If you see a man with one painted fingernail, here’s what it means

Elliot Costello’s life was drastically altered in a way he never would have imagined in 2013 after traveling to an orphanage in Cambodia.

He was unaware, though, that a meeting would occur that would alter thousands of other people’s lives as well.

It all began in 2013 when Australian social entrepreneur Elliot Costello got to know a young child named Thea.

The 10-year-old girl, Thea, had been saved from a horrible situation, but regrettably, she had wound up in an orphanage. She had been sexually and physically abused for two years, and the torture had a lasting effect. Regretfully, if Elliot hadn’t existed, we might never have learned about this courageous young girl.

However, let’s start at the beginning.

Thea’s life was happy once she was born. The Cambodian girl was loved and cared for by her mother, father, and other family members just like any other child. Unfortunately, fate had other ideas for her. Her father unexpectedly passed away one day, and his loss was tragic in many ways. Not only had it been a painful and emotional experience, but Thea’s father had been the only provider for the family. The family was left in dire straits after his death.

When things became so awful for Thea, her mother had to make the painful choice to place her daughter in an orphanage since she was no longer able to care for her. Sadly, the little girl would end up spending a miserable life there.

The director of the orphanage allegedly sexually and physically abused Thea every day for two years, according to Polished Man.

Thea was eventually moved to another Hagar International-run orphanage in Phnom Penh. Australian social entrepreneur Elliot Costello became close to the boy during a visit there by playing games of naughts and crosses. The 10-year-old child, in spite of everything she had experienced, exuded happiness and optimism.

Thea used to constantly have nail polish on her tiny nails, so one day she wanted to paint Elliot’s. They had a great time together as they sat and chatted.

“I promised her that I would always remember her and her suffering,” Elliot remarked as she painted one of his nails

Elliot was inspired to try and modify men’s behavior after meeting with Thea in order to reduce the number of children who experience sexual abuse. In order to demonstrate support, he also came up with the idea to launch a trend where males paint their nails.

Another symbolic interpretation of painting one nail is that it stands for the one in five children who may experience sexual abuse. It is immediately clear from looking at the numbers that we must put in a lot of effort to solve this problem.

Nearly 70% of all reported sexual assaults involve minors who are 17 years of age or younger, according to the YMCA. Unbelievably, one in six boys and one in four girls will experience sexual abuse before they become 18 years old.

Elliot believes that since men account for over 90% of this kind of abuse against children, they should be the ones to drive change. In light of this, a large number of international superstars have joined the nail painting craze.

Polished Man is still working to provide a better, safer environment for children today. Their principal goal is to stop child sexual abuse. “Being a Polished Man means challenging violent behavior and language, both locally and globally,” the organization states.

Chris Hemsworth is one well-known person who has taken a strong stance; he posed for the organization with a painted nail.

It takes more than just remembering to purchase flowers, shouting rounds, or lifting a lot to be a @PolishedMan. Saying no to violence against children is the main goal, according to Hemsworth.

Famous surfers Kelly Slater and Zac Efron also participated in the social media challenge, and maybe more people will openly speak out against child abuse.

Although the campaign began quietly a few years prior, by 2014 it had drawn the interest of numerous prominent media outlets.

The organization has persevered in its hard work and has now existed for a decade. Polished Man claims that $8.7 million has been raised to fund trauma prevention and recovery initiatives for women and children who have experienced or are at danger of experiencing violence in Australia and other

My Sister Showed Up After 15 Years of Silence, Begging for Help, but Her Visit Shattered My Family — Story of the Day

Fifteen years of marriage felt unshakable—until the night my estranged sister, Megan, showed up at my door with nothing but a suitcase and a storm of secrets. What began as an unexpected reunion unraveled into betrayal, lies, and truths I never imagined. Because of that night, my world changed forever.

My husband, Michael, and I sat together in the kitchen, the soft glow of candlelight creating a romantic atmosphere. We were celebrating our 15th wedding anniversary, and I felt special wearing the exquisite earrings Michael had given me earlier.

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Their delicate sparkle caught my eye as I glanced at their reflection in my wine glass.

Everything about the moment felt warm and perfect, a quiet escape from life’s usual worries.

Michael lifted his glass with a smile. “Here’s to us,” he said, his voice warm. “To fifteen years of marriage, to love, and to sticking together through all the challenges.”

