Chaz Bono has faced numerous challenges as the child of music legend Cher, especially growing up in the public eye. His journey is incredibly inspiring. At 39, in 2011, he began transitioning to male, and while Cher has always supported him, their relationship experienced some initial hurdles.
Cher struggled with Chaz’s coming out as gay, reacting strongly when he first revealed his identity. Over time, however, their bond strengthened as they navigated his transition together. Chaz was born Chastity Bono on March 4, 1969, and became well-known through appearances on The Sonny and Cher Comedy Hour.
As a child, Chaz felt different from his peers and struggled to connect with them. At 18, he came out as a lesbian, later realizing he identified as male. Cher admitted it was difficult for her to accept at first but ultimately embraced Chaz’s journey, even describing a “mourning period” for the loss of her daughter.
Chaz’s transition included a successful career in entertainment, notably becoming the first transgender man on Dancing with the Stars in 2011. He also faced personal challenges, including weight struggles. His health journey began in earnest during his transition, leading to significant weight loss, although it came with the challenge of excess skin.
After a tumultuous engagement with Jennifer Elia, who supported him through his transition, Chaz found love again with Shara Mathes in 2017. They maintain a relatively private relationship, with Chaz expressing gratitude for their bond on social media.
Chaz Bono’s story is one of bravery and resilience, and his journey inspires many. Please share this story to honor his courage and encourage others facing similar challenges.
My mother abandoned me in a cardboard box at a supermarket when I was an infant — two decades later, she reached out to me for assistance
Sue was left in a cardboard box as a small child. Luckily, a store clerk took her home and changed the course of her entire life. Now, in the form of an unexpected knock at the door, Sue has to face her past and the disappointment that comes with it. Is this a grand reunion or the biggest disappointment of Sue’s life?
I was left in a cardboard box in a supermarket twenty years ago. I was just a few months old, and all I had to my name were a few photos of my mother and a note.
The note read: I will always love you, Sue.
Nobody knew my surname or whether I had a middle name. Nobody seemed to know my mother or what had happened to my father. I was all alone in a world that didn’t know anything about me.
But even then, at a few months old, I seemed to be fortune’s fool. I was found by a kind store clerk, Ruby, who took me in.
“I couldn’t leave you there, Sue,” she would say whenever the story came up. “I became your guardian shortly after and raised you as my own. You became my little bug.”
Ruby was everything to me. And as I grew, the closer we became.
I was forever grateful that she gave me everything I needed. But still, I never stopped wondering why my mother left me and if she would ever come back.
“I know that it bothers you, darling,” Ruby told me one day as she made lasagna for dinner. “But she’s an enigma now. We have nothing that could lead us to her.”
“I know,” I said, grating more cheese for when the dish was ready. “It’s just frustrating when I start thinking about it.”
“You love the internet, you love social media, Sue. Use it, share your story, maybe it will resonate with people, and you can connect with others just like you.”
She opened the oven and put the tray of lasagna inside.
So I did just that, and I became a well-known video blogger, sharing my story with the world.
“You’ve created a safe platform for people to share their stories, too,” Ruby told me when I read comments from my latest video to her.
“It means something to me,” I said, helping myself to the eclairs on the table.
Fast forward to the present. I am successful and able to provide for myself and my guardian.
“So much for being an abandoned baby,” I said to myself as I washed my face one night.
But imagine my surprise when an unexpected knock on my door changed everything.
I opened the door to find a frail, older woman standing there, her eyes filled with regret and desperation.
“Sue, darling,” she said. “I am your mother, and I need your help!”
I just looked at her, unable to blink for fear of missing the moment.
“Do you still have the note I left with you when I left you safely in the store?”
Safely? I thought to myself. I stood there, paralyzed by the flood of emotions that had come in when she entered my home.
“Yes, I have it,” I said, my voice barely above a whisper. “I kept it.”
“I know I have no right to ask for your help after what I did, but I need you to believe me when I say I had no choice back then. I was running from a dangerous situation. And I thought leaving you in a safe place was the only way to protect you. I needed to disappear.”
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