Sonia Todd of Moscow, Idaho, died of cancer at the young age of 38. But knowing the end was near, she decided to write her own obituary before passing away. As she explained, obituaries were usually written a couple of different ways that she simply didn’t care for. So, as one of her last acts on this earth, she put pen to paper and decided for herself how her obituary would read.
The result of Sonia confronting her own mortality as she penned her obituary was a piece full of humor as well as wisdom, appearing in the Moscow-Pullman Daily News. The words were so honest and inspirational that long after her death, they will still ring true, giving others something to aspire to. Ironically, Sonia wrote, “I never really accomplished anything of note.” How wrong she was. The truth expressed in the obituary she wrote proved to be quite an accomplishment in and of itself.
“Other than giving birth to my two wonderful, lovable, witty and amazing sons (James and Jason), marrying my gracious, understanding and precious husband (Brian), and accepting the Lord Jesus Christ as my personal savior – I have done very little. None of which requires obit space that I have to shell out money for,” Sonia Todd began, explaining why she was writing her obituary and why it wouldn’t be like others.
Adding that she didn’t want a bunch of her loved ones sitting around to write a glowing report of her, which she says would be “filled with fish tales, half-truths, impossible scenarios, and out-right-honest-to-goodness-lies,” Sonia explained she simply didn’t like putting people in those kinds of situations. With the explanation out of the way, she got to her version of the truth about her own life.
“I just tried to do the best I could. Sometimes I succeeded, most of the time I failed, but I tried. For all of my crazy comments, jokes and complaints, I really did love people. The only thing that separates me from anyone else is the type of sin each of us participated in. I didn’t always do the right thing or say the right thing and when you come to the end of your life those are the things you really regret, the small simple things that hurt other people,” Sonia admitted.
Although she said that she mostly enjoyed life, she also said it wasn’t perfect and that she encountered many bumps in the road, especially in her teens and early 20s. Even though some parts of her life were harder than others, Sonia said, “I learned something from every bad situation and I couldn’t do any more than that.” She also claimed there were benefits to dying young. Jokingly, she wrote, “I still owe on my student loans and the jokes on them cuz I’m not paying them. Plus, I am no longer afraid of serial killers, telemarketers or the IRS.”Addressing the fact that some people have told her that writing her own obituary is morbid, Sonia Todd continued, “I think it is great because I get a chance to say thank you to all the people who helped me along the way. Those who loved me, assisted me, cared for me, laughed with me and taught me things so that I could have a wonderful, happy life. I was blessed beyond measure by knowing all of you. That is what made my life worthwhile.”
It was the conclusion of her obituary that was the most important, however. Sonia encouraged others to change their lives. “If you think of me, and would like to do something in honor of my memory do this: Volunteer at a school, church or library. Write a letter to someone and tell them how they have had a positive effect on your life. If you smoke – quit. If you drink and drive – stop,” she wrote.
Her advise continued, “Turn off the electronics and take a kid out for ice cream and talk to them about their hopes and dreams. Forgive someone who doesn’t deserve it. Stop at all lemonade-stands run by kids and brag about their product. Make someone smile today if it is in your power to do so.”
Today seems like a good day to honor Sonia’s memory by completing some of these simple requests and reminding others to do the same. Luckily for us, we still have time for these things. And, thankfully, with her dying wish, Sonia Todd left us these words of wisdom that few realize until it’s too late
Celine Dion Reveals Her Problem
In addition to giving her fans a major health update, Celine Dion announced that she would be delaying some of her tour dates until 2024.
A Message from Celine to You
“I’ve been dealing with health issues for quite some time, and it has been an immense challenge for me to confront these obstacles and discuss the journey I’ve been on,” Celine wrote in a poignant post on Instagram. She stated quite frankly that she will not be prepared to continue her European tour in February as originally scheduled.
A More Detailed Exam of Celine’s Health
Celine went on to describe her health in more detail, revealing that stiff person syndrome is a neurological ailment for which she has been diagnosed. Her illness is resulting in severe and incapacitating muscular spasms. It seems sense that Celine is giving her recuperation and wellbeing top priority by taking the required time.
Postponed Tour Dates
Fans may be disappointed by the announcement of the rearranged tour dates, but it’s evident that Celine’s health continues to come first. She is determined to make sure she fully recovers before going back on stage, as seen by her choice to postpone the European tour until 2024.
An Endearing Expression of Thanks
Celine thanked her fans for their steadfast support despite the difficulties she is now enduring. “I’m incredibly thankful for your love and understanding as I navigate through this difficult time,” she said in acknowledgment. This message demonstrates the close bond she has with her fan base.
Gazing Forward
Fans of Celine are supporting her with love and encouragement while she takes the time necessary to attend to her health issues. Fans are excitedly awaiting Celine’s victorious return to the stage since it is clear that her tenacity and willpower are just as amazing as her musical ability.
Assistance and Motivation
Fans and fellow artists have shown their support for Celine following her health update. The music business and her fans are aware of how important it is to put one’s health and wellbeing first.
Adaptability in the Face of Difficulties
Celine Dion’s experience with health issues serves as a reminder of her tenacity, which is what makes her unique. Even for a megastar of her caliber, her choice to postpone tour dates is a heartbreaking reminder of how important it is to take care of oneself.
Continue to Communicate
Fans may follow Celine on official platforms and social media as she sets out on her recuperation trip. Her perseverance and courage will surely inspire a great number of people who could also be dealing with health issues.
Wishing You Healing
Let’s band together to send Celine Dion our best wishes for recovery as she navigates the challenges presented by stiff person syndrome. Her experience serves as a reminder to all of us of the value of perseverance and self-care, and her bravery and candor continue to touch hearts around the globe.
A Consistent Signal of Assistance
To spread the love and support for Celine Dion, forward this update to your other friends and supporters. She continues to be a source of inspiration and strength for all of us as she makes these vital moves toward her recovery.
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