I Told My Date about My Specific 3-Year-Rule, but He Immediately Left and Blocked Me – Is It Really That Weird?

Addison’s life revolves around her demanding job as a neurologist, leaving little time for romance. When her cheerful coworker Nathan sets her up on a blind date with a seemingly perfect guy named Jake, she finally feels a spark of hope. However, after Addison shares her three-year dating rule, her date abruptly leaves. What went wrong?

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I always thought my life would stay the same.

Day in and day out, the hospital consumed all my time.

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A smiling young doctor | Source: Midjourney

My name is Addison, and I work as a neurologist. My days are filled with patients, charts, and endless rounds.

It’s a fulfilling job, but it leaves little room for anything else, especially dating.

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A busy young woman | Source: Midjourney

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One day, while grabbing a quick coffee in the break room, my coworker Nathan walked in with a bright smile on his face.

Nathan is always in a good mood, no matter how stressful the day gets.

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A smiling doctor | Source: Midjourney

“Hey, Addison,” Nathan said, leaning against the counter. “How do you feel about blind dates?”

I laughed, almost spilling my coffee. “Blind dates? Nathan, you know my schedule. I barely have time to eat, let alone date.”

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Two professionals laughing and chatting | Source: Midjourney

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Nathan chuckled. “I know, but hear me out. My friend Jake is a great guy. He’s kind, funny, and I think you two would hit it off. What do you say?”

I paused, considering it. I hadn’t been on a date in ages, and the idea of meeting someone new was intriguing. Plus, Nathan seemed genuinely excited about it.

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A couple enjoying drinks | Source: Pexels

“Okay, then,” I said, smiling. “You’ve convinced me. When’s this magical date happening?”

Nathan’s face lit up. “Really?? How about next Tuesday night? It’s the only evening that works for both of you!”

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Next Tuesday. I mentally checked my calendar. It was one of the rare nights I didn’t have a late shift or any other commitments.

“Next Tuesday works for me,” I said. “Let’s do it.”

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A female doctor talking to a male doctor | Source: Midjourney

Nathan grinned. “Great! I’ll set it up and text you the details. You won’t regret this, Addison,” he said with a wink.

“We’ll see that,” I laughed and finished my coffee quickly.

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As I walked back to my office, I felt both excited and nervous. It had been so long since I had gone on a date.

My life had become a routine of work and more work, with little time for anything else. But maybe this was what I needed — a chance to step out of my comfort zone.

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A doctor lost in her work | Source: Midjourney

The rest of the day flew by in a blur of patient consultations and medical charts. But in the back of my mind, I kept thinking about the upcoming date. Maybe, just maybe, this blind date with Jake would be the start of something new.

On Tuesday night, I arrived at the quaint restaurant Nathan had suggested.

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It was cozy, with dim lighting and a warm ambiance that immediately put me at ease. As I walked in, I spotted a man sitting at a table near the window.

He looked up, smiled, and waved me over.

This must be Jake, I thought to myself.

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A smiling man at a table | Source: Midjourney

“Addison?” he asked as I approached the table.

“Yes, and you must be Jake,” I replied with a smile.

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We shook hands, and I took a seat. Almost immediately, the waitress came over to take our drink orders.

“I’ll have a glass of red wine, please,” I said.

“I’ll have the same,” Jake added.

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Two people enjoying wine | Source: Freepik

As the waitress left, we started chatting. Jake was easy to talk to, and I felt my initial nervousness melt away.

“So, Nathan tells me you’re a neurologist,” he said, looking genuinely interested. “That must be a challenging job.”

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“It is,” I nodded. “But I love it. What about you? What do you do?”

“I’m a graphic designer,” Jake replied. “I work freelance, so my schedule is pretty flexible. It’s a lot of fun, especially when I get to work on creative projects.”

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A person working on their laptop | Source: Pexels

Our drinks arrived, and we ordered appetizers — stuffed mushrooms and bruschetta. As we nibbled on the delicious food, we continued to talk about our lives, hobbies, and interests.

“I love hiking and photography,” Jake said, taking a sip of his wine. “There’s something about being in nature that’s so refreshing.”

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“I’ve always wanted to get into photography,” I said. “But I never seem to find the time. Maybe you could give me some tips?”

“I’d love to,” Jake said with a smile. “It’s all about finding the right light and angle.”

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As the evening went on, I found myself more and more charmed by Jake. He was kind, funny, and easy to talk to.

