Anne Hegerty, known from The Chase, shared that her biggest fear about dating is having a man invade her personal space.
The quizzer, who was diagnosed with autism at 45, opened up about her challenges, mentioning a time when she unplugged her phone to stop a boyfriend from contacting her.
At The Paul Strank Roofing Charity Gala in Kensington, London, she honestly said that she thinks she would make a terrible partner.
Anne, 66, said, “I really struggle with being close to others and having anyone else in the house.
“I think a lot of autistic people don’t get married or settle down.”
Anne explained, “I don’t even have pets because of this, and my ability to live with other people is getting smaller. I need a lot of alone time.
“I always feel like I need more space than anyone can give me. If I wanted a relationship, I could find one, but honestly, I don’t.”
She also mentioned that her longest relationship only lasted four months. Reflecting on that time, she said, “It only worked for those few months because I was in Manchester. I kind of set it up so it wouldn’t last.”
In the end, she wrote to him to end things. “I remember crying with relief and then crying with guilt,” she shared.
Anne felt overwhelmed during that relationship. “Sometimes, I unplugged the phone because he tried to call me every day. I just wanted it to be over.
“I’d sit there waiting for the phone to ring, thinking, ‘Don’t phone, don’t phone, don’t phone!’ Other times, to get over the waiting, I’d call him, but that made him think I wanted to talk. I really just wanted to end it. I didn’t want to talk to him or anyone!”
Anne joked that she hasn’t lacked offers from admirers who seem to like her “Mrs. Trunchbull” Governess outfit.
She said, “I’m sure some people are attracted to the whole look of The Governess. I think there are some who might be interested if they let me.”
Anne said, “I do meet attractive men, but I know it won’t work out. I feel like it’s not fair to them because I won’t treat them well.”
She added, “I always want more space than they can give me. If I wanted a relationship, I could find someone, but I don’t.”
She thinks it’s better not to date at all and enjoys having men as friends more than women. She recalled a quiz she attended in June, where a woman pointed out they were the only two women in the room, but Anne hadn’t even noticed because she was talking to her male friends.
Anne also shared that this is part of why she never had children, even though she is great with kids. “I did want children, but I knew I wouldn’t be able to handle it very well.”
About 20 years ago, two kids from her neighborhood used to come over. “We limited their visits to just one hour a day, but they always wanted to stay longer. They were wonderful kids, and we’re now friends on Facebook, but I couldn’t handle that for more than an hour.”
Anne takes her role as godmother to Mark “Beast” Labbett’s eight-year-old son, Lawrence, very seriously.
She said, “Lawrence’s birthday is at the end of November, so I usually send a birthday and Christmas present at the same time—but they are not the same gift. My parents had winter birthdays, and I knew they hated getting just one present for two celebrations.”
Anne joked that one of the gifts she gave Lawrence was a bit inappropriate—a toy crossbow. “So, weaponry,” she laughed. “But lately, I’ve been giving him Minecraft vouchers since he really loves that.”
She also mentioned that she has spent Christmas alone for the past 40 years. That’s why she’s especially happy to be playing the Fairy Godmother in this year’s panto, Cinderella, in Scarborough.
Anne, who was on I’m A Celebrity… Get Me Out Of Here in 2018, said, “Now that I’m in panto, I can say, ‘Sorry, I’m in Scarborough!’ and that’s my only day off.”
She sees it as a great day off. Even though many people invite her to spend Christmas with them, she prefers not to. “I don’t do Christmas dinner or a tree. When I was a kid, I just remember all the pine needles everywhere!”
Earlier this year, Anne took on another acting role, making a cameo as a neighbor in a film called Exorcising Barry, which is about a man obsessed with a demon.
Anne said that any chance of going to Hollywood is out of the question.
She explained, “America wouldn’t want me because I’m fat. I have a friend who went there for work, and even though she looks amazing, they told her she needed to lose weight. I’m fine with how I am, but they don’t like fat British actresses.”
Despite this, she has had great success in Britain. Talking about The Chase’s recent National Television Award win, she said, “I’m so happy. Bradley Walsh is amazing. It’s been 14 years, and I love it.”
She added, “Other kids used to sing in front of the mirror with a hairbrush. When I was younger, I practiced being interviewed for when I became famous. I don’t know why, but it’s always been my dream.”
Tackling Child Trafficking: Mel Gibson’s Powerful Film, “Sound of Freedom”
One of the most horrible problems in society today is child trafficking, which causes misery to innumerable innocent lives. Mel Gibson’s most recent film, “Sound of Freedom,” illuminates this grim reality with its impressive message and ensemble of celebrities. To many’s astonishment, nevertheless, major streaming services have ignored this significant movie, which begs the question of Hollywood’s real intentions.
Revealing the Startling Truth
“Sound of Freedom,” which is based on the actual tale of Tim Ballard and his group, Operation Underground Railroad, delves deeply into the subject of child exploitation. It reveals the unsettling reality that lies behind the glitter and extravagance of the film business. However, Hollywood doesn’t appear to want to give it the credit it merits.
The Elite of Hollywood Are Suspected
There have been allegations made against well-known personalities, including Oprah Winfrey, who have relationships with people like Harvey Weinstein and John of God. These allegations, which raise the possibility that Hollywood’s elite is involved in the cover-up of these horrible crimes, add fuel to the fire of suspicion. Their own interests seem to take precedence over the wellbeing of youngsters who are at risk.
Taking on Hollywood’s Dirty Underbelly
The paucity of coverage “Sound of Freedom” received in the media is a sobering reminder of Hollywood’s reluctance to face its own dark secrets. It makes us wonder who in Tinseltown, the city of dreams, we can really trust. Mel Gibson, though, won’t say no.
Mel Gibson Discloses His Opposition to Covert Plans
The well-known actor and filmmaker Mel Gibson has bravely spoken out against Hollywood’s secret purpose. His voice adds to the increasing number of people who are calling for justice and answers for the victims of child trafficking. He hopes to spur action against this horrific crime and increase awareness through his film.
Motivating Action in Film
The song “Sound of Freedom” is a global audience call to action. Gibson hopes to inspire us to rally, take a position, and defend the defenseless by demonstrating the potency of narrative and film. If we work together, we can change things.
Delivering a Message Clearly: Safeguarding the Innocent
Encouraging movies like “Sound of Freedom” makes it very evident that we will not put up with the exploitation and abuse of children. It’s time for Hollywood to face its dark truths and put the welfare of the weakest members of society first.
Participate in the War Against Child Trafficking
Raise your voice in the struggle against the trafficking of children. When we work together, we can change things and put an end to this unfathomable horror. Join us in the battle against child trafficking by standing with us.
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