When Rosa’s mother-in-law, Victoria, moved in to help care for her five-year-old granddaughter, life seemed to be falling into place. But late at night, Victoria’s strange hand gestures in the window revealed a secret Rosa never saw coming. A secret that would change their lives forever.
I thought having Victoria move in with us would be a win-win where Clara would get to spend more time with her grandma, and I could finally get back to work.
But as the days passed, little things about Victoria started to feel off.
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Life hadn’t always been easy, but it had been good.
I had a loving husband, Mark, and a beautiful five-year-old daughter, Clara, who brought light into every corner of our lives.
Mark worked hard to provide for us, and although money had been tight lately, we always found a way to make things work.
Victoria, my mother-in-law, had always been part of that “good” life.
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She was kind, helpful, and never the stereotypical meddling mother-in-law you’d hear horror stories about.
From the day Mark and I got married, she welcomed me with open arms, treating me more like a daughter than an in-law.
Victoria had faced her share of heartache. She lost her husband five years ago, just a year after Mark and I got married.
I still remember how devastated she was during that time. She tried to stay strong for Mark, but you could see the sadness in her eyes.
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Honestly, it wasn’t easy for any of us, but things started to look up when Clara was born.
Victoria had always dreamed of being a grandmother, and Clara’s arrival brought her a joy I hadn’t seen in years. She even moved in with us for a few months to help me navigate the chaos of being a first-time mom.
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Those months were some of the best of my life. She was supportive, loving, and full of wisdom I didn’t even know I needed.
As the years passed, Clara grew into a bright, energetic little girl who was the center of all our lives. She had a way of lighting up any room she walked into, and we adored her. But as much as I loved being a stay-at-home mom, I knew it was time for a change.
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Clara had started school, and with our finances tighter than ever, I decided it was time to go back to work.
When I brought up the idea to Victoria, she surprised me with an offer I hadn’t even considered.
“I could move in again,” she said one afternoon over tea. “It’d be easier for you to get back to work if someone’s here to take care of Clara. I’d love the company, too.”
The idea immediately appealed to me. It felt like the perfect solution.
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Clara would have her grandmother around, I could focus on restarting my career, and Victoria wouldn’t be lonely at her place.
When I talked it over with Mark, he was fully on board.
“It’s a great idea,” he said, smiling. “Mom loves Clara, and she’ll love having a reason to be busy.”
And just like that, we made the arrangements.
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A few weeks later, Victoria moved back into our home, just like she had when Clara was a baby. I was excited about the change and confident it was the best move for everyone.
What I didn’t expect was how her arrival would bring a wave of strangeness into our lives. The strange, small moments made me question whether I truly knew the woman I had welcomed into my home.
At first, it was nothing. Just little things that I brushed off as quirks. But as the days turned into weeks, Victoria’s behavior started to feel odd.
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One evening, I walked into Clara’s room to find Victoria kneeling by the toy chest. Her hands were moving quickly, rummaging through the pile of stuffed animals, dolls, and building blocks.
“Everything okay?” I asked, leaning against the doorframe.
“Oh, just organizing,” she said without looking up.
Her tone was casual, but something about the way she avoided my gaze didn’t sit right with me.
The next morning, Clara was inconsolable.
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“Where’s Bun-Bun?” she wailed, tears streaming down her cheeks.
Bun-Bun, her favorite stuffed bunny, was nowhere to be found. I turned the house upside down looking for it, checking under beds, behind cushions, and even in the washing machine.
But I couldn’t find it.
A few days later, I was walking past Victoria’s room when something caught my eye. There, perched neatly on her dresser, was Bun-Bun.
I picked it up and walked into the living room, where Victoria was sipping her tea.
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“I found this in your room,” I said, holding up the bunny.
“Oh, yes,” she said with a smile. “I borrowed it to fix a tear.”
I examined the bunny.
“I don’t see any tear,” I said.
“Well, it was very small.”
The explanation didn’t sit right with me, but I decided to let it go. Maybe she had good intentions.
But then there were the pictures.
Victoria started taking photos of Clara constantly. Not just cute candid moments but posed shots.
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She’d ask Clara to change into different outfits, sometimes even ones she hadn’t worn in months.
“Smile, sweetie,” she’d say, clicking away on her phone.
One afternoon, I caught her sending one of the photos to someone.
“Who are you sending these to?” I asked casually.
“An old friend,” she said with a shrug.
“Who?” I pressed.
“Oh, just someone I’ve reconnected with recently,” she said, avoiding my eyes.
