsziUPFEH-Od-BF5jKOuEaKNfw0z6boA_aem_wiUWwC8w9cUp9qirk4ZU_w&host=ca-host-pub-2644536267352236&fwr=0&pra=3&rh=156&rw=622&rpe=1&resp_fmts=3&wgl=1&fa=27&uach=WyJXaW5kb3dzIiwiNy4wLjAiLCJ4ODYiLCIiLCIxMjguMC42NjEzLjEzOCIsbnVsbCwwLG51bGwsIjY0IixbWyJDaHJvbWl1bSIsIjEyOC4wLjY2MTMuMTM4Il0sWyJOb3Q7QT1CcmFuZCIsIjI0LjAuMC4wIl0sWyJHb29nbGUgQ2hyb21lIiwiMTI4LjAuNjYxMy4xMzgiXV0sMF0.&dt=1726849385867&bpp=1&bdt=410&idt=1&shv=r20240918&mjsv=m202409180101&ptt=9&saldr=aa&abxe=1&cookie=ID%3D7b20416647364f5b%3AT%3D1726322449%3ART%3D1726847943%3AS%3DALNI_MZpLszTnzQ9UIpvri7rf-Nvkymgqw&gpic=UID%3D00000f01a4fcfdfa%3AT%3D1726322449%3ART%3D1726847943%3AS%3DALNI_MbY7lAlwLY5uk2o_yrVgm9rCAdHOg&eo_id_str=ID%3D3eab1fc17d3c657c%3AT%3D1726322449%3ART%3D1726847943%3AS%3DAA-AfjZ-y03aOjnfgIilO4F5CCmp&prev_fmts=0x0%2C980x280%2C622x280&nras=4&correlator=1422070135229&frm=20&pv=1&u_tz=420&u_his=1&u_h=768&u_w=1360&u_ah=728&u_aw=1360&u_cd=24&u_sd=1&dmc=8&adx=202&ady=1400&biw=1343&bih=607&scr_x=0&scr_y=0&eid=44759876%2C44759927%2C44759837%2C95339781%2C31087066%2C95338227%2C95342766%2C31087333%2C95342336&oid=2&pvsid=4009290669012551&tmod=187296524&uas=0&nvt=1&ref=https%3A%2F%2Fl.facebook.com%2F&fc=1408&brdim=0%2C0%2C0%2C0%2C1360%2C0%2C1360%2C728%2C1360%2C607&vis=1&rsz=%7C%7Cs%7C&abl=NS&fu=128&bc=31&bz=1&td=1&tdf=0&psd=W251bGwsbnVsbCxudWxsLDFd&nt=1&ifi=4&uci=a!4&btvi=2&fsb=1&dtd=245

Late actor Cicely Tyson, who knew Jackson, shared this detail about his glove during his 2009 memorial service.

Getty Images

A single white glove became a signature accessory for the late Michael Jackson throughout his career. The glove, often worn on his right hand, was part of his iconic style. It was originally created to help cover the effects of vitiligo, a skin condition that causes patches of skin to lose their color. Jackson, who passed away in 2009, used the glove to make a fashion statement while also concealing the condition. Vitiligo affects around 1 in 100 people and is caused by a lack of melanin, the pigment that gives skin its color.

Getty Images

Late actor Cicely Tyson talked about Michael Jackson’s famous white glove in 2009 after his death.

Cicely, known for movies like *Sounder* (1972) and the TV show *How to Get Away with Murder*, spoke to CNN’s Don Lemon in an interview. She mentioned that she and Michael shared the same fashion designer in the 1980s, who worked on creating the glove.