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We clinked glasses, but my chest tightened. I understood what he meant by challenges.

He was thinking of the heartbreak we had endured, the years of trying for a child, only to discover Michael was infertile.

A sudden knock broke the silence. I frowned. “Who would show up at this hour?” I asked.

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Michael sighed. “If it’s Tom, tell him I’m not here.” I knew why—he still hadn’t returned Tom’s hammer.

I laughed, shaking my head, and went to answer the door. But as I opened it, my breath caught.

My heart seemed to stop. Standing there was someone I hadn’t seen in fifteen years.

“Megan…” I whispered, staring at her in disbelief.

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“Hi, sis,” she replied softly, her face pale and tired.

“What… what are you doing here?” I managed to ask, stepping aside to let her in. She dragged a small suitcase behind her, the wheels scraping against the floor.

“I… I left Henry,” she said, her voice trembling. Her eyes filled with tears as she struggled to speak. “I didn’t know where else to go. I have no one left. But if you don’t want me here, I’ll understand.”

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Before she could say more, I pulled her into a hug. I hadn’t seen my younger sister in 15 years.

The years, the distance, the reason for her leaving—all of it faded as I held her tightly. She hugged me back, her body shaking as she sobbed into my shoulder.

“Where’s your son?” I asked after a moment, stepping back to look at her. Megan had moved to another state when she got pregnant, and I hadn’t heard from her since.

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“She’s a girl. Rose,” Megan said, wiping her eyes. “She’s at a camp right now. I didn’t want to involve her in all this yet.”

I nodded, unsure what to say.

Just then, Michael’s voice called from the kitchen. “Did you tell Tom I wasn’t here, and he stormed off in a huff?” He walked into the room, holding his glass. When his eyes landed on Megan, he froze.

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“Hi, Michael,” Megan said, her voice sharp and cold.

Michael’s face tightened. “Hello,” he muttered before turning and walking out of the room without another word.

“Don’t mind him,” I said quickly, trying to ease the tension. “You know how he is.”

“Unfortunately, I do,” Megan replied, her tone colder than before.

Megan and I sat at the kitchen table while I prepared us some tea. The quiet clinking of the cups felt heavy, like the calm before a storm.

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Once we sat down, I looked at her and asked softly, “What happened with Henry?”

She sighed, her shoulders slumping as if the weight of her story had been crushing her. “It was awful from the start—well, not right away,” she said. “After Rose was born, things seemed okay for a little while. I thought we could make it work.”

Her face tightened. “But then Henry changed. He became cruel, distant. He wouldn’t help with Rose. I spent everything I had on her because he wouldn’t give me a dime.”

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I frowned. “You mean he refused to support his own child?”

Megan nodded. “When I demanded support, he made everything worse. He yelled, threatened… it was unbearable.” Her hands trembled as she spoke, and I felt my chest tighten.

Megan avoided giving too many details about Henry, but her broken tone and tired eyes told me enough.

“Why didn’t you call me?” I asked, my voice trembling. “Why go through all of that alone? I would’ve been there for you.”

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She looked away, her hands gripping the edge of the table. “Helen, stop. We both know why. After what I did… you wouldn’t have forgiven me. Not that easily.”

I shook my head, frustrated and hurt. “You’re my sister. I would’ve helped you, no matter what. But you blocked my number. You didn’t even tell me how to find you. You cut me off completely.”

“I was young,” she said, her voice breaking. “I was stupid and guilty. I thought you hated me.”

I sighed and pulled her into a hug. “I never hated you,” I whispered.

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After a while, I sent Megan to the guest room to rest. I made my way to the bedroom, where Michael lay on the bed with his back to the door. I recognized this posture. He only did that when he was upset.

“Why are you sulking?” I asked.

“You know why,” he muttered without turning to face me.

“Is it because of Megan?” I pressed.

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Michael sat up suddenly, his face tight with anger. “Do you not remember how she left, Helen? She stole from you! She took your things, blocked your number, and vanished!”

“I know,” I said quietly. “But it’s been so many years.”

“She took your wedding ring!” he snapped. “And other jewelry. How can you forget that?”

“Maybe she’s changed,” I said.

“People don’t change,” he said, lying back down and turning away from me again. His voice was flat, final, as if no other possibility could exist.

