Ashley Graham is one of the most relatable models and public figures out there. After becoming the first-ever plus-size model to be featured on the cover of Sports Illustrated, she has made it her mission to spread the body positivity message. And since Graham is keeping it real in every aspect of her life, she also held nothing back throughout her pregnancies, showing what it really takes to be a mom.
Being a mom to a boy and 2 twins, Graham is spreading a message that every mom has a right to choose whether breastfeeding is right for them, regardless of society’s expectations.
In a recent interview, Graham got candid about the consequences of being pregnant that every woman goes through but prefers to not be too vocal about. The model said she also considered keeping some things to herself, admitting, “Especially with how your body is changing when you’re pregnant, and stretchmarks, and the saggy skin, formula, breastfeeding. Cause there’s also this whole thing with people telling you how to feed your child.”
Ashley proceeded to explain her experience with breastfeeding: “With my first kid, I was like, ’I can only breastfeed! This is the right way!’ Then I had the twins, and I was like, ’I’m not doing this. This is not working here. Both of you want both of these? This is a lot of work.’ So I stopped breastfeeding when they were 5 months, and I gave them the best formula that I could find… And these little guys are so strong and so happy.”
Ultimately, Graham believes it’s up to every mom to decide between formula or breastfeeding based on their personal experience. She drove her point home, saying, “I don’t think we should be telling people how we should be feeding our kids.”
The model then became even more relatable, sharing her physical struggles after giving birth. She said, “Your body just fills up with nutrition, and the baby sucks it out of you. And then the baby comes out and all of a sudden you’re just fully depleted of everything, so your hair falls out, you get acne, I mean, the weight doesn’t come off.”
Graham explained her candidness, saying, “I like to represent myself as someone who’s just happy with who I am. And I had a journey, like, it is a journey, body confidence, being okay with who you are is a journey… I don’t ever want to lie.” And we’re all grateful for the model sharing her experiences with us, as it makes mothers around the world feel seen and heard.
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Unexpected Divorce at 55
Violeta’s hopes of a lively second youth were dashed after thirty years of marriage when her husband revealed his feelings for someone else. Her hopes of a quiet retirement and a renewed romance vanished out of the blue. But Violeta decided to concentrate on starting again in her life rather than fighting for the marriage.
Shocked by the unexpected information, she set out on a quest for self-awareness. She went, made new friends, and welcomed new experiences. She was unexpectedly happy by these interests, which surprised her. As time passed, Violeta came to understand that she could lead a fulfilling life without her spouse.
Violeta put her personal health first, even in spite of her husband’s attempts to patch things up following a protracted absence. She urged him to stay with the woman he had run away from home. She is 55 years old, and she loves the peace and beauty of being alone. Her grandchildren bring her fulfillment.
Violeta’s narrative serves as an example of the strength of resiliency and self-discovery. Finding contentment and pleasure is attainable even in the face of unforeseen difficulties.
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