We laughed a lot, and it felt like I had known him for much longer than just one evening.

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As we moved on to our main course, Jake looked at me with a smile. “So, Addison, how about we ask each other some more personal questions to break the ice further?”

“Sure, that sounds good,” I said. “What do you want to know?”

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Jake leaned in slightly. “How about your one-to-five-year plan? What are your goals?”

I took a moment to think. “Well, I hope to advance in my career as a neurologist,” I began.

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“Maybe get promoted to a senior position. I also want to decorate my apartment; it feels too plain right now,” I continued. “I’ve been thinking about getting a pet, maybe a cat or a small dog. And I’d love to travel more, see new places, and experience different cultures. Oh, and I want to expand my bookshelf with my favorite novels. I love reading!”

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Pile of books and cup on top | Source: Unsplash

“That sounds wonderful. You have a lot of exciting plans!” he grinned.

“What about you?” I asked, curious to hear about his future plans.

“I want to grow my freelance business,” Jake said. “Maybe open my own studio one day. I also love traveling, so I’d like to visit more countries. And, believe it or not, I’ve been thinking about getting a pet too. A dog, probably.”

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We laughed at the coincidence, and it felt nice to find common ground!

“So, how do you feel about marriage and family?” Jake further asked as he sipped his wine.

And this is where it all went horribly wrong.

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“Honestly, I’d love to find a partner to share my life with,” I told him, “someone who understands and supports me. But marriage isn’t a necessity for me. If it happens, great, but if not, that’s okay too. As for children, I don’t see myself having any. For now. I’m happy with my career and personal goals.”

Jake leaned forward, looking serious. “What if you found the perfect guy? How long before you’d marry him?”

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Two people smiling at each other and standing close | Source: Freepik

“Three years,” I said. “I believe in building a strong foundation. Six months to really get to know someone, a year of serious dating, and a year and a half of living together before considering engagement or marriage.”

Jake’s face changed, his friendly expression replaced by a frown. He leaned back in his chair, crossing his arms. “Three years? That’s a long time. What if someone wants a quicker timeline?”

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I felt a knot forming in my stomach. “Well, uh, I think it’s important to take time to build a strong relationship. I’m pretty confident about my three-year-plan.”

Jake’s frown deepened, and he abruptly called the waitress. “Check, please,” he said curtly. She looked confused but quickly brought the bill.

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“Jake, what’s wrong?” I asked as he stood up, but he didn’t bother to answer. He paid and walked out of the restaurant without a glance back.

I sat there, stunned and hurt. What just happened?

Later, at home, I couldn’t stop thinking about the evening.

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A woman staring at her reflection | Source: Pexels

How could Jake just leave like that?

Deciding I needed answers, I messaged him.

I sent a selfie we took together and wrote, “Hey Jake, why did you leave so suddenly? I thought we were having a great time.”

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A few minutes later, his reply came: “Don’t contact me again. You’re indecisive and not serious about what you want.”

Then, he blocked me.

I stared at my phone in disbelief. Was I really that off base?

The next day at work, I noticed Nathan giving me strange glances. Gathering my courage, I decided to confront him.

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A man holding a phone in his hands | Source: Unsplash

“Nathan, what did Jake tell you? You know why he left, don’t you?” I asked, trying to keep my voice steady.

Nathan looked uncomfortable and shifted on his feet. “You messed it up, Addy,” he said. “Jake… told me you were wasting his time. He wanted something serious. He was looking for marriage, and you… you weren’t the best person for him. Sorry, I gotta go.”

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I couldn’t believe it.

During my lunch break, I called my best friend, Sophie.

“Hey, Addison. How did the date go?” was the first thing she asked.

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I sighed, feeling the weight of the evening pressing on me. “It started great, but then it ended terribly. Jake left abruptly after I talked about my three-year plan, and then he blocked me when I asked him why.”

Sophie’s eyes widened. “He did what? That’s ridiculous! What exactly happened?”

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A sad young doctor | Source: Midjourney

I recounted every detail, my voice trembling slightly as I relived the evening. When I finished, Sophie shook her head. “Addison, being honest about your expectations is important. If he couldn’t handle that, it’s his loss.”

“I can’t stop wondering if my three-year rule is really that strange, Sophie,” I admitted, my voice breaking a bit.

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“Not at all,” Sophie said firmly. “Everyone has their own timeline and needs. What matters is that you stay true to yourself. If he couldn’t appreciate that, he wasn’t the right guy for you.”