Her vagueness made me uneasy.
What kind of friend needed so many pictures of my daughter?
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The strangest thing, though, was what she did every night by the window.
At exactly 9:00 p.m., without fail, Victoria would stand in front of the living room window and make a hand gesture. It looked like she was flashing a “cool” sign and moving it slightly back and forth.
At first, I thought she might be stretching, but the motion seemed too deliberate. One night, I asked her about it.
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“What’s that gesture you’re doing at the window?”
She laughed. “Oh, just stretching my hand out. It gets stiff sometimes.”
But it didn’t look like stretching to me.
I told Mark about it, hoping he’d share my concern.
“You’re overthinking things,” he said, shaking his head. “Mom’s just quirky. You know that.”
I tried to let it go, but the unease gnawed at me.
Who was this “old friend”? Why was she so secretive? And what was she really doing at the window every night?
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The breaking point came when I didn’t see her do the gesture one night.
Honestly, I felt relieved. I thought whatever she was doing had stopped. But then, as I passed Clara’s room on my way to bed, I heard Victoria’s voice through the door.
She was reading Clara a bedtime story. I paused to listen, smiling at the sweet moment. But then she said something that made me freeze.
“Now it’s time for that surprise I told you about,” Victoria whispered. “Let’s get dressed, and remember, Mom doesn’t need to know.”
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What surprise was she talking about? And why was she keeping it a secret?
Cracking the door open just enough to see, I watched as Victoria helped Clara into her coat.
I stood frozen as they quietly slipped out the back door.
This can’t be happening, I thought and immediately bolted after them.
“Victoria! Stop!” I shouted.
She jumped, startled, and Clara clung to her hand, looking confused.
“Mommy?” Clara’s small voice broke through the tension.
Before I could say another word, I noticed a man standing at the edge of the driveway, just beyond the glow of our porch light.
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He was older, maybe in his sixties, with a calm but unreadable expression. He didn’t move or speak.
Just stood there watching us.
“What is going on here?” I demanded.
“It’s not what it looks like,” Victoria stammered. “We were just—”
“What’s happening?” Mark intervened. “And who’s that?”
He’d just come running from the house after hearing me scream. Victoria couldn’t hide her secret any longer after seeing her son.
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“This… this is Richard,” she said as tears trickled down her cheeks. “He’s my boyfriend.”
Mark and I stared at her, stunned.
“Boyfriend?” Mark repeated, his voice filled with disbelief. “Mom, what are you talking about?”
Victoria took a deep breath as she wiped tears off her cheeks.
“I didn’t know how to tell you,” she began. “Your father’s been gone for five years, and I… I’ve been lonely. Richard and I met a while ago, but I was scared you wouldn’t understand.”
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“He’s deaf and doesn’t speak,” she continued as her gaze landed on me. “So, we’ve been using sign language to communicate. The gesture you saw in the window? It means ‘tomorrow.’ It’s how I’d let him know when it was safe to come by.”
I blinked, trying to process her words. “Safe to come by for what?”
“For this,” she said, gesturing toward Clara. “He’s been wanting to meet you guys and Clara for months, but I wasn’t ready to tell you about him. Clara overheard me talking about him to a friend once, and she got curious. Tonight, she asked if she could meet him, and I thought…” Her voice cracked. “I thought it might be okay if I introduced them quietly.”
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Mark ran a hand through his hair, his frustration evident.
“Mom, you couldn’t have just told us? Did you really think sneaking out in the middle of the night with Clara was the right way to handle this?”
Richard stepped forward, his hands moving in slow, deliberate gestures. Victoria translated it for us.
“He says he’s sorry,” she revealed. “He didn’t mean to cause any trouble. He just wanted to meet the people who mean the most to me. And he wanted to give Clara something special.”
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She glanced at Richard, who nodded, encouraging her to explain.
“That’s why I took Bun-Bun,” she said, looking at me apologetically. “Richard’s been working on sewing Clara a handmade stuffed bunny to match it. He needed Bun-Bun as a reference. And the pictures I was taking? He’s been designing little outfits for the bunny that match Clara’s clothes.”
I stared at her, speechless. All the strange behavior, the missing bunny, the endless photos, the secret hand signs suddenly made sense.
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“Mom, you could’ve just told us,” Mark said softly. “You didn’t need to hide all of this.”
“I know,” she said, wiping away tears. “I was afraid of how you’d react. I didn’t mean to scare you.”
I crouched down to Clara’s level, brushing her hair out of her face.
