Being a parent to a cocky, disrespectful teenager is far from easy, and different parents have different approaches to getting their children to behave.
One mom, Heidi Johnson, wrote a handwritten letter to her son, Aaron, and shared it on Facebook. She didn’t intend for the post to go viral. She didn’t even intend to make the post public. It was supposed to just be for friends to see, but she does not regret her post or the fact that it’s public.
In the letter to her 13-year-old son, Johnson reprimanded her son treating her like a “roommate.” She went on to give him an itemized bill for rent, food, etc that totaled over $700. If he was going to treat her like a roommate instead of his mom, she would do the same.
Johnson signed the note, “Love Mom,” and she truly does love her son. She followed up the post with another post explaining some backstory to the situation.
She also reassured parents who were criticizing her that “I am not going to put my 13 year old on the street if he can’t pay his half of the rent. I am not wanting him to pay anything.
I want him to take pride in his home, his space, and appreciate the gifts and blessings we have.”
She added that she never intended for Aaron to pay the bill. Instead, she wanted him to “gain an appreciation of what things cost.”
The reason Johnson wrote the note was to make sure her son understood “what life would look like if I was not his ‘parent,’ but rather a ‘roommate.’ It was a lesson about gratitude and respect from the very beginning.”
Johnson also explained that before she wrote the note, her son had lied about doing his homework, and when she told him she was going to restrict his internet access, he responded, “Well, I am making money now.”
She explained that the money he was referring to was a little bit of income he was making from his YouTube channel, but not nearly enough to pay for food and rent.
The public note has not hurt Johnson’s relationship with her son. She explained, “He and I still talk as openly as ever. He has apologized multiple times.”
Johnson has also had parents turning to her for advice since she posted the note to her son.
She explains, “My post seems to have opened a door, and people feel safe coming to me and asking for advice, venting, or even just have someone bear witness to their experience by listening and opening up and sharing a piece of myself in return.”
You can avoid using chemical fertilizers by using a miracle fertilizer
A novel farming technique gaining popularity involves a farmer digging a hole for tomato planting, where an egg and a banana are strategically placed. While this may initially seem peculiar, the results are truly remarkable, and the approach is gaining widespread adoption.
The viral video depicting a farmer excavating a hole, inserting a banana and an egg, has taken the internet by storm, accumulating nearly 1.2 million views and spreading globally. In the accompanying images, the farmer is seen employing a unique method to fertilize vegetables. By creating a hole in the soil and depositing an uncooked egg and a banana in its shell, he establishes a foundation for planting tomato seedlings. The entire setup is then covered with soil.
Over time, the decomposing egg and banana release what is referred to as “magic nutrients,” crucial for the optimal growth of vegetable seeds. This natural fertilization method proves highly effective, requiring only two simple items compared to the harmful chemical fertilizers that pose risks to the land, crops, and human health.
In the face of environmental challenges, with the ozone layer and ecology deteriorating, the cultivation of fruits and vegetables becomes increasingly challenging. The conventional response has been heavy reliance on synthetic fertilizers, exacerbating the issues at hand.
The drawback of chemical fertilizers lies in their synthetic nature, which can lead to soil, fruits, and vegetables being “poisoned” with overuse. This poses a significant threat to consumers. Despite their ability to enhance the appearance and expedite the growth of plants, these chemicals have adverse effects on the flavor of food and eventually inflict harm on crops. Weakened plants become more susceptible to pests and diseases, hindering growth and development.
Given the detrimental consequences of chemical fertilizers, it is advisable to explore natural alternatives. The example of using an egg and banana illustrates the potential of natural fertilizers such as ash, manure, and vegetable waste, which not only promote healthy plant growth but are also cost-effective. Embracing such natural solutions can contribute to sustainable and environmentally friendly farming practices.
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