In a timeless tale of romance, Naval Officer Zack Mayo swept factory worker Paula into his arms and carried her from her workplace, leaving fans everywhere wishing they were the beautiful Debra Winger.
The legendary scene in the romantic drama an Officer and a Gentleman–where Richard Gere played Officer Zack Mayo, the handsome hero in navy whites–became the benchmark of love stories for daydreaming fans.
Acting alongside Hollywood’s hottest men, Debra Winger was the envy of many.
Today, Winger, 67, is as beautiful as ever. In the past few years, Winger has posted photos herself on Instagram, first with brown hair and now to a natural wavy gray.
Winger’s first starring role was in the 1976 film Slumber Party ‘57, which led to a part on the hit TV series Wonder Woman (1979), where she played Drusilla, the younger sister to Lynda Carter’s Diana Prince/Wonder Woman. Winger was asked to appear more often but concerned she’d be typecast by that role, she declined.
There were no regrets for that decision, the early ‘80s would be prosperous for the rising star.
At the height of her young career, she received numerous nods from the Academy and Golden Globes for performances in three iconic movies of the 1980’s.
In 1980, she starred in Urban Cowboy, with John Travolta, who at the time was driving fans wild with his smooth dance moves in Saturday Night Fever (1977) and Grease (1988); as Paula in an Officer and a Gentleman (1982) and in Terms of Endearment (1983), where she played Emma, a dying young woman with an over-bearing mother, Aurora, played by Shirley MacLaine.
Despite her huge success, Winger, carving hours from her acting schedule, took a mini Hollywood hiatus, and more than four decades after her rise to stardom, speculation of why she left is still circulating.
Most of these rumours revolve around the feuds that Winger had with her co-stars.
Though fans couldn’t get enough of the handsome Gere, it’s been widely reported that Winger had enough of him on the set.
According to an excerpt published on ABC News from the book, “An Actor and a Gentleman,” by co-star, Louis Gossett Jr., who played Sgt. Emil Foley: “The onscreen chemistry between the two of them was terrific, but it was a different story once the camera was turned off. They couldn’t have stayed farther apart from each other.”
Gossett also claims that Winger didn’t think much of Gere’s acting and wrote that she once described Gere as “a brick wall.” And, the film’s director, Taylor Hackford, whom she also did not likе, she referred to as “animal.”
It wasn’t only people on that film that ruffled her feathers.
Winger, a free spirit in real life and in her role as Emma, also clashed with the prolific MacLaine, a glamourous, eccentric and seasoned veteran.
Their first meeting set the stage for their relationship.
“To see how my character would feel I was wearing all my leftover movie-star fur coats,” MacLaine said in an interview with People. “There was Debra dressed in combat boots and a miniskirt…I thought, ‘Oh my goodness.’”
People writes, “Indeed, the set became the source of Hollywood’s most relished rumors. Winger wanted top billing. One reportedly slugged the other.”
And then, the women were pitted against each other in the Oscars when they were both nominated for best actress.
MacLaine, taking the trophy home, said in her acceptance speech, “I deserve this!”
Rumors aside, Winger insists she “pushed the pause button” on Hollywood for personal reasons and not professional.
“The parts that were coming, I wasn’t interested in. I’d already done that or I’d already felt that. I needed to be challenged. My life challenged me more than the parts, so I dove into it fully,” Winger told People.
After starring in the 1995 romcom Forget Paris with Billy Crystal, Winger took a six-year break.
In that time, she moved to New York City and shifted her focus to actor Arliss Howard, whom she married in 1996. The pair have a son, Gideon Babe, who was born in 1997, and she is stepmother to Sam, Howard’s son from a previous marriage. She also has another biological child, Noah Hutton, whom she mothered while married to her first husband, Timothy Hutton (1986 to 1990).
She reappeared in the 2001 film Big Bad Love, that was directed and produced by her husband, who also co-starred alongside Winger and Rosanna Arquette, who’s next project was 2002 film Searching for Debra Winger. As director of the documentary, Arquette attempts to answer why Winger temporarily аbаndоned her career at peak performance.