“You scared me, sweetheart,” I said softly. “Next time, let’s talk about surprises before sneaking out, okay?”
She nodded, her small arms wrapping around my neck. “Okay, Mommy.”
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We invited Richard inside that night, and as awkward as it was at first, it didn’t take long for Clara to warm up to him. She proudly showed him her toys while Victoria translated his gestures. He seemed kind, thoughtful, and genuinely caring.
True to Victoria’s word, Richard presented Clara with a beautiful handmade stuffed bunny a week later. It was a perfect replica of Bun-Bun, complete with matching clothes that Clara couldn’t wait to wear herself.
Over the next few weeks, Richard became a regular presence in our lives.
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What started as a series of unsettling mysteries ended with our family growing in an unexpected and beautiful way. Victoria learned to trust us with her truths, and we learned to give her the benefit of the doubt.
Sometimes, even the strangest signs point to the most unexpected joys.
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Weddings are some of the most beautiful celebrations one can experience in their life (usually). The deep connection between two lovers taking physical form in a ceremonious act for all to see is one that a lot of couples look forward to.
However, it also comes with months upon months of planning, stress, and even more planning. The one thing that a bride cannot go without—the special dress. Whether it be white, maroon, black, fluffy, frilly, or form-fitting, it must make the wearer feel likе the most beautiful woman in the whole entire world.
Some brides take the plunge of crafting their own dresses, be it for the challenge, for the love of the craft, or both. Today we delve into the story of Veronika Lindberg Heino, or Kika, who knitted her special gown for her big day in 6 weeks. She was kind enough to answer some of Bored Panda’s questions so let’s get into it!
Veronika Lindberg Heino, better known by her nickname Kika, decided to take up the challenge of knitting her own stunning wedding dress
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If you were given 2.5 kg of yarn and 250 hours, what would you create? Mayhaps a blanket, mayhaps a 3D portrait, or maybe a knitted wedding dress. Seeing as you clicked on this article for a very particular reason, you probably know by now that we’ll be speaking about the last option.
Opening herself to the challenge was Veronika Lindberg Heino, better known by her nickname Kika, who documented the birth of her special white dress, sharing the ups and downs with her followers on Instagram (which she started in 2017) and YouTube.
This project came about when she and her husband-to-be were both moving house and planning an impromptu wedding, making for a very stressful 7 weeks
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For what was already an intense project, life decided to add an extra bit of *spice*: they were moving house and planning their wedding, happening 7 weeks later, at the same time, so why not add in a project of great significance on top of it all? Unless you’re as skiIIed as Kika, I wouldn’t recommend it!
“I do love a challenge and I’m often a little bit over-ambitious, and the thought felt so wild and inspiring that I just decided to take the risk and do it,” the Finland-based knitter told Good Morning America (GMA). “I ordered 2.5 kg of pure silk yarn and announced my crazy plan on Instagram, and knew right then, there was no turning back anymore.”
She ordered 2.5 kg of pure silk yarn and announced her plans to her followers on Instagram, getting the project officially started with no way to turn back
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Kika based her design around Dior, Chanel, and Ulla Johnson’s dresses. She then sketched and planned the patterns. After all that, the knitting began!
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Nothing worth doing ever comes easy. It was a struggle finding time to knit in between moving, planning the wedding, and publishing her first book
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Instead of throwing Kika off balance, this added project seemed to have the opposite effect: it kept her grounded through the tumultuous time, at least for a while. Nothing worth doing comes easy, and this project was no exception, especially as she’d never knitted a dress before.
“The process was definitely intense, and the biggest struggle was to find enough time for knitting since we were in the process of moving and organizing the wedding at the same time,” said Kika. “Plus I published my first-ever knitting book, so it was definitely hectic. But, I also enjoyed it immensely and loved seeing my vision come to life in the process.”
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Then a big setback occured—her bodice was far too big, requiring her to rip it all up and start again. Her sleeves then kept slipping off, which took lots of time to fix
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Glaring issues started appearing about two weeks in when Kika had finished the bodice and tried it on for the first time—it was way too big. Disappointed, but not defeated, the bride-to-be ripped it all up, starting all over again, describing it as “a tough and frustrating moment where some tears were shed.”
One more issue came along with the slippy sleeves that kept on slipping, revealing a tad bit too much, which Kika found hilarious yet time-consuming to fix. “I made sure to film all my mistakes so I could be real and honest with my viewers, rather than only showing them the picture-perfect moments,” she told Insider.