Her words wrapped around me like a comforting blanket. But it didn’t ease all my worries. Was I wrong to be upfront about my expectations? Should I have kept it to myself? All I know is that being honest about what I want is important, even if it means losing a date like Jake.

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I Promised a Homeless Man I’d Find Him a Family in One Evening – But First, We Went to a Salon and a Boutique

Mark meets Stuart, a homeless man, on a busy city street and makes an unusual promise to change his life in just one evening. He starts by giving Stuart a fresh haircut and buying him new clothes, determined to find him a family by the night’s end. But can Mark truly fulfill this bold promise and transform Stuart’s life?

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A homeless man | Source: Freepik

You never know who you’ll encounter in life and how they might change your world.

I’m Mark, and a few days ago, I had this wholesome experience I will never forget.

So, I was sitting on a busy city street, munching on my sandwich during lunch break.

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A man holding a half-eaten sandwich | Source: Pexels

Out of nowhere, this scruffy-looking guy walks up to me and hands me my wallet.

“Hey, you dropped this,” he said.

I was stunned. “Thanks, man! I didn’t even notice. What’s your name?” I asked, genuinely curious.

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A wallet | Source: Pexels

“Stuart,” he replied with a shy smile.

“I’m Mark,” I said, shaking his hand. “I’m a barber. How about I repay you with a fresh haircut?”

Stuart looked down at his worn-out clothes and shrugged. “Why bother? I got no one to impress. Nobody cares about a bum like me.”

I imagined being in Stuart’s shoes, and his words hit me right in the feels. I knew I had to do something more.

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A man thinking about something | Source: Pexels

“How about this,” I said, my mind racing. “I bet you I can find you a family in one evening!”

Stuart laughed, thinking I was joking, but I grabbed his hand. “Bet on it!”

I could see he wasn’t really sure, but he agreed.

We headed straight to my shop. “Come on in, Stuart,” I said, holding the door open for him as we arrived. The place was buzzing with activity. My colleagues and a few customers gave us curious looks as we walked in.

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Inside a barbershop | Source: Freepik

I pointed to the chair. “Take a seat, Stuart. Let’s see what we can do.”

Stuart hesitated for a moment but then sat down. I draped the cape over him and got to work. “You’re in for a treat,” I said, picking up my clippers.

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A man cutting hair | Source: Pexels

As I started cutting his hair, I could see the change happening right before my eyes. The scruffy, tired look began to disappear. Stuart was getting a fresh start, and it showed.

“How’s it looking?” Stuart asked, a bit nervous.

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A smiley man at a hair salon | Source: Freepik

“Trust me, you’re going to look great,” I replied, focusing on giving him the best cut possible. Other barbers started to gather around, watching the transformation.

“Wow, Mark, you’re doing wonders,” one of them said, impressed.

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A hairdresser standing in a barber shop | Source: Freepik

When I was done, I turned the chair around so Stuart could see himself in the mirror.

His eyes widened. “Is that really me?” he asked, touching his newly styled beard and hair.

“Yep, that’s you,” I said, smiling. “What do you think?”

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An elderly man looking into a mirror | Source: Freepik

Stuart grinned, looking a bit shy. “I feel like a new man. But do you think it’s too fancy for a guy like me?”

Everyone in the shop chuckled.

“Not at all,” I said. “You deserve this.”

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A man laughing | Source: Pexels

Stuart’s confidence seemed to soar. He stood up a bit straighter, and there was a sparkle in his eye that hadn’t been there before. “Thanks, Mark. This feels amazing,” he said.

But it wasn’t over yet. After the haircut, I decided it was time to get Stuart some new clothes.

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Outfits on display inside a boutique | Source: Pexels

We walked over to a nearby clothing boutique. As we stepped inside, the staff greeted us with friendly smiles.

“Hi there! How can we help you today?” one of them asked.

“We need to find my friend Stuart here some stylish clothes,” I said, patting Stuart on the back. Stuart looked around, a bit overwhelmed. “I’ve never been in a place like this,” he whispered to me.

“Don’t worry, we’ll find something great,” I assured him. The staff quickly got to work, bringing out various outfits for Stuart to try.

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A man selecting clothes | Source: Pexels

His reactions were priceless. “These pants are so tight! How do people breathe in these?” he said, making everyone laugh.