https://googleads.g.doubleclick.net/pagead/ads?gdpr=0&us_privacy=1—&gpp_sid=-1&client=ca-pub-1773658762833587&output=html&h=280&adk=2121561433&adf=2168732072&pi=t.aa~a.95137260~i.25~rp.4&w=622&abgtt=7&fwrn=4&fwrnh=100&lmt=1726849565&num_ads=1&rafmt=1&armr=3&sem=mc&pwprc=1191565633&ad_type=text_image&format=622×280&url=https%3A%2F%2Fjokesdaddy.com%2Fmichael-jacksons-friend-finally-spills-the-real-reason-behind-his-famous-glove%2F%3Ffbclid%3DIwY2xjawFagLlleHRuA2FlbQIxMAABHezhKDvvy5GNJSEPgfrbmcC6oGZsziUPFEH-Od-BF5jKOuEaKNfw0z6boA_aem_wiUWwC8w9cUp9qirk4ZU_w&host=ca-host-pub-2644536267352236&fwr=0&pra=3&rh=156&rw=622&rpe=1&resp_fmts=3&wgl=1&fa=27&uach=WyJXaW5kb3dzIiwiNy4wLjAiLCJ4ODYiLCIiLCIxMjguMC42NjEzLjEzOCIsbnVsbCwwLG51bGwsIjY0IixbWyJDaHJvbWl1bSIsIjEyOC4wLjY2MTMuMTM4Il0sWyJOb3Q7QT1CcmFuZCIsIjI0LjAuMC4wIl0sWyJHb29nbGUgQ2hyb21lIiwiMTI4LjAuNjYxMy4xMzgiXV0sMF0.&dt=1726849385870&bpp=1&bdt=413&idt=1&shv=r20240918&mjsv=m202409180101&ptt=9&saldr=aa&abxe=1&cookie=ID%3D7b20416647364f5b%3AT%3D1726322449%3ART%3D1726849387%3AS%3DALNI_MZpLszTnzQ9UIpvri7rf-Nvkymgqw&gpic=UID%3D00000f01a4fcfdfa%3AT%3D1726322449%3ART%3D1726849387%3AS%3DALNI_MbY7lAlwLY5uk2o_yrVgm9rCAdHOg&eo_id_str=ID%3D3eab1fc17d3c657c%3AT%3D1726322449%3ART%3D1726849387%3AS%3DAA-AfjZ-y03aOjnfgIilO4F5CCmp&prev_fmts=0x0%2C980x280%2C622x280%2C622x280&nras=5&correlator=1422070135229&frm=20&pv=1&u_tz=420&u_his=2&u_h=768&u_w=1360&u_ah=728&u_aw=1360&u_cd=24&u_sd=1&dmc=8&adx=202&ady=2774&biw=1343&bih=607&scr_x=0&scr_y=500&eid=44759876%2C44759927%2C44759837%2C95339781%2C31087066%2C95338227%2C95342766%2C31087333%2C95342336&oid=2&psts=AOrYGsnKlsHJnFTmMMe_NjQqqnASjrm5Bt_zvtW1zCOdQQs5J1RQ4BPXBH4YjhNniBqTilXfMNsPFyWP6jhUz2IZXFnBSzk%2CAOrYGslhD7Ul7xz4miXsWDt3eEDCxMLdsfzlT-C3BlNEcYnS8CqiggZG8OBsmssHthiI7e3PoiNvp9C2KbutbFR7BF1iiYgS&pvsid=4009290669012551&tmod=187296524&uas=3&nvt=1&ref=https%3A%2F%2Fl.facebook.com%2F&fc=1408&brdim=0%2C0%2C0%2C0%2C1360%2C0%2C1360%2C728%2C1360%2C607&vis=1&rsz=%7C%7Cs%7C&abl=NS&fu=128&bc=31&bz=1&td=1&tdf=0&psd=W251bGwsbnVsbCxudWxsLDFd&nt=1&ifi=5&uci=a!5&btvi=3&fsb=1&dtd=M

Cicely remembered the designer saying, “I’m doing this glove for Michael,” explaining that Michael was starting to develop vitiligo, a skin condition, on his hand. She said, “The glove was to cover it. That’s how it came about.”

When asked how she knew, Cicely replied, “I was there when he was creating it.”

Michael first wore the white glove in 1983. He later said, “I felt that one glove was cool… wearing two gloves seemed ordinary.”

Michael Jackson talked about his skin condition during a 1993 interview with Oprah Winfrey, likely referring to vitiligo, a condition that runs in his family.

Oprah asked him about the noticeable change in his skin color and addressed rumors about him possibly bleaching his skin, asking, “Is your skin lighter because you don’t like being Black?”

Michael, unaware of skin bleaching, explained, “I have a skin disorder that destroys the pigmentation of the skin. It’s something I cannot help.” He added, “When people say I don’t want to be what I am, it hurts me.”

He mentioned that he first noticed his skin changing after releasing *Thriller* in 1982. Michael said he used makeup to manage the blotches but denied bleaching his skin.

Oprah later remarked that in 1993, many people didn’t understand vitiligo and noted that it was a sensitive topic for Michael.

Related Posts

Be the first to comment

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.


*