Not having any other option (you typically can’t just go and buy a dress off the rack, as those require alterations, which take a long time), she kept moving forward until it was one week til the wedding. Encouraging messages from her followers kept her spirits up, the promise she’d made to the project at the very beginning providing her with a sense of accountability.
However, “the biggest motivator was definitely seeing for myself if I could pull my idea and vision off, and the thought of having the dress as a memory for life really kept me going, too.”
But all that didn’t deter her! Just 4 days before the big day, the dress was finished and Kika got to have a well-deserved rest
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Everything was done. She finished her dress on Tuesday, feeling more tired and frustrated than elated, but once she put it on for the ceremony, she couldn’t have been happier with the end result.
Kika got married to her husband Jukka Heino on Saturday, September 10, at their new home (which inspired the cottage-themed wedding tone), just 4 days after she’d finished her dress. Although her partner was a bit more skeptical about her last-minute knitting project, “in the end, he was super impressed and proud of me, and thought it looked really good too,” Kika said.
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Kika told Bored Panda that they’d met back in Spring of 2020, when she moved back home to Finland from London, as the pandemic put the world in lockdown. “Just a few months after moving back I met Juki and for our first date we walked around in Helsinki for hours since all cafés and bars were closed due to the restrictions,” she said.
“I was immediately drawn to his humor and often colorful stories of his adventures which made me laugh, and of course I found him really handsome. I think he was drawn to my enthusiasm, something we both have in common and my positive attitude towards life.”
She married Jukka Heino on Saturday, September 10, at their new home. Everyone loved her dress, praising her for all the effort she’d put into it
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“Over the course of the day, guests would come up to me and immediately feel the dress and comment on it. It sometimes felt likе they were more interested in the dress than in me, but I love talking about knitting, so I didn’t mind too much,” she told Insider.
The entire process demanded around 45 days, roughly 250 hours, and 1.5 kg of pure silk yarn, costing 300 euros, or around $295, which is a bargain when it comes to wedding dresses, which go for $1,800 on average. Her 149k followers on Instagram absolutely loved the journey, jumping in with suggestions and support any time she needed it.
The entire process demanded around 45 days, roughly 250 hours, and 1.5 kg of pure silk yarn, costing 300 euros, or around $295
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The 46-minute vlog of the whole journey posted on YouTube has garnered over 3.4M views, quickly becoming the highlight of her channel, which has over 253k subscribers that look forward to her knitting tutorials. “I’m absolutely amazed by all the positive attention the video and my dress has gotten, wow!” said Kika.
“I’ve received messages from people all over the world telling me I’ve inspired them to take up knitting again or to learn it, which makes me so glad. I’m also proud that I’ve maybe been able to push the boundaries and show what is possible using knitting.”
According to Kika, “knitting was actually done primarily by men at some point in history, so the fact that knitting nowadays is associated with something mostly feminine hasn’t always been the case.” Knitting is not just for grandmas, y’all!
The 46-minute vlog of the entire process garnered over 3.4M views on YouTube, inspiring hundreds of people to take up or go back to the craft
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What began as a bonding activity with her grandma when she was 5 years old has become a lifestyle, bringing together likе-minded people from all over the world. The one lesson she’d always kept was to be playful with the craft, rather than searching for perfection.
“With knitting there are a lot of ‘rules’ or principles that come with the territory which sometimes can make it feel likе you’re not doing things the right way,” she told Bored Panda. “My grandmother always encouraged me to make things without getting hung up on perfection, being creative and playful was more important.”
She hopes her followers and those who jumped on the bandwagon to see the final dress get inspired to embrace creative projects they might feel tempted to try—“even if it might feel a bit ambitious, I say go for it!”
We wish Kika and Jukka all the best for their future together and can’t wait to see what’s coming up for them next!
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A post-pandemic resurgence of knitting is a very welcome sight for many who are getting into arts and crafts for the first time or returning back to the familiar time-passing activity. Recent research shows that knitting has a measurable effect on calming anxiety, relieving stress, and aiding with chronic pain, as well as helping one build a community of friends. And you end up with a cute hat and mittens in the meantime!
“I think knitting as a craft teaches you a lot about patience and really makes you think about what kind of garments you most likе to wear,” Kika said. “When you’re going to spend 40-60 hours making a sweater, you really want to make sure it’s something that is going to stay in your wardrobe for a long time, which makes knitting a very sustainable practice, too.”
Honestly, what’s not to love!? We wish Kika and Jukka all the best for their future together and hope to see many more exciting knitting projects! Let us know your thoughts on the dress in the comments below, and I shall see you in the next one!
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