My MIL Offered to Host My Baby Shower to ‘Take the Stress off My Plate’—Then Turned It Into a Celebration of Herself

My husband’s mother emotionally overwhelmed me when she suddenly asked to assist me with the baby shower most helpfully. However, she had something else in mind that aimed to erase me, but I wasn’t having it!

When my mother-in-law (MIL), Margaret, offered to throw and plan a baby shower for me, I genuinely thought she was trying to be kind. But I should’ve known better because all she did was embarrass and paint me in a bad light in front of friends and family!

An unhappy pregnant woman | Source: Midjourney

An unhappy pregnant woman | Source: Midjourney

I was eight months pregnant, and everything hurt, my feet, my hips, and even my eyelashes felt sore! My OB kept telling me to rest more, so when Margaret leaned across my kitchen island one day and said, “Let me take this off your plate, sweetie. You just focus on resting and growing that baby,”

I almost started bawling right there over the sink full of dishes! My eyes went wide with surprise! I felt like maybe I was dropping the ball by not planning my baby shower myself. But I was exhausted and honestly relieved someone wanted to take over!

A woman plotting | Source: Midjourney

A woman plotting | Source: Midjourney

“Are you sure?” I asked tentatively, feeling uncertain of my MIL’s intentions but desperate for the help.

“Absolutely. It would be my honor!” she offered. “You just rest up, you and the baby need it.”

“Oh, Margaret! You have no idea how much this means to me!” I said, gladly relinquishing everything to her.

I gave her the guest list, the registry link, and a carefully curated Pinterest board for the theme, titled “Baby Harper’s Day.” I even offered to help set up if she needed it! She waved me off.

“Don’t worry, I’ve got it.”

And technically, she did.

Except what she planned wasn’t a baby shower. It was a full-blown tribute to herself!

A woman working on her laptop | Source: Midjourney

A woman working on her laptop | Source: Midjourney

See, my friends and other female relatives were all inundated with their own lives and issues. Others were out of the country, while some were having family problems or hard times at work. They weren’t negligent or anything, it’s just that life happens sometimes.

However, they’d all promised to block out the date and attend no matter what. Plus, they had offered to make it up to me by babysitting as much as they could when the time came.

So you see, I really needed my MIL’s help.

Two remorseful friends | Source: Midjourney

Two remorseful friends | Source: Midjourney

Margaret has always had a way of spinning the room around her like a tornado: big smiles, big stories, and even bigger sighs when she doesn’t get the reaction she wants! She once cried during my bridal shower because no one clapped loud enough after her speech.

She also introduces herself like she’s reading from a teleprompter: “Mom of three, nurse of 30 years, and soon-to-be BEST Grandma!” She’s even said it to a gas station attendant and a confused cashier!

A confused cashier | Source: Midjourney

A confused cashier | Source: Midjourney

Still, I told myself this time might be different. Maybe this was her way of trying to connect. Maybe this was her version of nesting.

Oh, Mia. You naive, bloated fool!

The morning of the shower, I was more excited than I expected. I wore a lilac dress with soft ruffles, picked specifically to match the theme I’d dreamed up: Wildflowers and Woodland Creatures. I even curled my hair, even though it felt like lifting dumbbells with every pass of the curling iron.

A happy pregnant woman | Source: Midjourney

A happy pregnant woman | Source: Midjourney

When my husband, Eric, helped me out of the car in front of the rented venue, I froze while feeling a sinking in the pit of my stomach. There was a giant white-and-gold banner strung across the gift table in the entryway that read: “Welcoming My Grandchild!”

Not “Celebrating Baby Harper.”

Not even “Mia’s Baby Shower.”

Just… “My Grandchild.”

Underneath, in slightly smaller text: “Hosted by Margaret — Grandma’s Little Angel and Future Best Grandma Ever.”

A banner at a baby shower | Source: Midjourney

A banner at a baby shower | Source: Midjourney

My husband blinked, then turned to me with that same deer-in-headlights look he had the day he accidentally shrunk all my maternity leggings in the dryer.

“Babe… did you know about this?”

“Nope,” I said, pressing a hand to my stomach as Harper gave a solid kick like she knew we’d just stepped into weird territory.

Inside, it got worse!

