Anne Hegerty, known from The Chase, shared that her biggest fear about dating is having a man invade her personal space.
The quizzer, who was diagnosed with autism at 45, opened up about her challenges, mentioning a time when she unplugged her phone to stop a boyfriend from contacting her.
At The Paul Strank Roofing Charity Gala in Kensington, London, she honestly said that she thinks she would make a terrible partner.
Anne, 66, said, “I really struggle with being close to others and having anyone else in the house.
“I think a lot of autistic people don’t get married or settle down.”
Anne explained, “I don’t even have pets because of this, and my ability to live with other people is getting smaller. I need a lot of alone time.
“I always feel like I need more space than anyone can give me. If I wanted a relationship, I could find one, but honestly, I don’t.”
She also mentioned that her longest relationship only lasted four months. Reflecting on that time, she said, “It only worked for those few months because I was in Manchester. I kind of set it up so it wouldn’t last.”
In the end, she wrote to him to end things. “I remember crying with relief and then crying with guilt,” she shared.
Anne felt overwhelmed during that relationship. “Sometimes, I unplugged the phone because he tried to call me every day. I just wanted it to be over.
“I’d sit there waiting for the phone to ring, thinking, ‘Don’t phone, don’t phone, don’t phone!’ Other times, to get over the waiting, I’d call him, but that made him think I wanted to talk. I really just wanted to end it. I didn’t want to talk to him or anyone!”
Anne joked that she hasn’t lacked offers from admirers who seem to like her “Mrs. Trunchbull” Governess outfit.
She said, “I’m sure some people are attracted to the whole look of The Governess. I think there are some who might be interested if they let me.”
Anne said, “I do meet attractive men, but I know it won’t work out. I feel like it’s not fair to them because I won’t treat them well.”
She added, “I always want more space than they can give me. If I wanted a relationship, I could find someone, but I don’t.”
She thinks it’s better not to date at all and enjoys having men as friends more than women. She recalled a quiz she attended in June, where a woman pointed out they were the only two women in the room, but Anne hadn’t even noticed because she was talking to her male friends.
Anne also shared that this is part of why she never had children, even though she is great with kids. “I did want children, but I knew I wouldn’t be able to handle it very well.”
About 20 years ago, two kids from her neighborhood used to come over. “We limited their visits to just one hour a day, but they always wanted to stay longer. They were wonderful kids, and we’re now friends on Facebook, but I couldn’t handle that for more than an hour.”
Anne takes her role as godmother to Mark “Beast” Labbett’s eight-year-old son, Lawrence, very seriously.
She said, “Lawrence’s birthday is at the end of November, so I usually send a birthday and Christmas present at the same time—but they are not the same gift. My parents had winter birthdays, and I knew they hated getting just one present for two celebrations.”
Anne joked that one of the gifts she gave Lawrence was a bit inappropriate—a toy crossbow. “So, weaponry,” she laughed. “But lately, I’ve been giving him Minecraft vouchers since he really loves that.”
She also mentioned that she has spent Christmas alone for the past 40 years. That’s why she’s especially happy to be playing the Fairy Godmother in this year’s panto, Cinderella, in Scarborough.
Anne, who was on I’m A Celebrity… Get Me Out Of Here in 2018, said, “Now that I’m in panto, I can say, ‘Sorry, I’m in Scarborough!’ and that’s my only day off.”
She sees it as a great day off. Even though many people invite her to spend Christmas with them, she prefers not to. “I don’t do Christmas dinner or a tree. When I was a kid, I just remember all the pine needles everywhere!”
Earlier this year, Anne took on another acting role, making a cameo as a neighbor in a film called Exorcising Barry, which is about a man obsessed with a demon.
Anne said that any chance of going to Hollywood is out of the question.
She explained, “America wouldn’t want me because I’m fat. I have a friend who went there for work, and even though she looks amazing, they told her she needed to lose weight. I’m fine with how I am, but they don’t like fat British actresses.”
Despite this, she has had great success in Britain. Talking about The Chase’s recent National Television Award win, she said, “I’m so happy. Bradley Walsh is amazing. It’s been 14 years, and I love it.”
She added, “Other kids used to sing in front of the mirror with a hairbrush. When I was younger, I practiced being interviewed for when I became famous. I don’t know why, but it’s always been my dream.”
The Benefits of Solving Puzzles
Puzzles have always captivated the minds of intellectuals, and it’s no wonder why. They come in all shapes and sizes, from simple ones to mind-bogglingly difficult ones. Some puzzles remain unsolved to this day, which adds to the endless fascination for those who love a good challenge.
But puzzles aren’t just for puzzle enthusiasts. They offer incredible benefits for everyone, regardless of their preference. Solving puzzles is like a workout for the mind, keeping it sharp and agile. It trains the brain to approach problems from different angles and encourages creative thinking to find solutions.
The Puzzle that Stumped the Internet
One particular puzzle has taken the internet by storm, leaving many scratching their heads. At first glance, it seems like an ordinary picture of numbers from 1 to 15 neatly arranged. The challenge is to find the error and repost the image. Seems simple enough, right?
But as you search for the error, you realize something strange. The numbers are perfect, with no missing or incorrect ones. You examine them closely, looking for a hidden pattern or sequencing, but find nothing. They are perfectly arranged.
At this point, you start thinking outside the box. Maybe the error lies in the absence of zero? Or perhaps the number sixteen should be included? Or is it something else entirely? You analyze every detail, from the spacing to the shape of the numbers. But the answer continues to elude you.
Then, it hits you. The mistake isn’t in the numbers at all. It’s in the sentence below, asking you to find the ‘mitsake’ instead of the error. Clever, isn’t it? Most people are so focused on the numbers that they completely miss the misspelled word.
The Lesson of the Puzzle
This puzzle teaches us an important lesson – sometimes we need to look at the bigger picture to find the solution. We get so caught up in the details that we miss the obvious. By training our minds to see beyond the surface, we become better problem solvers.
The Far-Reaching Benefits
The benefits of solving puzzles are far-reaching. Research has shown that they improve memory, especially short-term memory. Puzzles challenge our minds to think quickly, enhancing mental processes and strengthening the connections between brain cells.
Moreover, puzzles develop our analytical skills. They require logical and critical thinking, as well as creativity. Just like the puzzle we encountered earlier, they teach us to analyze the whole picture and think outside the box. These skills can be applied to everyday life, helping us solve problems that have no obvious solutions.
In fact, the ability to think analytically is highly valued in the workforce. It sets individuals apart, making them stand out in areas like leadership and management. By cultivating the habit of solving puzzles, we can enhance ourselves with these sought-after skills.
So, the next time you come across a puzzle, take a moment to embrace the challenge. Whether it’s a crossword, Sudoku, or a mind-bending riddle, you’ll be exercising your mind and reaping the countless benefits. Happy puzzling!
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