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Megan stayed with us for a few days. Each day, Michael’s irritation seemed to grow.

He avoided Megan completely, barely looking at her or speaking a single word. Then, one morning, I went to grab my earrings—the ones Michael gave me for our anniversary—and they were gone.

My heart sank as I searched the jewelry box again, hoping I had overlooked them, but they weren’t there.

“Michael, have you seen my earrings?” I asked, already feeling uneasy.

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“No,” he said, his voice sharp, “but I have a pretty good idea where they are.”

“Stop it. She wouldn’t do something like that,” I said, trying to defend Megan.

“Fool me once…” he muttered, letting the unfinished sentence hang in the air.

“I’ll talk to her,” I said firmly. I headed toward the guest room, hearing Michael’s footsteps close behind me.

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I knocked softly and waited until Megan called out, “Come in.” Pushing the door open, I stepped inside. “Have you seen my earrings?” I asked.

“I don’t even know what they look like,” Megan said.

“Then you won’t mind if I check around?” I asked.

“Go ahead,” Megan said, but then added, her tone sharp, “Wait. Do you think I took them?”

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“I’m just trying to find them,” I replied, feeling a knot of guilt in my chest.

“Where else would they be?” Michael said from the doorway. “It’s not the first time you’ve stolen.”

Megan’s head snapped toward him, her eyes flashing with anger.

I carefully searched through Megan’s things, feeling both tense and guilty. When I found nothing, I let out a quiet breath of relief.

Then my eyes landed on a book with a thick bookmark sticking out. Something about it caught my attention. I opened it, and there they were—my earrings.

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“Megan…” I said, holding them up.

Her face twisted with shock. “I swear, I don’t know how they got there!” she said.

Michael stood behind me, his expression smug. “Maybe you didn’t take anything last time, either?”

Megan’s eyes burned with fury. Her hands balled into fists as she turned toward him. “Enough! I’ve kept quiet for 15 years, but I’m done. I’m telling her the truth!”

Michael’s face changed. For the first time, he looked truly afraid.

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“What are you talking about?” I asked.

“Do you know who Rose’s real father is?” Megan spat. “Michael!”

“What?” I said, my voice rising. “That’s impossible. Michael can’t have children. Why are you lying?”

“He can,” Megan said sharply. “He just didn’t want to. That’s why he got rid of me when I told him I was pregnant.”

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“Megan, stop,” I said. “Just admit you took the earrings. There’s no need for this.”

“I’m not lying!” Megan shouted. “We slept together. Once. We were drunk. When I told him I was pregnant, he wanted me to get rid of the baby. When I refused, he gave me your jewelry and told me to disappear.”

Tears filled my eyes as I turned to Michael. “Michael? Is any of this true? Do you have anything to say?” I asked.

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He stayed silent, his head bowed.

Megan’s voice broke as she continued. “He pushed me to be with Henry. He wanted me gone. I’ve suffered for all these years because of him!”

Tears streamed down my face. I couldn’t believe the man I had trusted for so many years, my husband, had done something so cruel.

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“We got married right after Megan left,” I said, my voice breaking. “How could you lie to me for so long? How could you keep this from me?”

Michael’s face twisted, and his voice shook. “And you believe her? After everything? You’re taking her word over mine?”

“I believed you for too long,” I said, anger rising in my chest. “You made me think you were infertile. You knew how much I wanted children, and you married me anyway. You lied to me about everything!”

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“He got a vasectomy right after he found out I was pregnant,” Megan added quietly, her words hitting me like another blow.

Michael opened his mouth, trying to speak, but I cut him off. “Leave,” I said, my voice firm.

“But—” he began, his tone desperate.

“Get. Out,” I said again, my voice shaking but steady.

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He stared at me for a long moment, then sighed and walked out. The slam of the front door echoed through the house.

I collapsed to the floor, sobbing uncontrollably. Megan knelt beside me and wrapped her arms around me, holding me tightly.

“I’m sorry,” I said between sobs. “I’m so sorry I wasn’t there for you as an older sister. I should have protected you.”

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“And I’m sorry for staying silent,” Megan replied softly.

I wiped my tears and looked at her. “We’ll bring Rose here. You’ll stay with me. We’ll figure it out together.”

Megan nodded, and we stayed there, holding each other. But I felt relief. The truth was finally out.

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