A surprised pregnant woman | Source: Midjourney

A surprised pregnant woman | Source: Midjourney

Each table had a centerpiece, but instead of florals or baby-themed decorations, every vase held framed photos of Margaret in her younger years as a mother! My MIL holding Eric as a baby, her in a nurse’s uniform, and Margaret in a hospital bed with her firstborn, tears streaming down her face!

I scanned the room, hoping for something—anything—that connected to me or the actual baby I was still carrying!

Nothing.

A table with a framed photos as centerpieces | Source: Midjourney

A table with a framed photos as centerpieces | Source: Midjourney

The cake was a two-tier lemon sponge with “Can’t Wait to Be a Grandma!” written across the top in gold cursive script.

No mention of Harper.

Not a single sonogram photo was in sight. None of the registry gifts we’d hoped for were on the table. No diaper raffle. No “Mommy-to-be” sash. No one even knew my due date unless they asked, and they did!

It was like Margaret had created a parallel universe where I was just a surrogate carrying her grandchild!

A happy woman at an event | Source: Midjourney

A happy woman at an event | Source: Midjourney

Eric wanted to confront Margaret then and there, but I had no energy to fight. I begged him to leave it and promised him that everything would be fine, even though I knew it wouldn’t. I just wanted to get this thing over and done with, because a part of me blamed myself for allowing Margaret to play me like she had.

I smiled. I thanked people. I posed for pictures. And every time someone tilted their head and commented, “Margaret said you didn’t want to be involved,” or “Margaret said you were too tired to even care,” and “She said you didn’t care about the registry we got,” I clenched my jaw so tight I thought I’d chip a molar!

An upset pregnant woman pretending | Source: Midjourney

An upset pregnant woman pretending | Source: Midjourney

I overheard Margaret telling her sister, “She’s not really a planner. Doesn’t like the spotlight. I knew I had to step in.” Her sister nodded like my MIL was some unsung hero instead of the steamroller she actually was!

I wanted to scream as I stood there in a dress meant to match the theme I’d chosen, a theme she ignored! Instead, I sat through it. I told myself I’d deal with it later. Maybe even laugh about it one day.

Then came the toast.

A woman about to make a toast | Source: Midjourney

A woman about to make a toast | Source: Midjourney

Margaret tapped her glass with a fork and dabbed a single tear from the corner of her eye like she was accepting an award!

“It’s been so hard planning this all alone,” she said, holding up her glass, her voice shaking with faux emotion. “But anything for my grandbaby! I know they’ll grow up knowing their grandma did everything she could for them, right from the start.”

People clapped as they turned their heads to me. I did too, trying to cover my embarrassment, but I knew in that moment what exactly I’d do the next day because I’d made note of everything!

An upset pregnant woman plotting | Source: Midjourney

An upset pregnant woman plotting | Source: Midjourney

Eric squeezed my knee. “I’m so sorry,” he whispered after he picked me up and we got home. “I didn’t know it would be like this.”

“Neither did I,” I muttered, forcing a tight smile for the next group selfie.

But that night, I stood in the nursery for a long time, staring at the decorations I made by hand. The ones I’d asked Margaret to hang at the baby shower. She hadn’t.

She hadn’t used a single decoration I made!

Hadn’t sent out the digital invites I created!

Hadn’t included the custom cake topper I ordered with Harper’s name!

She didn’t just forget me, she erased me!

An unhappy pregnant woman at home | Source: Midjourney

An unhappy pregnant woman at home | Source: Midjourney

So, I posted a quiet carousel on Facebook.

It included the woodland-themed decorations I’d made. The cake topper with Harper’s name: “Baby Harper—Coming Soon.” The invitation mockup with lavender wildflowers and soft script.

And the caption: So grateful to finally celebrate our little one, despite the things that were quietly erased.

No tags. No names. No drama.

Just facts.

A pregnant woman posting on Facebook | Source: Midjourney

A pregnant woman posting on Facebook | Source: Midjourney

What I didn’t expect was for the comments to come in fast!

“Wait, you designed these?”

“I thought Margaret said you didn’t want to plan anything?”

“Why didn’t we see any of this at the party??”

“She told us you weren’t involved??”

Turns out, Margaret had told everyone I was too exhausted, too overwhelmed, too checked out to be involved!

She made it sound like she was swooping in to save the day!

But once people saw the post, the narrative cracked.

Her glow dimmed.

An angry woman | Source: Midjourney

An angry woman | Source: Midjourney

Margaret called me five times that afternoon! Left three voicemails!

“It was just a misunderstanding.”

