A lot of big, tragic and important things have happened to this wonderful country of ours since April 2014. None of which I have covered. I was too busy writing about hungover parenting, ancient philosophy and my dog Colin.
Out of the 536 columns I have written, 27 were about that guy. Far too few. He is such a good boy, he deserves an article a week.
Today is the end of an era for me, and whenever these final events pop up in our lives, we can’t help but think about the ultimate end.
Everything we do, we will one day do for the last time. That’s why you have to enjoy things while they are around. It’s not just big events like leaving a job, house or loved one either. Whatever moment you happen to be in now, you will never get it back, and you don’t know how many more you have.
Everything we do in life, from eating pizza to spending time with the people we love, to driving, writing, drinking or breathing, we will one day experience for the final time. It might happen tomorrow. This can be either a depressing or an inspiring thought, depending on how you look at it.
A few years back in this column, I interviewed professor of philosophy William B Irvine, of Wright State University, Ohio, on this very topic. He put it this way on a Zoom call: “Recognition of the impermanence of everything in life can invest the things we do with a significance and intensity that would otherwise be absent. The only way we can be truly alive is if we make it our business periodically to entertain thoughts of the end.”
Today’s column is very meaningful to me because it is my last. Like the last night with a lover before she goes overseas. And just like a lover, there have been some half-arsed efforts put in from me over the years. Last week, for example, I spent 750 words moaning about how bad my cricket team is. But the truth is that any of my columns could have been the final. If I had reminded myself every week for the past 10 years that the end is inevitable, I may have been more grateful for having a column and appreciated writing them all as much as I am this one.
While everything we do could have more meaning with a focus on finitude, some things are inherently more worthwhile than others. There is no doubt my column “The pros and cons of wearing Speedos” from November 2022 was less meaningful than most things in this world. That was a waste of everyone’s time. So, if we only have so much time, how do we pick the best things to do?
Well, Oliver Burkeman, the author of Four Thousand Weeks – Time Management For Mortals, suggested this to me in a 2022 column: “Ask yourself, does this choice enlarge me? You usually know on some unspoken level if it does. That’s a good way to distinguish between options.”
With that in mind, I don’t feel great about my 2018 article on “New Zealand’s best hole”. That didn’t enlarge anyone.
There will be people reading this column right now who have loved my writing in the Herald and are sad to see it end. Others will have hated it and are glad to see me go. Many won’t have any opinion at all. But for those in the first camp, I have good news. I have a book coming out on May 28 called A Life Less Punishing – 13 Ways To Love The Life You Got (Allen and Unwin Book Publishers). It’s a deep dive into the history, philosophy and science of not wasting our time lost in anger, loneliness, humiliation, stress, fear, boredom and all the other ways we find to not enjoy perfectly good lives. It’s available for pre-order right now (google it if you’re interested).
A Life Less Punishing took me two years to write and is equivalent in words to 100 of these columns. Which would be a complete nightmare for those in the hate camp, but as I say, great news for those who want more.
Anyway, thanks to the Herald for having me, thanks to the lovely people who make an effort to say nice things to me about my column nearly every day and thanks to the universe for every single second we get.
Bless!
“Heartbreaking Appeal: Abandoned Puppy Clings to Hope with Plea for Rescue”
In a world where compassion often shines its brightest in the midst of adversity, a poignant story of a vulnerable puppy’s plea for help has stirred the hearts of many, serving as a powerful reminder that acts of kindness can transcend even the harshest circumstances. The scene opens with a small, abandoned puppy adorned with a heart-wrenching sign that reads “Help Me,” a desperate cry for assistance that almost went unnoticed by a world seemingly too busy to care.
The story unfolds as a young child stumbles upon the sight of this forlorn puppy, shivering and hungry, left to fend for itself. With innocence and empathy, the child recognizes the urgent need for intervention and makes a call to those who can offer help.
Responding swiftly and compassionately, a dedicated team from an animal welfare organization arrives on the scene. Armed with warmth, nourishment, and a deep-seated commitment to making a difference, these volunteers extend a lifeline to the trembling puppy. Wrapping it in soft blankets, offering sustenance, and cradling it with the utmost gentleness, they exemplify the power of human empathy in its purest form.
The puppy’s journey from despair to hope is a testament to the strength of collective compassion. As it devours the offered sustenance with a hunger that goes beyond the physical, the transformation begins. With each bite, the puppy is nourished not only in body but also in spirit, finding a flicker of hope amidst its dire circumstances.
Soon after satiating its hunger, the puppy’s weariness takes over, and it drifts into a peaceful slumber. This vulnerable state serves as a poignant reminder of the vulnerability of all creatures, a reminder that resonates with the viewer’s sense of empathy.
As the puppy awakens, a beautiful metamorphosis takes place. In the company of kind-hearted individuals and the comforting presence of other dogs, the once-desolate creature begins to flourish. Its playful interactions and moments of unadulterated joy become a beacon of resilience, a testament to the capacity for happiness and healing even after facing abandonment.
The heartwarming narrative of this rescued puppy touches on themes of responsibility and compassion, inviting reflection on our roles as stewards of the animals that share our world. It is a stark reminder that each life, no matter how small or seemingly insignificant, carries its own inherent worth and deserves a chance to thrive.
The final chapter of this story is one of promise and commitment. The compassionate individuals who stepped in to save this puppy’s life also vowed to give it a forever home. The once-abandoned puppy will now be cherished as a member of a loving family, a testament to the enduring impact of compassion and care.
This heartrending tale of rescue and redemption demonstrates that in a world often marred by indifference, a simple act of kindness can become a catalyst for change. The puppy’s plea for help, conveyed through a handwritten sign, touched hearts around the globe, uniting people in a shared sense of empathy and determination.
As we reflect on this story, let it serve as a call to action—a reminder that our compassion can reshape lives, that our empathy can bridge the gaps of understanding, and that our collective effort can make a world of difference for those who cannot advocate for themselves. The tale of the adorable, abandoned puppy with a heartfelt plea is a testament to the power of compassion, a testament that resonates far beyond its pages and encourages us all to be the change we wish to see in the world.
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