Dysfunctional families affect the quality of life of each of the members, especially the children. These troubled relationships cause chronic feelings of guilt, shame, or worthlessness, as well as attachment issues.
The teenager who shared her story on Reddit some time ago comes from such a family where the father is basically absent from his children’s lives despite living under one roof with them.
She took to the Reddit thread AITA to explain that it was her mother who took care of her and her siblings while the father wasn’t really involved in their upbringing.
One day, as he got home and left his mobile phone on the table, OP could read the message that he received at that moment which said, “last night was amazing, can’t wait to see you again” and some emojis.
After thinking about it for a short time, she decided to tell her mother that her dad was cheating on her. “She got pretty emotional which I felt bad about, and told me not to worry and that I should just worry about being a kid and let her take care of the rest, so I just let it go cause I didn’t want to hurt her more.”
One evening, the entire family gathered for dinner at OP’s grandfathers. There, her cousin shared the news that she started a new job. Everyone was pleased with the news, but then OP’s father told OP that she should be more like her cousin because she wasn’t any good according to him. But he didn’t stop there. In fact, he continued shaming OP telling her she should focus more on school and a lot more.
At one moment he mentioned that OP lacked respect for him, and that was the final straw.
At this point, OP had it enough. “Hard to respect you when you openly cheat on Mom and don’t even try to hide it,” she said in front of everyone.
The room went silent at first, but then her father started yelling both at her and her mother. The mom then took her kids and told her husband she shouldn’t be returning home.
Once home, OP started receiving text messages from her relatives who accused her of ruining the evening and the family. Her mom, however, told her “that she understood my frustration and I probably should have expressed it better privately but what’s done is done.”
Redditors were quick to comment that OP was NTA.
What are your thoughts on this?
“Beauty icons age too!” The way actress Heather Locklear changed caused controversy
Heather Locklear is remembered by many as the icon for her role in “Melrose Place”, which took her career to new heights. Her captivating beauty, beautiful blonde hair and femininity made her a symbol of blonde beauty.
But as life goes, she too had her challenges over time.
Paparazzi were recently spotted as the ace actress took a leisurely stroll with her fiancé Chris Heisser. The couple explored the offerings at Whizin Market Square in Agoura Hills, California, and couldn’t escape the camera lenses.
After browsing the antique shops, Locklear was spotted carrying a small bag.
Few know that the two were actually a high school couple whose innocent love developed into something more mature. In 2018, Heather sought help in a rehabilitation program to deal with past abuse, leading to rumors about the complexities of her current relationship.
Fans noticed the lack of an engagement ring on her hand, which led to speculation and more questions.
It remains to be said that time undeniably changes everything and everyone.
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