Winger gained some momentum with roles in Rachel Getting Married (2008) with Anne Hathaway, the 2017 romcom The Lovers, and the crime-comedy, Kajillionaire (2020).
In 2021, she was in With/In, Volume two of the anthological drama film, in the segment Her Own, which is written and directed by her husband, who also co-stars.
“I don’t know what Hollywood is. I’m living under the freaking sign now, and I just stare at it and laugh. Los Angeles is a place, but the idea of Hollywood doesn’t really exist for me,” Winger said, adding, “…although there must be some in-crowds that I just don’t know about.”
We can’t imagine a Hollywood without Debra Winger and we hope she soon gets to take home an Academy Award ! What are your favorite Winger movies?
80s Icon Abandons Hollywood to Raise Son in the Countryside—You Won’t Believe What She Does Now
She never thought a trip to the Berkshires would change her life. After all, she was a big Hollywood star, famous for playing a brave heroine in a hit movie. But fate had other plans for her, leading her to a quiet life in the country, new creative projects, and a fresh sense of purpose.
In 1981, an Indiana Jones film took the world by storm, making a little-known actress an overnight sensation. At just 29 years old, she wowed audiences as a strong, adventurous heroine alongside Harrison Ford. This role would forever secure her place in film history.
In 1981, Karen Allen became famous for her role as Marion Ravenwood in Raiders of the Lost Ark, starring alongside Harrison Ford. At just 29 years old, she brought strength and wit to the screen. The film became one of the biggest hits ever, making her a household name.
Despite her fame, Karen chose a different path from many rising stars. After the success of Raiders, she stepped away from Hollywood and took on smaller, more personal projects. People wondered why she didn’t go for bigger roles, but she knew what she wanted.
Her life changed in 1993 when her son, Nicholas, was three years old. Karen decided to move full-time to the countryside of Massachusetts, leaving behind the fast-paced city life. She felt that staying in one place was better for her and her son, especially as she balanced motherhood and acting.
Karen’s love for the Berkshires started in 1988 during a ski trip with her then-husband, Kale Browne. They found an old barn on 28 acres of land, and even though it was buried in snow, she felt an instant connection to the house. Five years later, they made the move permanent.
The countryside provided the perfect environment to raise Nicholas, who grew up with a love for cooking. He eventually became a chef, with his mom always supporting his dreams. Their strong bond is often shared through their love of food.
While enjoying life in the Berkshires, Karen didn’t leave her creativity behind. She returned to her early love for textiles, a passion she had developed before becoming an actress. In 2005, she opened her business, Karen Allen Fiber Arts, crafting high-quality cashmere items like scarves and sweaters.
Her shop in Great Barrington became a place where she could explore her love for fabric and design. Using a Japanese knitting machine, she created colorful and intricate designs. Karen described her love for textiles as her “first ecstasy” and found joy in this new creative outlet.
In addition to her textile business, Karen converted an old barn into a yoga studio in 1995. She embraced yoga, creating a space for herself and her community. Balancing motherhood, yoga, and her textile work, she found a rhythm that suited her life.
Though Karen kept taking acting roles, her focus shifted to her personal projects. Living in the Berkshires allowed her to reinvent herself, and she embraced this peaceful way of life. She continued acting in select roles in films and theater, while also growing her textile business.
With her son Nicholas thriving in his career, Karen found more time to return to her love for acting. She especially enjoyed theater, which had been her passion from the start of her career. Even now, at 73, she still accepts roles that inspire her.
Her fans haven’t forgotten her. Comments praising her charm and grace continue to flood in, with many still enchanted by her smile and down-to-earth nature. One fan called her “the absolute cutest,” while another admired how beautifully she has aged.
Karen’s ability to balance her acting career, creative passions, and personal life has made her a lasting inspiration. Even after stepping away from the limelight, she remains loved and admired for the choices she made and the grace with which she carries herself.
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