I handed him a shirt. “Just try it on, Stuart. You’ll look great.”

He reluctantly took the clothes and went into the changing room. A few minutes later, he came out, looking unsure. “How do I look?” he asked.

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A man looking at outfits curiously | Source: Freepik

“Wow, Stuart, you look fantastic!” I said, giving him a thumbs up. The staff nodded in agreement.

Stuart looked at himself in the mirror, turning this way and that. “I feel like I’m wearing someone else’s clothes,” he said with a laugh. “But they do look nice.”

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An older man in a suit | Source: Midjourney

“Exactly, that’s the point,” I said. “You deserve to feel good about yourself.”

After trying on a few more outfits and making everyone laugh with his witty comments, Stuart finally settled on an outfit that made him feel comfortable yet stylish.

“I think I’ll stick with this one,” he said, smiling.

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A confident elderly man in a suit | Source: Pexels

“Great choice,” I said. “You’re looking sharp, my friend.”

Stuart’s confidence seemed to grow even more. “Thanks, Mark. I really appreciate this,” he said, enveloping me in a hug.

“No problem. We’re just getting started,” I said, feeling excited about what was to come.

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An elderly man hugging a young man | Source: Pexels

With Stuart looking sharp, we decided to grab dinner at a cozy café.

As we walked in, Stuart seemed nervous. “I haven’t been to a place like this in years,” he admitted.

“Relax, Stuart. It’s just dinner. Enjoy it,” I said, guiding him to a table.

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Inside a cafe | Source: Unsplash

We sat down and ordered some food. While we waited, I pulled out my phone. “How about we set up a date for you?” I suggested.

“A date? You’re serious?” Stuart asked, his eyes widening.

“Why not? Let’s give it a shot,” I said, smiling.

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A happy man using his phone | Source: Pexels

I registered him on a dating site and quickly set up a profile. Within minutes, we got a response from a woman named Linda. She agreed to meet us at the café.

When Linda arrived, she seemed interested at first. Stuart stood up and introduced himself, looking a bit nervous. “Hi, I’m Stuart,” he said, offering his hand.

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A beautiful senior woman | Source: Freepik

Linda shook his hand, but her smile faded as we talked. When she found out Stuart was homeless, her expression changed.

“You should have been honest,” she said, standing up abruptly.

“Wait, Linda, he’s a great guy,” I tried to explain, but she was already walking out the door.

Stuart sat back down, looking dejected.

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An elderly man looking sad | Source: Pexels

“I’m sorry, Stuart,” I said, feeling bad for him.

To my surprise, he smiled. “It’s alright, Mark. Today is still one of the best days of my life. It reminded me of when I used to go out with friends and meet girls.”

I didn’t know what to do at that point. I had promised him I would help him find a family, and I knew that I had failed to do so.

But the next morning, on my way to work, I saw something that made me stop in my tracks.

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A man walking on a road | Source: Pexels

Stuart was sitting outside a supermarket, chatting with a woman. They were both smiling and laughing.

I walked over, curious. “Hey, Stuart!” I called out, waving.

“Mark! Good to see you,” Stuart replied, standing up and giving me a big smile. “I want you to meet Maria.”

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A happy elderly couple | Source: Pexels

Maria stood up and shook my hand. “Hi, Mark. It’s nice to meet you,” she said warmly.

“Nice to meet you too, Maria,” I said, looking at Stuart with a raised eyebrow. “Where did you two meet?”

“Believe it or not, we met last night after the date fiasco,” Stuart said with a chuckle. “Maria was kind enough to sit and talk with me. We’ve been chatting ever since.”

Maria smiled at Stuart. “Stuart told me everything. I’ve had my own struggles, so I understand where he’s coming from.”

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A couple holding hands | Source: Pexels

I felt a surge of happiness and pride. “That’s wonderful to hear,” I said, genuinely moved. “You two seem to get along really well.”

“We do,” Stuart said, looking at Maria with a grateful smile. “Thanks to you, Mark. That bet led to something really good.”

“I’m just glad to see you happy, Stuart. You deserve this,” I said, and we shared a hug.

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A happy man | Source: Pexels

I still can’t believe it all happened.

Life has a funny way of surprising us, doesn’t it? Stuart found a friend, and maybe even a family, through a series of events that started with a lost wallet. And I learned that sometimes, all it takes is a little compassion to change someone’s life.

Have you ever witnessed something like this or changed someone’s life for the better?

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