We all have different traditions when it comes to commemorating and paying tribute to our loved ones who have passed away.
In today’s world, honoring the customs of others while commemorating the lives of the departed ought to come as standard practice. Some may choose to follow traditions or practices that the rest of us are not familiar with, but it doesn’t make them any less legitimate.
The same is true with gravestones and the ornamentation certain families choose to place over their loved ones’ last resting places. Coins being placed on headstones is one custom that is widely practiced and that you have probably witnessed at some point. However, why is this even a thing? And from whence did it originate? Continue reading to learn more.
Coins are traditionally placed on gravestones in cemeteries around the United States and other countries. When I was a little child, I first observed it when I was at my grandfather’s tomb, and even then, I started to wonder what it was all about.
Luckily, finding the beginnings online doesn’t need much research. Although it was previously thought that the practice originated with Roman military troops, a number of sources have disproved that theory in recent years.
Still, there’s a military connection to leaving pennies on gravestones. The American Legion Website states on one of its pages that it can be linked to the Vietnam War.
“Leaving a coin was considered a more practical way to communicate that you had visited the soldier’s grave than contacting the soldier’s family, which could devolve into an uncomfortable argument over politics relating to the war, due to the political divide in the country over the war.”
There are other reasons why veterans leave pennies on gravestones in memory of their fallen friends; occasionally, they do so in order to purchase a beer for them. Each coin represents a different meaning, according to reports.
For instance, a nickel is left by someone who served in boot camp with the deceased, whereas a penny just indicates that someone was present.
On the other hand, a dime represents a combined period of military service. Next are quarters, which inform the family of the presence of whoever left the coin at the moment of the loved one’s passing.
Ever notice a penny left on a gravestone? Were you aware of its meaning? Tell us in the comments below.
An Elderly Woman Left Her Son’s Favorite Pastry at His Grave, Only to Return and Find a Note Saying ‘Thank You’
This story is a touching reminder of how grief and love can shape us, sometimes leading us to places we never expected to find healing. Nancy’s annual pie ritual, which began as a way to remember and honor her son Henry, reveals a profound truth: that love, when shared, has the power to transcend grief.
Nancy’s kindness towards Jimmy highlights how acts of compassion, even in times of pain, can create new connections and bring healing. Her decision to take Jimmy into her home and bake a fresh pie for him symbolizes the continuation of love, not only for her son but for those in need. The way she redirected her motherly love toward this young boy shows us that even the deepest sorrows can lead to new purposes.
Through this unexpected encounter, Nancy begins to feel a renewed sense of purpose, discovering that sharing love can bring fulfillment in ways she hadn’t imagined. This story encourages us to find opportunities to be kind to others, as they might be part of the journey of healing and connection we didn’t know we needed. It’s a reminder that while our loved ones may no longer be with us, their memories can inspire us to do good and spread love.
A story like this can certainly brighten someone’s day and perhaps remind us to look for small ways to be there for others.
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