“You embarrassed me.”

“You’re making this personal.”

But it was personal! Because she’d made me invisible, at my own baby shower!

She’d made it all about her when it was supposed to be about us.

A shocked woman holding a phone | Source: Midjourney

A shocked woman holding a phone | Source: Midjourney

Two weeks later, at my husband’s suggestion and planning, we had a do-over!

Nothing fancy. Just a handful of people who actually care. Close friends, Eric’s sister, my mom, some relatives, and the theme I originally envisioned!

There were wildflowers. A soft instrumental playlist of lullabies. Mason jars filled with lavender lemonade. My handmade decorations dotted the room. And a banner that read: “Celebrating Baby Harper and Her Mama.”

No Margaret.

Eric didn’t fight me on that. He just nodded and helped hang the banner.

A man about to hang a banner | Source: Midjourney

A man about to hang a banner | Source: Midjourney

“I love this,” I whispered, sitting on the couch as everyone cooed over the gifts and asked about the due date.

“Me too,” he said, rubbing my back gently. “This is how it should’ve been.”

I didn’t post about that second shower.

I didn’t need to.

But Margaret heard about it. And I think—just maybe—that was enough.

Because here’s the thing, I am sure now she realizes: You can plan the party all you want. But if you erase the mother, don’t be surprised when the spotlight doesn’t follow you home!

A happy pregnant woman | Source: Midjourney

A happy pregnant woman | Source: Midjourney

If you enjoyed that story, then the following one about MIL who tried sabotaging her daughter-in-law‘s (DIL) wedding day, will have you shocked! The DIL thought she was defeated until those close to her helped her get revenge!

This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

My Best Friend Asked Me to Help with Her Engagement Party — When I Arrived, I Was Horrified by Her Betrayal

When Oakley’s best friend Sophie ropes her into planning an engagement party, she’s happy to help, until the event turns into a nightmarish betrayal. Confronted by her cheating ex in a public proposal orchestrated by Sophie, Oakley is forced to question loyalty, love, and her own worth.

Friendships are complicated things. Sophie and I weren’t the storybook best friends who did everything together. Instead, ours was built on a shaky foundation of high school rivalry, competing for grades, sports, and even attention at parties.

Two high school girls | Source: Midjourney

Two high school girls | Source: Midjourney

But somewhere along the way, we found common ground. By college, she was the one I trusted with everything, the one who always had my back.

Or so I assumed.

When Sophie called me a few weeks ago, her voice bubbled with excitement through the phone.

“Oakley! Ryan and I are throwing a little engagement party,” she said, pausing dramatically. “It’s a surprise announcement. No one else knows yet, not even Ryan. Well, not about the party, I mean. So, I need your help.”

A woman talking on the phone | Source: Midjourney

A woman talking on the phone | Source: Midjourney

“Of course, Sophie,” I said, genuinely happy for her. “Congratulations, bestie!”

Ryan was a sweet and lovely guy, and Sophie deserved someone who treated her well and always put her first.

“But it’s not a big thing,” she added quickly. “I want a cozy and intimate vibe, you know? Just our closest people. I’ll send out the invitations and whatnot when you’re ready with them. You’re so good at planning these events. Can you handle it?”

A woman talking on a phone | Source: Midjourney

A woman talking on a phone | Source: Midjourney

I didn’t hesitate. I actually loved planning events.

“Absolutely,” I said. “Just tell me what you need and if there’s anything specific you want.”

Over the next few weeks, I noticed Sophie’s usual chatter had a strange edge to it. She was jumpy and dismissive whenever I pressed her for details.

“I don’t want to jinx it,” she’d say with a nervous laugh.

A party-planning notebook | Source: Midjourney

A party-planning notebook | Source: Midjourney

“Jinx what?” I asked. “Everything is already planned. I just need to get the cake order finalized and it will all be sorted. Nothing can be jinxed, Soph. It’s all going to be perfect.”

“You can’t be too careful…” she said wryly.

I figured it was just pre-party jitters. She’d always been a little dramatic, but I thought it was part of her charm. I didn’t question it.

By Friday night, I had spent hours arranging pink and gold balloons, fairy lights, and floral centerpieces. Sophie’s backyard looked like a scene from a romantic movie.

A backyard setup | Source: Midjourney

A backyard setup | Source: Midjourney

Sophie squealed in delight when she saw the setup.

“It’s exactly how I imagined it!” she gushed. “Thank you, Oak. You’ve made it perfect. Just perfect.”

When Saturday arrived, I loaded the last box of heart-shaped balloons into my car, excited to see Sophie’s big reveal to Ryan. He had been away for work since Thursday, and he was going to walk into the surprise engagement on his way home.

A smiling woman | Source: Midjourney

A smiling woman | Source: Midjourney

I could already picture it:

Ryan’s stunned face, the joy in Sophie’s eyes, and the warmth of celebrating her happiness, surrounded by all their closest people.

But when I stepped into the event hall, my excitement curdled into something cold and heavy.

Jason, my ex-boyfriend, stood in the center of the living room, which now had vases of flowers and some of the pink and gold balloons all over.

A man standing in a living room | Source: Midjourney

A man standing in a living room | Source: Midjourney

He wore a suit and held a small, velvet ring box. His grin spread wide, the same grin that had once charmed me and now made my stomach churn.

“Surprise!” Sophie chirped, rushing toward me with a wide smile. “Jason has been planning this for weeks! And we thought, who better to help with the decorations than you? Isn’t it romantic?”

I stared at her, the pieces slowly clicking into place.

This wasn’t Sophie and Ryan’s engagement party. This was Jason’s proposal to me.

A shocked woman | Source: Midjourney

A shocked woman | Source: Midjourney

Jason’s proposal.

Jason?!

And I had unknowingly helped decorate and cater for the entire event.

“What the hell is this?” I managed to whisper, my voice shaking as my knees almost buckled.

Jason stepped closer, the same confidence oozing from him that had once been magnetic.

A man in a suit | Source: Midjourney

A man in a suit | Source: Midjourney

“I know I messed up,” he began, as if acknowledging the understatement of the century. “But I’ve changed, Oakley. You’re the only one for me. And I want to spend the rest of my life proving it.”

My mind reeled.

Jason, who had cheated on me with a coworker, forced me into questioning my worth, and dumped me with a single text after weeks of silence, now thought this public spectacle would erase it all?

I turned to Sophie, desperate for an explanation.

An upset woman sitting on a couch | Source: Midjourney

An upset woman sitting on a couch | Source: Midjourney

“You knew what he did to me,” I said, my voice breaking. “You knew, Sophie.”

She shrugged, smiling as if she hadn’t just betrayed me.

“Everyone makes mistakes. Besides, he’s serious now. He’s ready to commit, Oak. Isn’t that what you’ve always wanted? Isn’t that what matters?”

The air seemed to leave my lungs altogether.

A woman with her hands on her hips | Source: Midjourney

A woman with her hands on her hips | Source: Midjourney

Sophie had always been impulsive, but this was something else entirely.

“You thought this was okay?” I asked.

“It’s a grand gesture, Oakley!” she said brightly. “I think you’ll thank me one day.”

I had barely noticed my parents standing in the corner of the room until my mom stepped forward. Her voice was soft, pleading.

An older woman standing in a living room | Source: Midjourney

An older woman standing in a living room | Source: Midjourney

“Jason explained everything, Oak. He made a mistake, sure, but he’s trying to make it right. Don’t be so stubborn, sweetheart. You’re not getting any younger, and how often does a man who wants to propose come along?”

I felt the walls close in.

My humiliation, my anger… it was all secondary to the suffocating realization that the people I trusted the most in this world were siding with him.

An upset woman holding her head | Source: Midjourney

An upset woman holding her head | Source: Midjourney

With him.

Just as I turned to leave, Noah walked in carrying the cake box I’d asked him to bring in. I wasn’t going to trust myself to carry it with my heels on.

I had forgotten about Noah. But seeing him made me feel better. He had always been a calming presence for me.

He paused, his eyes scanning the room, his brows knitting in confusion. Then, his gaze landed on me, tear-streaked and trembling.

A man holding a cake box | Source: Midjourney

A man holding a cake box | Source: Midjourney

“What’s going on?” he asked, his voice steady but firm.

Jason puffed up his chest like a rooster.

“I’m proposing to Oakley, Noah. You don’t have an issue with that, do you?”

Noah’s eyes darted to me, and then back to Jason.

A man standing with his hands in his pockets | Source: Midjourney

A man standing with his hands in his pockets | Source: Midjourney

“Do you want this?” he asked, his voice softer now.

I shook my head, unable to speak through the lump in my throat.

“Then let’s go,” Noah said without hesitation.

He grabbed my hand and pulled me toward the door. The cool night air hit my face like a lifeline as we stepped outside.

A woman standing outside | Source: Midjourney

A woman standing outside | Source: Midjourney

We drove in silence for a while, my thoughts a tangled mess of rage and betrayal. Finally, I told Noah everything. I expected him to offer advice or a quick solution, but he didn’t. Instead, he just listened.

Noah had been around for years, and while I told him about most things in our friendship, I wasn’t always open about talking about Jason.

Over the following months, our relationship became more intimate. Noah became a rock of sorts. He never pushed, never pried; he simply was. And when the time was right, our friendship deepened into something more.

A man driving a car | Source: Midjourney

A man driving a car | Source: Midjourney

It started out as a dinner from a drive-thru and turned into a romantic picnic in a parking lot. Noah reminded me that love wasn’t supposed to hurt or feel like an uphill battle.

As for Sophie?

It had been months since that night, months of cutting Sophie out of my life, deleting her texts without reading them, and dodging her calls. I thought I’d moved on, that I’d buried the hurt.

Then, one chilly afternoon in early spring, she showed up at the café where I was meeting Noah.

The interior of a coffee shop | Source: Midjourney

The interior of a coffee shop | Source: Midjourney

The bell above the door jingled as she stepped inside, her bright smile faltering slightly when she saw me.

I froze, mid-sip of my latte.

Sophie approached with hesitant steps, her voice too bright.

“Oakley! I was hoping I’d run into you!”

I didn’t return her smile.

A woman in a coffee shop | Source: Midjourney

A woman in a coffee shop | Source: Midjourney

“What do you want, Sophie?”

Her expression flickered. Disappointment? Irritation? But she quickly covered it with the kind of grin that used to fool me.

“I just want to talk. Can we, um, can I sit?”

I nodded.

“I’ve missed you,” she began, her voice soft as she slid into the chair. “I know you’re mad, but I hate how things ended. I just want to explain.”

A woman sitting in a coffee shop | Source: Midjourney

A woman sitting in a coffee shop | Source: Midjourney

“Explain what, Sophie? That you thought it was a good idea to ambush me with the guy who destroyed me? That you cared so little about my feelings you turned my pain into some romantic gesture for Jason?”

She flinched but held her ground.

“It wasn’t like that,” she said quickly. “I was trying to help you. You and Jason… there was so much love there, Oakley. I just thought if he could show you he was serious, you’d see it too.”

“Serious? He broke me, and you knew that.”

A woman holding her head | Source: Midjourney

A woman holding her head | Source: Midjourney

“People change!” she exclaimed. “He told me he regretted it, that he wanted to make things right. Isn’t that what everyone wants? To be forgiven?”

I shook my head.

“I thought you’d be happy! You used to love him, Oakley! How was I supposed to know you’d react like that?”

My jaw dropped.

An upset woman sitting in a coffee shop | Source: Midjourney

An upset woman sitting in a coffee shop | Source: Midjourney

“React like that? You mean like a normal person who doesn’t want to be blindsided by their abusive ex in front of their family and friends?”

“You’re blowing this out of proportion, Oakley. Like you always do. I wanted you to be happy like me.”

I stared at her, the full weight of her words hitting me.

“No, you were trying to force me into the life you thought I should want. You’ve never cared about what I actually feel, Sophie. It’s always been about you.”

An upset woman in a coffee shop | Source: Midjourney

An upset woman in a coffee shop | Source: Midjourney

“That’s not true,” she said.

“It is. Now, please leave,” I said.

Just then, the bells above the door jingled again, and Noah walked in, beaming.

Bells hanging in a coffee shop | Source: Midjourney

Bells hanging in a coffee shop | Source: Midjourney

“That’s my cue to leave,” Sophie huffed.

“I assume that wasn’t an apology, was it?” Noah asked.

“No,” I said with a small, bitter laugh. “But that’s okay. I don’t need her apology anymore.”

A woman walking away | Source: Midjourney

A woman walking away | Source: Midjourney

If you enjoyed this story, here’s another one for you:

When Lily and Jason’s son, Nathan, brings his fiancée home for the long weekend, Lily is excited to get to know the young woman. But during that weekend, she notices her husband acting strange. So, she tries to uncover what is going on with Jason — only to open a can of worms with secrets wriggling everywhere.

This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

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